Today I lost a buddy, a buddy who has been there for me every single day for the last 12+ years. He was never one to put too many demands on my time, and rarely wanted to sit on my lap. That I always appreciated. He was always a gentleman amongst his peers, and a friend to almost everyone he met. Like with most friends, we went through a lot together. We must've taken over 8000 walks where we contemplated our troubles, although most were admittedly mine. Thinking back, I always did most of the talking. But in the end, he taught me much.
I'll always remember our first encounter at the Lane Avenue mall pet store and just how spunky and friendly he was. Then there was our last walk Thursday evening. Something felt different about that particular walk from jump. Our hearts connected, I think we both knew. Sparky, you were my dog and my friend. You'll be missed. I'll never forget you. I love you.
Your pal, ymmiJ
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Woke on time excited about the day ahead
Still cold – about 20 degrees
Exercise, walk Ykraps
Return for coffee, internet, meditation and stretching
Wake Mindy at 610am
Ran four miles – no problems
Breakfast: Eggs, toast, & OJ
Kids to the bus
Work rather tame – thankfully
Tied up several loose ends in preparation for my four-day weekend
Left early – 440pm
Dad at the house – got kids off the bus – Mindy worked late
I arrived home around 5pm
Dad reports that Rene dropped off her skis – placed in garage
Dad joins me walking Sparky – noticeably mild outside -above freezing for the 1st time all year
Sparky does #1 & #2 – great job!
Dad shares news regarding his latest health concern. Saw doctor – good results
Mindy fetches Minelli’s pizza, chicken sandwich, and meatball sub.
Review itinerary with Dad
He departs around 7pm
Finish packing - running clothes, electronics, decide to hold off loading Thule carrier until AM
Relax, pop popcorn and enjoy TV with Bella. Sparky enjoys popcorn with family
Tuck in kids around 845pm
Return downstairs finding Sparky lying seemingly too still – eyes wide open
He’s gone :(
I calmly call for Mindy – share news – onslaught of emotion & memories
Divert attention to TV but thinking only about Sparky
Mindy & I discuss plan. We’ll place him in the garage (cold) while we’re gone and bury him upon our return
We head to bed near 10pm – sleep very poorly
Sorry for your loss Jim. Don't watch "Marley & Me" any time soon.
ReplyDeleteYour friend,
Dave W