Spring in the Gorge

I made plans to meet David & Glenn for breakfast at 830am at the Red Lion restaurant for breakfast. To that end, I was up and out of bed by 6450am PDT. It was pitch dark in the room. I used my Galaxy III flashlight to organize my running gear. Headed out near 7am after waking Mindy and sharing our plan to meet Glenn and David at 830am. Immediately out the hotel door I was impressed with spring. Beautiful flowers everywhere and dark green grass. Wow! Spring had already sprung in the Couv! It was still a little chilly though, only 33 degrees. Still, I was very motivated for my run.

I ran along the Columbia River to the Ilchee, Moon Woman bronze statue located at the far end of the Columbia Shores condo complex, then back. Again, taking in all the lovely spring views. Great run! Back to the room just after 730am. I promptly organized myself for a shower. I think I took one ahead of Mindy but can’t be 100% certain. While waiting for the Jacob and Mindy to finish their ready, I took Bella on a walk around the nearby grounds pointing out the spring flora and then showing her the George Vancouver memorial as well as the Columbia River and the big green bridge. She was very impressed.

Back in the room, Mindy and Jacob were all but ready. Jacob shared that a cockroach flew out of the blow dryer when he went to use it. Gross! We loaded what little luggage we removed from the minivan for our brief overnight before heading inside for breakfast. David called just as we were loading our bags back into the minivan. Joined the two of them inside a minute later.

The restaurant is heavily decorated in a ship theme - very cool – and overlooks the mighty Columbia River. While waiting on coffee to arrive at our table, we took a gander out the corner window at the river and the green bridge. Popping up to feed every so often was a sea lion. Promptly called Bella over to get a glimpse. Didn’t disappoint. Everybody got to see him.

Breakfast was superb. Guessing it was near 10am when we finished eating. Planned a rough agenda with Glenn and David. First stop was Glenn’s place so he could run in and his cooler. Next, we headed to the newer Fred Meyer at Columbia Shores for a week’s worth of condo food. Once we dropped Mindy and the kids there, he, David and I made a quick run over to Les Schwab’s to buy some tire chains just in case we needed them later in the week on the mountain. Bottom line, if you don’t use them they are returnable after April 1 for a full refund. On the other hand, if they issue a traction devices required warning and you don’t have them, you are subject to a significant fine. Glenn agreed to make the purchase to make their return easier.

We made it back to the grocery with plenty of time to spare. Mindy was still shopping for groceries. We quickly added beer and liquor. David ended up grabbing and paying for all the liquor while Mindy got all the food. Next stop Council Crest, downtown Portland, our wedding venue. Followed Glenn up the winding road. The kids were impressed with the homes as well as the views.

Already about 1130am, it was warming up in a hurry. As such, the park was as crowded as I’ve ever seen it. Must’ve been at least 50 folks coming and going, milling about. Soon after our arrival, I exchanged a few texts with Tom Sheperd, who agreed to meet us there. We took in all the sights, including peering out at all four visible peaks: Rainer, St. Helen’s, Adam’s, & Hood. Tom S. showed up about 30-40 minutes later.

We made sure he knew that he was welcome to come stay at our condo and ski with us. Said he’d likely come up for one night – Saturday - and then ski on Sunday. Discussed the logistics. We planned to stop at the Portland Nike store, Multnomah, and Hood River. Tom elected to simply meet us later that afternoon at Collins Lake.

Spent an hour at Council Crest overlooking downtown Portland. We headed down the mountain and into downtown. Had a very difficult time finding a parking spot near the Nike store. Ended up parking about 3 or 4 blocks away, but it was such a lovely afternoon no one minded the walk. It was gorgeous!

Spent maybe an hour at the Nike store. Both kids got new shoes. Jacob actually got two pair, one purchased with his own money, the other an early birthday present. Off to Multnomah. Easy drive into the gorge. By then everybody was again hungry and both kids were belly aching about having to stop at Multnomah. But we managed their negativity fairly well. Soon they were oohing and ahhing at all the beautiful sights the gorge offers.

Quick drive. Multnomah was packed. Little wonder. It was such a gorgeous afternoon. We didn’t plan to stay long. Probably there 45 minutes tops. Of note, the concrete bridge about a third of the way up was closed due to boulder damage (fallen rock). We still hiked up the gate to the bridge and then took a handful of photos before turning for the parking lot and heading further up the gorge into Hood River where we planned to have lunch.

Somewhere between Multnomah and Hood River, I had Mindy call Collins Lake to learn about the late check-in process, since we figured not to be rolling in until somewhere close to 530-6pm.

Arrived at Hood River near 4pm. We still weren’t certain which brew pub to stop and have lunch. In the end, we settled on the Full Sail Tasting Room. Good choice! It provides the best views of the Columbia River. Quoted us a healthy wait – like 45 minutes. But in reality, it couldn’t have been more than 10 minutes. Sweet!

Because I was driving, I planned to have just one beer. Opted for porter on nitro. We shared a number of appetizers, and then most others ordered entrees. I wasn’t that hungry and opted to pick at Mindy and Bella’s plates. Pretty sure that David picked up the lunch tab, too. Thanks David! Must’ve been about 5pm when we pulled out of Hood River.

Taking the back way into Govy Camp is a gorgeous drive through the orchards of Hood River County with Hood in the background. Bella was a little spooked by its ominous size when Mindy pointed out more than once that we’d be skiing on it the following morning. I tried to emphasize that it doesn’t look nearly that bad once you’re on it. Easy for me to say, I know.  Given the lovely spring weather, it was a very easy drive into Govy Camp. Not even a sniff of snow cover until we were closing in on Mt Hood Meadows. The last few miles were very exciting as we merged off of highway 35 onto 26 and eventually rolling into Govy Camp. Ahhh – feels so good! As Shannon shared earlier, the office was closed. There was a realtor lock on our condo door with keys inside (self-check-in).

Just about the time we were lugging in our gear, Darwin sent a text sharing that he and Brad were off to the grocery and would be gone for the next couple hours. Jacob went looking for Lane but couldn’t find him. It wasn’t until an hour or so later when the rest of us were heading to the hot tub that he finally found him our playing in the snow.

While we were in the hot tub Tom Sheperd showed up. He dropped his gear at the condo then promptly joined the rest of us at the hot tub. Once back from the grocery store, Darwin came by in his civies just to say hello. Said he’d be down to join us in a little while, but we warned that by then we’d almost certainly be done.

I’m thinking that it was near 9pm PDT when Mindy and I headed back to the condo. And before long, everybody other than Glenn, Tom and I were in bed. I stayed up talking with Glenn and Tom until almost 10pm. By then I was overcome with the sleepies.

Off to Find the Soft Stuff!

I was up near 530am. For the first time in a really, really long time, I’d be working at the main office on a Friday. My boss requested as much Thursday evening so we could collaborate on a project. Of all the days. As such, I knocked out my run before 715am just like the old days. What’s more, I was in the shower before seeing Bella on the bus and left for work shortly thereafter. Arrived at work around 820am, which is the earliest I’ve been in the office in a long while.

With my boss’s blessing, I worked from the main office through about 1245pm, but then headed home to finish out my work day there. Our flight was set to depart CMH at 550pm but we wanted to be at the airport by 4pm if at all possible. All things considered, it was a lovely afternoon, bright, sunny and about 64 degrees.

At home I joined an important call at 2pm. It lasted about an hour. While on the call, Mindy and Jacob arrived home. My dad showed up to shuttle us to the airport too. He was early. After my call, I lugged all the suitcases to the foyer area and took care of a few last minute details, including reviewing my pack list to make sure that everything I needed was accounted for. Mindy and my dad sat on the deck soaking up the sunshine while waiting for Bella to get home.

It must’ve been around 330pm when we loaded our luggage into dad’s minivan. All we needed was for Bella to get home. I powered down my home PC about the time that Bella got off the bus. While she readied for our trip, I set my out-of-office away message, which felt terrific. Always does.

On the road for the airport by 355pm. Traffic getting to the freeway entrance was slow, plus I think we got stopped at every light. Happily, though, once we got onto to the freeway is was smooth sailing all the way across town to the airport. To make it easier on all of us, we checked our luggage with curbside check-in. While keeping a watchful eye on our eight bags, my dad pulled away. Didn’t even get to say goodbye. Mindy said she did.

We already had our boarding passes printed from home. We headed straight to security and our gate. Fairly early – 430pm. Everybody was hungry. Agreed to head into Chili’s for some dinner. Very warm! I ordered a turkey club with bacon. Yum! I could eat only half. Mindy had a burger. She ate only half of hers too. We weren’t at the gate long before the boarding process began.

We had good boarding numbers which all but insured we could sit together, but the only problem was, we couldn’t agree on seating arrangements. Ended up with Bella in a window seat, me in the middle, and Jacob on the aisle. Mindy took a seat just in front of us. Bella was nervous. It helped me pointing out all sorts of landmarks on the rather short flight into Chicago. Most notably, I pointed out MRM, which was fairly easy to spot – the only land mass still covered in snow. Very tinny from 20,000 ft. though.

Landed in Chicago an hour later, or 6pm CDT. Quite a bit more snow on the ground there, plus it was clouding up in a hurry. We had to change concourses for the Portland leg of our flight. And wouldn’t you know, we were at the far end of the A concourse and had to walk to the far end of the B concourse. Good workout.

We stood around for maybe 10 minutes before they started the boarding process. Mindy continued her dialogue with a couple teachers her were on our flight. The boarding process was slowed dramatically due to a handful of handicapped passengers needing assistance. No problem.

This time it was Bella, Mindy, and then Jacob. I took the aisle seat just across from them. Sat next to two nice looking women, but none of us were chatty. The Chicago to Portland flight is 4+ hours. Ugh! I spent the majority of the time reading and napping, though initially I couldn’t locate my Kindle. Took af ew minutes before I remembered sticking in the seat back pocket just before take-off. Checked the SWA flight tracker a few times too. The first 2.5 hours of the flight seemed to take forever, but the last 90 minutes went pretty quick. Landed at 940pm PDT.

Exchanged a few texts with Glenn and David. They were beering at the Joe’s Crab Shack next door to our hotel. Mindy rented a cart for our luggage. Took some doing but we found our way to the Thrifty shuttle area. Before we got to Thrifty and picked up our rental minivan, Glenn sent a text sharing a venue change. They were now at the Quay bar, which is located in the Red Lion we were overnighting at.
Relatively short drive from the airport to Vancouver – about 10 miles. Arrived at our hotel near 11pm PDT (2am EDT). Mindy and the kids were really tired. They all leaped into bed while I rushed off to meet up with Glenn and David at the Quay bar hoping to enjoy at least one PNW IPA before bed.

There they were, sitting at the bar grinning ear to ear. Hugs to both. David quickly insisted on buying me a beer. Opted for an Elysian IPA from Seattle. It was good. Sitting right next to the two of them was a nice looking, shapely blonde. She made it abundantly clear that she wanted to dance. None of us bit. I simply explained that if Mindy happened in she would not be happy. David and I both tried getting Glenn to do it, but I knew he wouldn’t, despite a seemingly easy score.

Seeing my beer empty, David insisted I have one more. What the heck. I had another Elysian IPA. David soon hooked the nice looking blonde up with another young man who had just recently come into the bar. They headed out to the dance floor in a hurry. They might’ve danced to one song before disappearing into the night.

Called it a night after an hour or so. Both David & Glenn shared how tired they were. Little wonder, they skied all day and then partied all night. I was sleepy, too. To my head it was 315am, and I’m never up that late. I’ll bet I was asleep not 5 minutes after my head hit the pillow.

Hello Spring

After a fun, but long, cold and snowy winter it's good to see spring.

Last full day of Winter

I was up and out of bed by 555am. That extra 5 minutes made a huge difference. Downstairs I started the coffee maker (still not using the autobrew feature after Monday's coffee make explosion) then completed calisthenics. It was Wednesday which meant it was a push-up day. Aside from a minor catch in my left wrist, all went well. Delivered Mindy's coffee by 610am and was soon back downstairs enjoying some for myself.

I would be working across town at a customer's campus and planned to be there by 9am. To that end, I wanted to leave for my run no later than 7am. Was actually well ahead of that. Finished playing around 630am and then meditated, stretched and dressed for a run over the next 10-15 minutes. Got out the door around 650am, or before Jacob needed to head out to the bus stop. A couple of his peers were already there waiting. The bus whizzed by just as I completed my warm-up lap. Jacob in turn, was just coming out of the house as I ran past again.

It was fairly warm for so early in the AM - about 45 degrees. Rain was forecasted to move in to the area within the next couple of hours but it was dry at the time. The temperature was forecasted to top out near 50 degrees. I ran the full 4.1 miles and I am happy to report that I felt even better than I did the morning before. Mindy was still at the house. The Pilot was warming in the driveway.

Mindy was on her way out just as I was headed in. Kisses and hugs. Inside, I promptly leashed up the pug then headed out on our walk. Back at the house by 740am. Bella was busy making sure the pug had food & water. As she does almost every other day, she headed upstairs for final grooming of herself and her room while I enjoyed my cheesy scrambled eggs.

I was off to the shower by 745am, the earliest in a while. Bella was out the door for the bus shortly after I was out of the shower. In kind, I was downstairs and ready to head off to work by 820am. I still needed to pack my lunch. I did that over the next 5 minutes or so. Enjoyed a cup of coffee then headed out. Must've been around 840am when I backed out the driveway.

Started raining just about the time I merged onto the freeway and by the time I arrived at the customer's site it was pouring. Good thing I had my umbrella in the back. Made decent time, arriving on site near 9am. Had about 90 minutes before the monthly presentation. Took care of several smaller tasks before the meeting. My boss and a peer showed up for the cause too. Presentation went well, but then again, it usually does. Went almost an hour. My boss headed back across town to the main office immediately afterwards. I simply got back to work. Thought about taking a lunch but opted not. Kept busy instead.

According to others who went out for lunch, it was raining for the better of the entire work day. Exchanged a couple texts with Mindy. She shared that Jimaken and Molly agreed to take care of both kid events that night - Jacob to his first soccer practice and Bella to gymnastics pictures. That meant we could have date night after all. Frankly, I was a little surprised, and pleasantly so. In kind, Mindy suggested CBC. OK by me.

Stayed busy at work until near 420pm. After working straight through, decided to head home a little early. Left brother Tommy a VM on my drive home, a last ditched attempt to get him to come with us. Talked with Mindy briefly too. Said that Jimaken picked the kids up a little earlier than usual. I got home near 450pm. The drive left me sleepy. I excused myself to the livingroom recliner for a quick nap. And to help fall asleep, I read for a few minutes. Worked better than a pacifier. Out! Slept for no more than 10 minutes but woke completely refreshed.

We both tidied up a little then headed off to CBC agreeing to take the Pilot. Arrived before 6pm. Parked in the lot directly across the street. Standing room only at the bar. Warmly greeted by staff, some working and some there simply for pleasure. The owner Doug was there among them and there to greet us. The girls marveled over Mindy's purple hair. Bodhi on tap! Kate poured us both one. Thinking we stood for a good 15-20 minutes before a couple stools finally came free.

We'd already enjoyed some freshly baked bread. Man did it hit the spot. We eventually ordered food, some spinach artichoke dip and later some wings for me and a burger for Mindy. Ordered a 2nd beer, too, This I went with Uncle Rusty. Pretty good - different. I probably won't' order it again but it was a interesting change of pace.

There for about 2 hours. Mindy picked up the check. Took half her burger and half my wings home in a to-go carton. Arrived home near 8pm. Still no kids. Jimaken sent a few texts from Bella's gymnastics pictures event. Sounded like there was a scary dude peeping around checking out the girls in the tights. Yuck! Jacob apparently grew so tired of the event that he went to wait in the car. Oh yeah, his first soccer practice was canceled due to rain.

Kids were home by 815-820pm. I read for the remainder of the evening getting through all of chapter nine before calling it a night and heading to bed. Wasn't much later than 910pm when I crawled into bed.

Sick Sigmund

I slept rather soundly. I was up and out of bed by 605am. I purposefully didn’t set the coffee maker to auto fearing a recurrence of Monday’s coffee debacle. Instead, I hit the go button just as was passing through on my way to the living room to start calisthenics. It was Tuesday, which meant that I whipped out sit-ups, windmills, and curls. Poured coffee for both Mindy and I near 625am. It was 630am by the time I was back downstairs to enjoy coffee of my own. Coffee pours much better with the new carafe lid, which was the culprit all along.

Played on the internet for about 15 minutes. Engaged in a stretch and meditation shortly thereafter. Jacob was sitting on the steps waiting to see his bus zoom by before heading out. He headed out just before I finished my stretch routine. And by the time I was dressed for a run it was after 7am. I headed upstairs for two reasons, one to get the running shirt I mistakenly left on the side of the soaking tub, and to bid Mindy farewell. Given the time there wasn’t any way that she’d still be home when I got back.

It was about 30 degrees and mostly clear. I dressed appropriately, if anything, erring towards being a little chilly. It was expected to make into the mid 50s with sunshine during the afternoon. Calling for rain on Wednesday. Spring is definitely in the air. Happy to share that my legs felt much better though I still felt a little tuckered at the outset. I ran the full 4.1 miles.

Got back home around 745am and promptly leashed up the pug, who was waiting patiently by the door. Our walk was brief but fruitful. Back home by 752am. Enjoyed the eggs and toast Mindy had waiting for me. I gave one holler to Bella around 755am just to make sure that she remained task. Said she was.

Even though it was Tuesday, I planned to work from the main office all day. I was enrolled in a 2-hour Six Sigma class which was scheduled to begin at 10am. I hoped to be at the office by 9am if at all possible As soon as Bella was on the bus, I was off to the shower for a quick ready. After a shower, I packed some nuts, cheese, veggies, and fruit then left for work. Got out the door by 840am. MY car windows were partially frosted over but nothing a little windshield juice wouldn’t cure.

Arrived at the office near 9am. And as a consequence, I had nearly a full hour to knock a handful of miscellaneous tasks before the training started. Headed down for the training at 945am. The class was 2-hours long and very informative. Having been through several quality process initiatives in my career, and some very good ones, I have to say that Six Sigma seems to have more meat.

The class wrapped up near noon. Toyed briefly with the idea of hurrying across town to make our standing 1pm technical meeting with a client but in the end I decided to simply join via conference bridge remotely from the office. Between then and the call, I received a group text from Ken’s wife sharing some really good news. She said that he was able to sit up on the side of his bed that morning. Moreover, the doctor had decided to send Ken directly to rehab at Dodd Hall, completely bypassing the step-down IUC process. Awesome! I quickly responded asking if she had a date for the move. Within the hour she shared that it would likely be Wednesday.

I joined the 1pm technical meeting via bridge. Not the same as being there but informative and meaningful nonetheless. Spent the afternoon reviewing my monthly presentation which I’d be presenting the following day. Talked with Mindy around 3pm. I had my cell on silent but just happened to glance down and saw her call coming in. It was just before 3pm and she was already on her way home. It was one of those rare days when she got out of the building right after the kids left. Among other things, I shared the news about Ken. I also reminded her that the Orkin man was supposed to come by the house for our March application. Unless I’m mistaken, there is only one more visit left on our contract.

She shared that after dropping Bella at gymnastics that she’d be taking Jacob to be measured for his tux as well as stopping to get him some new sweat pants. Apparently he’s grown out of his others again. She added that I’d be on my own dinner wise and still would need me to fetch Bella after gymnastics.

We had our standing staff call at 415pm, and the call lasted about 30 minutes. A few minutes later I wrapped up what I was doing and headed for home. I think it was 452pm when I started my car. And since I talked with Mindy within the last couple hours, I decided to call my mom instead. Haven’t spoken with her since our Utah trip when she managed to alienate herself from Mindy by making some inappropriate comments about Jacob & Bella.

Ronald answered the phone and quickly handed me off to mom. Sounded good. We exchanged a few pleasantries and talked a little bit about our Oregon trip. After a couple minutes or so I broached the Utah phone conversation topic. She either doesn’t remember exactly she said or simply opted to skirt around it. In the end, I only shared that one has to be careful not to alienate themselves for everyone. Her point was only that she cares about Lindsey’s wellbeing and wants me (us) to help take care of her.

We chatted about a few other things, including her health. Said her most recent appointment for being short of breath netted nothing concrete. I suspect that her symptoms might be psychosomatic. Unlike the last, we ended our call cordially.

It was only 520pm. Mindy, Bella and Jacob didn’t need to leave for another 20 minutes. Mindy was busy with report cards and a couple other things. To help out, I made Bella a breakfast burrito for dinner – her choice. Just before all of them headed out, we collectively carried in and up all the skis, board, boots and poles so I could pack them for our trip. My goal was to have all of that taken care of before the evening’s end. Once everything was in the living room Mindy and the kids bolted.

Didn’t take me long to get it all packed. A finding myself still with lots of energy, I decided to further my personal packing by gathering the rest of the clothing I’ll be taking. About the only thing left to prep will be my preferred running attire. Just about set. While staying busy with trip related tasks, I snacked on some good cheese and sadly even a few Cheezits (not good for me). I also took a few minutes to load up my BB air rifle and headed out on the deck to take a few pot shots at my annual spring nemesis – rats with wings.

Spent some time online doing both a little work and pleasure. Almost forgot that I was expected to go after Bella. Earlier, while organizing for our trip I changed into my PJs. Oops! Come 705pm I quickly slipped out of my PJs and into my running pants. I left to get Bella at 715pm. Got there almost too quickly. Got to see Bella do several passes on the double-mini. The first I saw was by far the best. The rest were a little crooked. By then I think her concentration was elsewhere – on heading home.

Immediately out the door she asked if we could stop at McDs on the way home. Mindful of to wanting to say no too much, I agreed. We stopped at the McDs nearest our home. Since Jacob and Mindy were out shopping I was certain they’d stop for food since we didn’t’ have dinner, so I only ordered something for Bella – chicken nuggets and fries.

Mindy & Jacob were already home when we arrived, which had to be about 750pm. It was still light outside but fading fast. Jacob was out practicing his soccer kicks since spring practice officially begins Wednesday. I jokingly told Bella to hurry up and finish her McDs so Jacob would be none the wiser. Before she finished, I headed to the living room to read. Mindy, by the way, was upstairs packing for our trip.

She was downstairs and Jacob back inside by 815pm. Jacob didn’t’ say a word about Bella’s McDs. He did, however, ask Mindy to prep him a breakfast burrito. He loves those things. After Mindy obliged Jacob’s request, she joined me in the livingroom in the opposing recliner. She brought her book and glasses. After about 20 minutes of up and down and then some talking I finally shared that she was making too much noise – distracting me from my quiet reading time. Mindy knew that she was making an inordinate amount of noise but briefly tried to justify it by sharing that she hadn’t had an opportunity to lay eyes on me all day. She ultimately took her stuff and moved to the kitchen table where there was already plenty of other ambient noise.

At 9pm I wrapped up chapter 8 and then announced that I was heading up to bed. I was very much looking forward to a good night of sleep.

Lack of Green - Coffee Explosion

After lying in bed and unable to fall asleep late Sunday evening, I got up again around midnight and had a bowl of cereal and played on the internet until I felt sufficiently sleepy enough to fall easily asleep. Worked like a charm. Of course, the down side is that I didn’t get back to bed until almost 1am, and no matter how much napping I did the evening before I figured to be ultra-tired come rise time Monday AM.

That was indeed the case. 6am came around fast and I didn’t want to get up. I laid there until 610am which is when I forced myself up and out of bed for good. Downstairs, I slowly completed calisthenics then finally went for coffee near 625am. As soon as I grabbed the coffee I realized right away that something was amiss. It was far too light. At first I thought perhaps I forgot to hit the go button, but it instead it was about ½ full. Uh-oh! Soon noticed spent coffee grounds scattered near and around the coffee maker. And then on closer inspection I noticed actual coffee spilt everywhere too. Dammit! The return of the exploding coffee maker!

I was incensed. Knowing from experience how daunting a clean-up task it is, I almost uncontrollably blurted out all sorts of expletives. Not only was the coffee and coffee grounds all over the counter top but it was in the cabinet drawer, in the lower cabinet, and in all the bowls and kitchen implements stowed there. Of course, it was all over the tile floor too. What a mess!

It was important to keep my priorities in check, which was to troubleshoot for the cause and then start a new pot. Once that was underway, I began the arduous clean-up. Before the mishap, my plan was to run early and be at work before 9am. However, I knew the clean-up process alone would take at least 45 minutes and I couldn’t bear to leave it wait until later, or worse yet do half a job.

I pulled every utensil from the drawer and gave them all a blast of hot steamy water. I then rinsed and cleaned the drawer itself. Next, I pulled everything from the cabinet underneath, cleaning and rinsing each piece. Removed all the shelf/drawer liners too and rinsed them. What a mess. And because we stow our toaster after use, there were so many toast crumbs in the cabinet below the liner and presently soaked in coffee. It was nasty! Cleaned it all.

Jacob came down and grabbed his lunch but said nothing. Mindy came down after a shower to fetch some coffee. She gave me a hug and thanked me for cleaning it up. It was 715-20am by the time I finished. And by the way, I left everything, and I mean everything out to dry on the kitchen table. If there was a silver lining it was this, reorganizing (think throwing away useless stuff from our cabinet). It was also all I needed to deal with to fetch the new coffee maker lid from the basement and finally deploy it. I’ve had it for at least 6-8 months, or since the last go round with the coffee maker exploding. It wasn’t until I had ordered the part that I discovered the old one was simply clogged and came apart.

Finally enjoyed a little coffee and internet around 735am. Now, I wouldn’t get to my run until after seeing Bella on the bus. In kind, that meant I wouldn’t likely make it into the office until 10am at the earliest. I was already logged onto my laptop and had been all weekend. I took care of a few small items early on, but nothing too important to deal with.

Just before Mindy left for school, I heard Bella tell her that she thought the coffee maker exploding was funny. I could’ve gotten angry but knew she didn’t mean it in a spiteful way. Instead, just funny to a kid. I get it!

I stretched, meditated, dressed for a run, and walked the dog before Bella was off to catch the bus. My plan was to run as soon as she was gone. I headed out the door at 805am. By the way, it was plenty cold, and only 18 degrees. Expecting it to warm into the low 40s by the afternoon, and then reach into the 50s each day through the end of the week. Just needed to get through this one last cold morning.:)

I was tempted to go with a base layer and extra fleece, but after overheating a couple mornings of late, I opted not. Of course I did go with the hand and ear covers as well as two wicking shirts. That proved just about right for the temp and breeze. I was comfortable throughout. And I could tell a big difference in my calves, especially the left. No longer was it tight. The right one was better too, but perhaps just a tad stiff. For that I was encouraged and ran the full 4.1 miles.

Back home by 845am, I decided to get a shower ahead of making my breakfast and lunch. Of course that doesn’t save any time but instead just felt better. Downstairs again shortly after 9am I made my breakfast and packed my lunch. Enjoyed a cup of coffee before heading off to work. Exchanged an email with my boss before leaving the house too. Arrived at the office near 10am.

Early on, my boss and I agreed to make a mid-day visit to the hospital to see Ken. It took care of a few dangling to-dos an hour or so before we headed out. I drove. My boss is fairly tall. Hardly a comfortable ride even with the seat slid back.  Both Ken and his bed were gone when we got to the hospital. I immediately – and wrongfully – assumed he had been transferred to the regular step-down ICU unit. Instead, one of the many nurses gathered at the nurses station shared that he was off for testing and should be back within the hour. Geesh, wasn’t sure we could stick around that long, but I offered that we venture into his room where I could leave a note in the book that Spencer made for his guests to sign.

While crafting a brief note, Lori, his wife came in. We talked with Lori for a while agreeing to stick around for another 15-20 minutes before heading back. A few minutes later the pastor from their church, Grove City Nazarene stopped by to see Ken, too. And then a couple minutes later Ken was wheeled back into the room.

He appeared to be out but not a minute after locking down the wheels he opened his eyes and engaged us in conversation. Updates were very positive, starting to show signs of pain sensation and crude movement on his left side. Talked for a while. We learned that his parents were in the waiting room. Not wanting to hog ken all to ourselves, we bidded Ken farewell, stopping by the waiting room to greet his parents on our way out.

Before exiting the hospital, I stopped in the gift shop to get change for parking. Headed back to the office arriving near 115pm. I stayed busy for the remainder of the afternoon. Left for home around 510pm or shortly after talking with Mindy. Reminded me that we’d be having pork roast for dinner. Called David on my drive home. Asked if he was ready for our trip. They’ve been enjoying some nice spring weather down his way the past couple weeks – sunshine and mid 70s. In fact, he was out on his boat on Saturday, I believe. Happened to be cold and rain on Monday. Says it’ll do that all winter long – back and forth.

Dinner was ready shortly after my arrival home. Hollered more than once for the kids to come home. They were both down at the O’Connell’s. Enjoyed our dinner together. Mindy informed the kids that we’d be having a family meeting just after dinner. Bella seemed the most bothered with the notion.  We intended to clear the air regarding what constitutes a clean bedroom. We also talked a little bit about the rest of our week. Mindy and I were surprised that the kids offered next to zero pushback. Jacob even acknowledged his bedroom cleaning prowess along with his shoe issues – leaving them anywhere/everywhere. Jacob headed back outside after dinner. Mindy made an after dinner run to Target to pick-up a few things she needed/wanted for our trip. I’m pretty sure that one of the kids went along, and I think it was Bella. While they were gone, I did a little bit of packing prep, organizing my casual and ski clothes in a laundry basket.

I updated my Excel trip prep list too. Without it, I don’t know how I’d ever do it. Once I was satisfied with my trip prep progress I kicked back in the recliner for some reading. Mindy was back from Target pm near 8pm. Bella and I enjoyed some popcorn in the livingroom while watching a little Big Bang. We all headed for bed around 930pm.

Tall Timbers

I slept in until almost 8am. Gone was the brilliant sunshine we enjoyed on Saturday. In addition, it was below freezing again too. It was only 28 degrees. I started coffee then headed to my PC. I checked in with work. Nothing requiring my attention. Hooray!

We had plans to go to Tall Timbers for a Wedding open house with Ashley around noon. The primary purpose of the visit was to reserve her preferred wedding date and then make a down payment. Ashley was supposed to be at our house around 1145am. We weren’t sure if Steven and/or Olivia would be joining us, too.

I left for a run around 9am. I was careful not to overdress, not wanting to overheat. I was stiff but better than the day before. Mindy was up by the time of my return. I promptly leashed up the pug then headed out for a walk. There was a very chilly breeze blowing in from the NE.

Once back at home I whipped up breakfast for Mindy & I, making a spinach, cheese, and sweep pepper omelet. At the same time, I made a plain omelet for the pug. Finished breakfast and kitchen clean-up by 1045am. We had an hour before Ashley was expected to show up. We took a brief nap before getting showers. Steven & Ashley showed up near noon. Ashley shared that Olivia was at a neighbors birthday party. We left for the wedding open house by 1230pm. I drove the Accord.

Hadn’t been to Tall Timbers in Reynoldsburg since a Time Warner summer picnic maybe 25 years prior. I knew roughly where it was. Didn’t bother Googling it. We took 70-E to 270N to Broad St. Whoops! It’s actually on Main St. We took Broad St or RT 16 east to Taylor Rd. Still had to head east on Main St a couple miles. Had to be near 1pm when we arrived at the wedding open house. The lot was chalked full of cars. Frankly, I was a little surprised. I think Ashley was worried that they might give away her preferred date if she didn’t get there early and handover a deposit.

I guess I hadn’t considered what the open house would be like, and apparently Steven felt the same. Both of us were a little surprised to discover that it was show full of wedding vendors on hand to market their services at Tall Timbers facility. It was like a min convention complete with florists, DJ and photography services. Many other services too. Of course, Tall Timbers provides the venue and the catering.

After we were there for an hour or so, Ashley shard that she finally secured an appointment with one of the Tall Timbers wedding planners, where they would answer any questions and ultimately draft up a contract for the services. Glad Mindy was there with us. She had as many or more questions than Ashley. Once all of our questions were answered we did the contract and I wrote a check for the deposit. After 3 days, should Ashley and Steven change their minds, the deposit money is lost. I made sure they knew that if that happened they would be responsible for paying me back. 

The venue is nice. If it were me - which I realize it isn’t - I would’ve have chosen a venue closer to home, like Darby park or park along the downtown waterfront. Still, Tall Timbers is nice, and as long as it’s a warm, sunny mid-June morning, it should be just fine. It was after 230pm when we made our way back to the Accord. Still, cloudy, cool and brisk.

Took 270S and was planning to jump off on 70W. Somehow missed the exit so we took 270 all the way around. Easy drive. Back at our house by 3pm. Ashley & Steven went right from our car to their own. They needed to pick-up Olivia from a birthday party.

I had a snack and then did some reading and took a nap. I woke when Jimaken dropped off the kids. Both of which went bonkers when they saw their mother’s purple hair. Jacob was especially distraught since one of his school friends was coming over to play basketball that afternoon. Thought he might crawl into a ball and hide.  The boy showed up with his mother, who apparently used to teach with Mindy but who is now a principal. They chatted for a while.

Still sleepy, once the mother departed, I headed up to our room where I took a longer, much quieter nap. I actually slept until almost 7pm. Jacob’s friend’s mother came back to get him around 715pm, but stayed for at least 20 minutes talking with Mindy. I waited until she left to rejoin the family downstairs. After lots of napping, not only was I hungry but well rested too. I reheated some leftover chicken artichoke pasta and had a garden salad, too. Yum! My hunger finally satiated, I headed to my PC and ultimately back to my Kindle where I recently finished Robert Wright’s, The Evolution of God. Wanting to have another book, especially for our upcoming trip, I searched Amazon for something similar that interested me. I am definitely drawn to learning the roots of religion and for that matter, God. It makes so much sense understanding how our world’s many-faith based belief systems evolved. In fact, I found that book so interesting that I searched and bought one along those same lines, though this one a bit more focused. It’s titled, Zealot- The Life & Times of Jesus of Nazareth. I read the preface for free before deciding it worthy of my time, attention and dollars.

I couldn’t put it down. Read the first four chapters before finally heading up to bed around 11pm. By then, Mindy had been in bed for more than 90 minutes. However, she was still awake and unable to fall asleep.

Yoga Yucky

Slept till 730am. Clear start to the morning. Got coffee going then headed to my computer. Not a lot going on. Finally had some coffee in hand just ahead of 8am. Mindy was going to breakfast with her friend Teri and then going to a hair appointment. She was up and out the door by 930am. Said she didn’t expect to be home until 2pm-ish.

I thought I might head back to the 1145am Saturday yoga class in Grandview but not before getting in a
run. I headed out for that shortly after Mindy left. It was about 40 degrees and sunny. Like most Saturday’s, I ran 3 miles. Took a lot out of me again. My lower legs were stiff and tight. I had no zip or bounce.

Back from my run a little after 10am, I enjoyed more coffee and woofed down half a banana. Because I was going to yoga, I didn’t want to eat anything too substantial, especially after nearly getting sick the last time I was there. Did some writing for my blog, too. It didn’t make any sense to get a shower since I’d be working up another sweat at yoga. I did, however, take a “Brian Tippler”, washing my pits and putting on some deodorant. Left for yoga at 1115am, this time making sure to take a towel and bottled water. Of course I took my yoga mat too.

By design, I arrived early. Dan, I think is the goys name usually at the counter. He asked if I was Jay. Nope. His second guess was Jimmy. Yes. He asked why Mindy wasn’t there. I was one of the first in the class. But just like last time, it was a full class – about 20 folks. Same instructor as last time. Heather, I think is her name.

Inside the large yoga room, it was again on the warm side again, and in the back of my mind was how poorly I felt after the last yoga class. I was hopeful that wouldn’t happen again. Soon the 75 minute session was underway. Comparing the two, I’d say this one was a bit more low-key, but still intense. Intense enough that I was dripping with sweat and trying to catch my breath at every turn. I still can’t believe how quickly yoga zaps my energy reserves. And once again, I got to feeling a little queasy but not nearly as quickly and as badly as the first time in. However, by the end of the 75 minute session, I found myself craving the feeling of cool fresh air on my face. Like last time, I hustled out of the studio and out to my car.

It was 115pm by the time I arrived home. It was still sunny and about 50 degrees. Very nice! All I could think about was getting inside and lying down. Same thing happened last time. Not sure if it’s the physical exertion or what? I took a chewable Tums then laid down in bed for about 45 minutes. Of that, I might’ve fallen asleep for 15-20 minutes. I felt much better after the rest and headed downstairs where I made myself a burrito.

I didn’t want to let the lovely afternoon slip away without doing something productive in the yard. Decided to head out and hack back more of the honeysuckle bushes along the waterway. This time I used my chainsaw. Some of the branches I was cutting were 3” in diameter. The chainsaw worked far better, faster than the giant loppers. And like every other time, it always looks like far more material lying on the ground than it does standing tall and erect. I only cut back two large bushes but on the ground it looked like an entire tree.

Mindy was home between 230-3pm complete with purple hair. I asked her to come out and show me the new do. Wow! That’s purple! Before she headed back inside I asked for her help hauling the honeysuckle back to the compost pile. She went in to change into clothes more fitting for the task at hand.

We wisely left most of the cuttings intact for hauling unless the branches were too big or wide for easy dragging. We hauled about half the load back to the tree house area before cutting it up further and then heaving it onto the existing compost pile which now forms a wall about 5’ high stretching across the entire back of our lot line against a storm drain and the woods. Before I started the wall of compost some 5 or 6 years ago, the tree house area would flood after a big rain storm. Not anymore. And actually, we’ve stretched the compost wall across the neighbor’s property too. In all, we must’ve spent about 2 hours, cutting, hauling and stacking the honeysuckle. Mindy headed in for a shower while I cleaned the chainsaw and put away the tools. Still at least another afternoon’s worth of trimming we want to do, but it can wait.

Earlier, Mindy asked what I wanted to do that evening. She suggested dinner at CBC. I quickly countered with staying home, making homemade pizza and enjoying some of the craft beers we have on hand. But at that point we hadn’t fully committed either way.

I laid in the bed watching TV while Mindy showered and primped. She took her dear old time, or nearly a full hour. I got a shower after she was done. I had to stink. I ran three miles, did yoga, and then worked in the yard.

By 6pm we were in full agreement to enjoy a relaxing evening at home. At my request, Mindy put some White Rajah’s in the freezer. After a shower I put a rocket of Hop Henge in the fridge, too. Part of our agreement to stay home, I offered to make a homemade pizza and salad. Early on in the process, we discovered that we were out of pepperoni. Last I checked we had like three packages in the fridge and pantry. Unlike the last time we made a pizza, this time we used a deep dish pizza crust mix. Mindy agreed to make a quick trip to Kroger to get more pepperoni.

Pizza and salad were ready by 7pm. Instead of using a pizza pan, we used the stone muffin pan. Worked well. The pizza was really good. Mindy enjoyed a White Rajah while I enjoyed the Hop Henge. Haven’t had one of those since our Bachelor ski trip some three years prior. It was good.

Mindy had just the one beer. After finishing off the rocket of Hop Henge I enjoyed a White Rajah. Laid back evening and a rather early bedtime too. In bed by 10pm.

Dress Not Quite the Same

I slept in until almost 630am. Mindy was up before me again and poured her own coffee. She was back up for a shower just as I was heading downstairs to exercise. I did sit-ups, wind mills and push-ups, after which I felt wide awake. I planned on working from home which meant I wouldn't be running until after 8am.

Started working around 7am, first completing a quick weekly report for one of my clients. Mindy and Bella were downstairs around 715am. Mindy soon headed out to warm her Pilot even though it was fairly warm. At the time it was near freezing but also bright and sunny. Expected it to warm nicely and into the low 60s by midafternoon. Mindy was soon off to school while Bella headed back upstairs to finish her ready. And Bella was out the door to catch the bus at 8am sharp.

A few minutes later I completed a thorough meditation and stretch then slipped into my running clothes and headed out to walk the pug. She took her dear old time sniffing everything in sight. In the end she only pooped even though I knew she needed to pee. Before heading off on my run I made sure that all the bedroom doors were closed so she could sneak off and pee in one of them.

It was Friday so I ran just three miles. Couldn't ask for better conditions: cool and sunny. I wasn't over dressed either, however, despite ideal conditions, the three mile run took its toll. I was gassed and stiff throughout. The last half mile was probably the best I'd felt. Not really sure why all my runs have felt so laborious of late. I do know that it happens a few times each year where I simply have to gut out the runs for a couple weeks until I get to a better place. On a positive note, I have no nagging pain or injuries bothering me whatsoever.

By run's end, the weather was already shaping up quite nicely. I briefly took Eiknarf out back in part so I could enjoy the warm sunshine and also so she could have a second whack at going pee. Success! Inside I was quickly back to work. Instead of a couple eggs I made a burrito. Yum!

During a midmorning break, I prepped our snow skis and Jacob's board for our ski trip by not only cleaning them but also cleaning up the edges and then applying some wax. It didn't take that long at all - 20-25 minutes. Work was busy. I spent a great deal of time on a problem that carried over from the day before. Not only that, but I was covering for a peer who's on vacation, although work from his client didn't surface until much later in the day.

Around 1pm I used what I'll call my lunch hour to haul the honey suckle cuttings from a week ago back to the compost/brush pile at the rear of our property. Always exhaustive work lugging large branches through the lawn and then chopping and stacking it. Was most pleased that I was able to get to it that day. I even found time to unload the dishwasher that afternoon.

Jacob was home from school at his regular time of 245pm. He wasn't in the house but 2 0r 3 minutes when he came to my office asking if he could go out and play. As always, I asked if his chores were done. Yep. He soon headed off to play basketball at Evan's. Work got a little busy towards the tail end of the day. Had something popping up from all corners. Sometimes that's just how it is. Lucky for me, things calmed down almost as soon as they seemingly went haywire. Bella was home around 345pm and Mindy about 25-30 minutes after that.

Jimaken was over to pick-up the kids near 5pm, but Jacob was still off playing basketball and Bella still needed to walk the pug. Bella was very stoked for the her school's 70's dance that evening. And since it was a daddy weekend, Molly agreed to take her and be a chaperone. That made Bella very happy. What's funny, she wore the same costume that Mindy wore to Doomie's (Doug & Jamie's) holiday 60s party a few years back. Looked good but not quite as good as it did on Mindy. We snapped a few photos before they left the house.

meanwhile, Mindy and I not only planned a night out at Barley's but also quick stop up to see my buddy Ken at Riverside. We left the house near 530pm taking the same route we took the evening prior - through Arlington and up Kenny Rd to North Broadway. Ken was awake and alone save for the male nurse that trollied in almost right behind us. He was in good spirits and as alert as he'd been all week.

Ken asked about work, and more specifically one of his clients. At the same time the nurse was giving him something intravenously. Not sure if it was nutrition or simply more pain meds. In any case, Ken asked him to put some beer in it. Mindy asked if he was thirsty and wanted anything to drink. He softly asked for range pop. Turning around we noticed a large Wendy's cup with orange soda. Mindy held it to his lips with a straw. He polished off what remained. There wasn't a whole lot. Our visit lasted about 20-25 minutes before we wished him well and headed for Barley's. We walked out encouraged with his speedy progress..

Arrived at Barley's to a full parking lot, which for all intents and purposes is something we've simply come to expect. Without hesitation, I headed to the back 40 and parked. Inside, the bar was full and there was a wait for restaurant tables. We took up refuge amongst the many Barley peeps standing in and around the bar. For me it's like coming home. Feels good to be at Barley's enjoying good beer, people and food.

Centennial was back on tap. Ordered one of those. Mindy was undecided until I suggested a Deschutes Black Butte. They're very tasty and not so strong - only 5.2%. It couldn't have been more than 30-45 minutes before a couple stools came free at the bar. Of course we snatched 'em and soon ordered some food. Like we did last time in, we ordered a sampler platter that comes with all sorts of goodies, including wings, ribs, sauerkraut balls, pita and hummus. This time the balls were a tad over fired and the meat all tough. We opted to not register a complaint though we probably should've.

Enjoyed a Bitter Dan next, and Mindy had a 2nd Black Butte. A young kid we see there often anymore, I think his name is Josh, spent considerable time talking with the two of us mostly about Utah having once lived in SLC. We talked about Utah's almost laughable liquor laws and how right next door one can't legally buy and smoke weed yet in Utah you can't buy 'big' beer anywhere outside of a state controlled liquor store.

We headed home around 9-930pm. Once at home I poured a beer from growler of Creeper still in the fridge. I took one or two drinks then dumped it out. It had lost most of its qualitative features. Happens. Mindy was buzzed and sleepy and off to bed before 10pm. After a few minutes playing around online, I followed her lead and headed up to bed, too.

Cold & Snow

Was up and out of bed by 615am. Mindy asked that I make sure that Jacob was up. He was. Downstairs I completed calisthenics then poured coffee for Mindy & me. As for the weather, it was back to winter and only 12 degrees. And as for the 3-5" of snow forecasted for Wednesday night, we got no more than a very light dusting. The day's cold temps weren't expected to stick around for too long. They're calling for a quick return to early spring-like warmth on Friday and Saturday with temps in the 50s and 60s.

Early on, my plan was to work from the main office. However, I still needed to do my run, which didn't happen until shortly after Bella got on her school bus. Headed out the door around 815am or shortly my return from walking the pug. Because it was so cold, I went back to my winter running garb, which included a full base layer, hand and ear covers and an additional fleece. Again, it was cold - about 13 degrees - but the sun was brilliant. About halfway through the run I had to unzip the fleece to get a little cool air in around my upper body. Otherwise, I was fine and ran the full 4.1 miles.

No sooner was I in the door from my run when I got an escalation. Within a matter of a few minutes I was fully engaged in work. Next thing I knew it was after 10am. By then I figured it made more sense to keep plowing away from home rather than breaking, showering, and heading into the office. Stayed busy all morning and afternoon long. Finally got a shower near 2pm when the opportunity presented itself.

Day flew by. Next thing I knew, Jacob was home from school around 245pm. I talked with Mindy on her drive home. Suggested we go visit Ken together. She was good with the idea, but reminded me that Bella had gymnastics. She also shared that Bella left her completed homework at Jimaken's house on Wednesday evening, which her teacher gave her a free pass as long as she turned it in on Friday morning. Well, the problem with that was the same packet contained Thursday's homework assignment too. Oops! Mindy and Bella concocted a plan. Bella ran down to Makayla's and got her completed homework packet. Mindy would then blank out the answers and make copies for our home printer. Mindy suggested Bella needed to do her double homework assignment in lieu of going to gymnastics.

Mindy was home around 430pm and spent a good deal of time working with Bella to get her homework situation squared away. While they did that, I wrapped up my work day. It was near 530pm when Mindy and I left for Riverside hospital. We took the back way, up Riverside Dr to Lane Ave to Kenny to North Broadway. Didn't take too long at all. Brisk and chilly walk to the entrance.

Ken's in-laws were standing just outside his private room while the curtain was drawn around his bed. As I suspected, the nurse was having Ken use a bed pan. He needed some privacy. Having met his in-laws for the first time Monday evening, we stood and chatted with the two of them for quite a while, first in the hallway then later in the waiting room. Ken was apparently having trouble going or feel asleep while trying. :) Word was, it was a very good day for Ken, achieved a lot of firsts. Was able to sit up and was also able to drink liquids. As official visiting hours neared there end the in-laws insisted we head on in. The cute little nurse gave us the nod. Ken was conscious and seemed happy to see us.

Said he was thirsty, and when Mindy asked if he wanted coffee he shook his head no and instead said he wanted apple juice. There was a small cup of setting on a tray just out of reach. Mindy fetched it and gave it to him through a straw. Obviously thirsty, it was gone in no time flat. Ken made reference or two about his hair and scar saying that it looks like something from Star Trek. He also said he was ready to do some lifting. Before we left, Ken's father-in-;aw suggested we pray together. We all joined hands while Pat verbalized a prayer.

Once again we walked out of the hospital feeling good with Ken's progress. We were home by 7pm. The kids were outside playing at the neighbors but home a few minutes later. While at the hospital, I got involved with a work issue via my iPhone. I spent the next couple hours making sure that was taken care of before 9pm.

See Ken See

Much like I have for the past 10 days or so, I struggled to want to get out of bed come 530-6am. Still having to remind myself that I moved my standard wake time to 6am. Still waking from 515-530am and feeling like i am cheating. Waking at 530am was a deeply embedded habit to be sure.

Was out of bed for good ahead of Mindy, but not by a whole lot. Thinking it was near 610am when I finally drug myself up and out and headed downstairs. Quickly completed calisthenics including 50 push-ups which have a way of snapping me out of most sleepy funks. Once calisthenics were out of the way I headed upstairs with coffee. It was raining pretty hard. Could hear it pounding against the sky lights. Already 630am. I hustled through coffee and internet time, and was doing my meditation and stretch while Jacob sat patiently waiting on the steps for the sound of his approaching school bus. Didn't utter even a word until he was on his way out the door.

I left for my run somewhere near 7am. I headed up to say goodbye to Mindy knowing that she'd be gone by the time I was back from my run. It was raining steadily, which for me, the first such occurrence of 2014. It was relatively warm though - still in the low 40s. It wasn't going to last. In fact, there was a snow storm coming and they were calling for 3-5" locally - more just to our north. On top of that, they said it would fall into the single digits overnight.

Complete my run in the rain, though it was reduced to a light rain shortly after I started. Barely noticed it. The only real problem it presented was puddle avoidance. Ran the full 4.1 miles. Once again, it took a lot out of me. Finished huffing and puffing. Immediately in the door Bella quizzed me about my first run in the rain this calendar year. Made me smile that she even thought of it in those terms. But then again, she's definitely a kid very in tune with nature.

I walked the pug then enjoyed the eggs Mindy left in the microwave while Bella tended to the pugs needs. Felt good to have my run done early. Was off to the shower a couple minutes after Bella was out the door. All ready to go by 835am though I opted to take my time. Approaching 9am when I finally left the house. Arrived across town near 920am, and it was another 10 minutes before I was set-up and logged on. Once again, our standing 10am call got canceled due to no pressing concerns from the customers end.

Despite a canceled weekly call, I asked if we could spend some time reviewing some things. He offered up that he was free right then. Perfect! We discussed a couple concerns of mine for the next 15-20 minutes. I could tell the topic was as important to him as it was for me. Once we went our separate ways, another 20 minutes didn't pass before he stopped by my cube and asked if we could meet again at 2pm. Heck yeah!

I thought about taking a lunch break but really didn't have any specific errands needing run so I decided to simply stay put and get a bunch of work done. Come 2pm, I met with a few folks from the customer's NOC. Spent about 90 minutes together. Time well spent. Even before that meeting my boss had asked me to revise a presentation we prepared almost a year prior. After the meeting I dusted it off and made the necessary tweaks and changes. Worked until 5pm or so. Made arrangements to meet Mindy at Riverside hospital instead of driving home. After visiting with Ken we planned to have a quick dinner at Barley's. By the way, Mindy shared that it was cold and snowing.

It was a fast drive around 270 to 315 south. Arrived at the hospital by 520pm. Waited in the lot for about 10-15 minutes before Mindy showed up. Ken was out when we showed up in his room but woke briefly. More than once I pulled the sheet back down over his legs. I joked that he was trying to show me his junk. He actually responded telling me not to feel special. Said he's showing it to everyone. :) That had Mindy and I both in stitches. He also made mention that Jeff Garren was up earlier that day and then said a few things about work, more specifically referencing a customer that he's responsible for. I passed along a message from one of his direct reports who asked that I share it. Looked a lot better than the day before. Definitely on the mend but still a long way to go.

A nurse walked in and shared that Ken's wife, Lori was in earlier but left so he could get some uninterrupted rest. The way she said it made me feel a little awkward, as if we weren't welcome. We hung for a just a couple more minutes. Said goodbye to Ken and left. Mindy followed me to Barley's. Had to be about 630-635pm when we parked. Fast, easy drive.

Daniel was tending bar. Janet's still out on leave after giving birth to their son a month or so ago. We sat at one of the two community tables briefly but then moved to the bar once there were two stools available. Sat next to Calvin and Walt, Mindy sharing stories and photos from our Utah ski trip and then telling them about our next one that is fast approaching.

I drank a Barley's pale ale while Mindy enjoyed a Deschutes Black Butte porter. She ordered a sampler platter that came with wings, sauerkraut balls, riblets, hummus and pita. We shared it. Having eaten only nuts and a banana through the day, I was super hungry. Still, the sampler plate proved plenty for the two of us to share. We both ordered a 2nd beer, me a Bitter Dan IPA, and Mindy another Black Butte. We left for home around 8pm. This time I followed her.

Got home around 815pm. As expected, the kids were already home from dinner with Jimaken. After getting into my PJs I went ahead and booked a hotel room for the night before we fly home from Portland/Vancouver, this time choosing the Hilton at Esther Short park over the Red Lion. The price difference was insignificant this time whereas two weeks prior when we first looked the Red Lion was half the cost of the Hilton. I quietly slipped off to bed before Mindy and the kids around 910pm. Tuned the TV to Big Bang but watched very little before drifting quickly off to sleep.

Looking Up

Was reluctant to want to get up and out of bed come the usual wake-up time. Little wonder, I was up again in the middle of the night unable to sleep. Think it was between 1-2am. Had a couple bowls of cereal and played around online until I felt sleepy enough to return to bed. Mindy was actually out of bed well before me. Can't recall what she was doing when I finally pulled my sorry ass from bed, or for that matter, exactly what time it was. I do know that it was after Jacob headed out for the bus, so it had to be later than 650am.. After quickly brushing my teeth I headed downstairs for exercise and coffee.

It was Tuesday which is a non-push-up day. I completed the routine quickly. By then Mindy had already gotten her own coffee. What a slacker I am. Mindy was off to work in a jiffy. Just like that, it was just Bella and I.

I did my run after Bella headed out the door. It was shaping up to be a gorgeous morning. I ran the full 4.1 miles. Once back from my run I got an IM from my boss asking if I wanted to meet him up at the hospital. Told him that I planned on going up that afternoon instead. Said he'd head up alone. Felt kind of bad, but felt at peace with my decision.

Quickly made my breakfast and then headed up for a shower. Left the house for work around 10am stopping first to fill-up the gas tank. Took 15.4 gallons at $3.50 each. Netted about 21.5 mpg last tank full. Made good time heading across town. Had to park in the far lot, though once I walked up saw that a 20 minute parking spot was indeed available. Oh well, it was a beautiful morning - already about 50 degrees and sunny.

Quickly settled and logged in. Kept largely to myself, though did chat briefly with one of the managers who spent the last week in Florida on vacation. Shared how challenging it was to get back into the groove. No kidding! Stayed busy as ever until our standing 1pm meeting.

Meeting was somewhat low-key. Not all players were on hand. Still beneficial, however. Had a couple meetings and calls to join that afternoon. Originally, I thought I might leave early and go to the hospital to visit Ken. I still planned to visit but figured it would be closer to 530pm. Finished up my work day close to 445pm. Talked with Mindy before I left. She offered to meet me at the hospital if I wanted, but she also reminded me that Bella needed to be at gymnastics. Told her I would go alone and stop on my way home.

Made excellent time barreling around 270 to 315 south. Didn't take more than about 15 minutes to get there from the Easton area. My former manager was there again with his wife, and Ken's wife was there too. Ken was out cold, apparently only recently sedated due to pain. Lori was once again very informative, describing the day's events and Ken's status. Gone were the large gauze bandages from around his head. Noticeably swollen. Could now see where they cut into his skull. Looked painful. Lori tried waking him to let him know that we were there. Both my former manager and I asked her not to bother him. Still, she continued and he eventually woke however only briefly. But in that short amount of time he managed to utter a few recognizable sentences, most of which were incredibly funny. First, he asked if his head scar looked cool. A few minutes later he made a very funny reference to an inappropriate Family Guy episode , one where Peter Griffin has a stroke. Ryan was in stitches. A cute young nurse happened to be in the room at the time. She said she didn't get the reference - hadn't seen the episode. But she was very happy that he was talking and responding.

He was in obvious pain the entire time. Keep reaching for his head, the same side where they removed part of the skull. Shared that it hurt. The nurse was anxious to tie his right arm to the bed rail to prevent Ken from ripping the feeding tube from his nose, something he had apparently done earlier that day. Lori shared that he had a couple ornery episodes that day. Lori left before Ryan and I. She was planning to come back and spend the night. Ryan and I stuck around for another half hour or so.

Think it was near 7pm by the time I got home from the hospital. Was surprised to see dad's minivan out front. Inside I learned that Mindy invited dad to dinner her drive back home from dropping Bella. We were having Mindy's chicken, artichoke and pasta dish. I was starving. The meal was delicious. Because I had just arrived home, Mindy agreed to go after Bella so I could finish my dinner, talk with dad, and perhaps relax a little. I very much appreciated it.

Among other stories, shared the happy resolution to my toilet problem with dad. He had a shared interest since he witnessed my dilemma on Sunday. Dad was still there when Mindy & Bella returned, but not for long. He left the house before 8pm. I spent the remainder of my evening reading, playing on the internet. Headed to bed near 930pm.

Solutions a Plenty

I woke near 2am. Couldn’t stop thinking about Ken's horrendous predicament. After tossing and turning for several minutes, I decided to get up and head downstairs where I made myself a bowl of cereal and then played around online for about an hour. Feeling adequately tired again near 330am, I headed back up to bed. Fell asleep fairly quickly.

Allowed myself to sleep in until almost 630am. Was still a little tired but rested enough to get up and get my morning going. Completed calisthenics and then delivered Mindy’s coffee. It was then that she reminded me that she didn’t need to be up. She planned the day off to take Bella to a doctor’s appointment. Oops! Sorry!

I didn’t give myself a lot of time to play around online, but since I was up in the middle of the night not much had changed story-wise. After a meditation and stretch, I got out the door for a run after Jacob and friends were picked up from the bus stop. Even though I wasn’t out the door until almost 715am, it was still in total darkness, at least at the outset. Ran the full 4.1 miles. Felt a little stiffer than I might otherwise prefer, but still better than the morning before.

Fried some eggs and packed a lunch. Headed up for a shower around 815am. Mindy was up by then and planned on getting in the shower right behind me. Before leaving for the office I grabbed the new toilet flange that dad brought over as well as my measuring tape. I planned a stop at Home Depot at lunchtime. I figured to be heading up to Riverside hospital sometime during the afternoon as well, though I didn’t have a specific time.

It was forecasted to reach well into the 60s that afternoon and stay that way through Tuesday. More single digit cold on the way, however, as well as a chance of significant snow by Wednesday. Typically early spring weather swings. With a ski vacation still ahead of us, I haven’t been pining for spring weather like some. But I am hoping that April is warm and sunny.

Arrived at work near 910am, and was quickly settled and busy. Boss showed up near 10am. Mindy and I exchanged several texts, her sharing some of Bella’s stats after her doctor’s appointment. More specifically her height and weight. She’s 55” and 77lbs. I asked Mindy to tell her that she’s grown 2.5” since June ’13 (9 months) Not bad for a kid that says she’s never going to grow. 

Mindy soon asked if there was a update on Ken. At the time I had nothing more. She then asked if she could stop by after dropping Bella and see my office and meet my boss. Ugh! How could I refuse? I asked my boss if it would be OK if she stopped by for a brief visit. Absolutely. I gave her the nod. Said she’d stop by within 10-15 minutes.

Mindy sent a text once she was in the lobby. I went down to get her. Quickly introduced Mindy to one of my peers as well as my boss. We then chatted for the next 10 minutes or so. It just so happens that my peer’s husband is a teacher in the same school district as Mindy and just down the road, though he teaches high school. I showed her around the building a little and then took her in to meet another former boss/VP. We talked for 5-10 minutes about all sorts of stuff. In all, the visit was no more than 25-30 minutes. Mindy headed off to shop and I got right back to work.

I stayed busy until 115pm or so and then made a quick drive to Home Depot hoping against hope to find a an easy solution to our toilet debacle. By then it was partly sunny and trying to warm-up but there remained a chill in the air. Certainly nowhere near the mid 60s. Guessing it was about 50. Headed to the plumbing aisle where I searched for solutions on my own. Within minutes I was very encouraged, finding three different solutions that didn’t involve much if any reworking of the toilet’s drain stack. At first I thought I would buy all three and then return what I didn’t use. One aisle over I picked up a new water inlet line too, only this time the flexible style. While perusing the options, I an employee came up offering help. Decided to share my dilemma and the solutions I’d already carted. He pointed to the simplest, easiest one and shared that it was the only way to go. The others, while they’d work weren’t optimal. One, for example, was a push in adapter that would actually reduce the drain size at the inlet to 2-5/8” which is a code violation. The other required cutting the lip of the conduit with a zip saw and sliding a new 4” collar over the top and of course gluing it. The easiest and most practical was a two-piece flange ring that is made just for replacing a corroded integrated flange. No fuss, no muss. I was thrilled with my findings and the advice. Opted to take it. At least for the time being it seemed like the repair would be far simpler than originally thought. I headed back to the office by 2pm.

Before all else, I washed my hands then grabbed my packed food from the fridge. Enjoyed lunch while getting busy again with work. Got an email back from my buddy’s wife sharing the latest. It wasn’t too good. Apparently the swelling moved to the left hemisphere of his brain, so they had no choice but to rush him into surgery. Holy smoke! I was terrified. Within the hour I made plans with Mindy to head up to the hospital to see him. We agreed to go after a quick dinner.

I left the office for home around 445pm. By then the weather had improved markedly from where it was just a few hours earlier. In the sunshine at least, that ever-present chill was gone. Talked with my dad on the brief drive home sharing what I found and purchased to make the toilet repair. He was eager to hear about it.

Got home very near 5pm. Save for a couple stubborn piles of snow out front - one near the front stoop that doesn't get sun until June or July and then another at the foot of the drive that just a couple weeks ago rose at least three foot in the air - the snow was finally gone. Hooray!

Bella's pal Emma was over. Haven't seen her since last fall even though she lives just down the street. She agreed to have dinner with us. I enjoyed a burrito and taco. Had the kitchen cleaned up by 550pm. Suddenly very sleepy, i took a brief nap from the recliner. Mindy and I readied for a visit to see Ken at 610pm. Left the kids home alone. We didn't expect to be gone for too long.

Oblivious to the ICU's visiting hours, we arrived at Riverside hospital near 630pm. We stopped in the family waiting room where we met up with Ken's wife, several other family members as well as a few other co-workers. Ken's wife, Lori let me know that we just missed visiting hours but still offered to walk us back to see him real quick. Along the way she provided the most recent status and then some.

Ken's eldest son was in the room and sitting at his side holding his hand. He looked distraught, though one could hardly blame him. Ken was out cold, his head wrapped in a large gauze bandage where they'd only recently done surgery to remove part of his skull to relieve brain pressure. We learned from Lori that it might be a month or more before they replace it. Until then he'll be outfitted with a helmet but not until the swelling subsides. It was tough to see such a big strong guy like that. I found it difficult to speak without getting choked up, but soon managed to muster a few encouraging words just in case he could hear me.

After asking if it was OK, Mindy gave Spencer a hug. We walked back to the waiting room where we hooked up with all the others. Lori was most gracious and surprisingly strong, though I guess she has to be for her sons sakes. At length, she shared pretty much the entire story, how/when it happened and everything that's transpired since Saturday evening. As rough as Ken appeared, I told Mindy and Lori that if anyone could make a full comeback it was Ken. He's one of the most determined people I have ever met. Just try telling Ken that he can't do something that he badly wants. He'll prove you wrong every time. He's also one of those guys that is always there when you need him. He's helped me with countless task, both work and pleasure.

I finally met his father-in-law, Pat who he's talked about for years. He was very entertaining. Spencer eventually opened up a little too, sharing with Mindy and I his ongoing college plans which includes a transfer to San Diego State. He's a very unique young man - gifted too. According to Lori, his younger son, Logan is in a bit of denial about what happened. Doesn't want to visit at the hospital until Ken's conscious and able to communicate. I'll say this, Logan loves his poppa, even idolizes him. I am sure it's awfully hard for him to see and accept this as his dad's fate. Hell, it's hard for me.

We walked out with the family, and since Lori was parked near us, we continued our conversation on our way to our cars. Offered help in any way possible. We both gave her a hug. Again, I am amazed at her strength and positive attitude.

One important thing she shared was that earlier that day Ken was able to communicate that he knew who she and a few others were. Uttered a few memories of what happened too. She said he even joked a little. All of this meant his cognition seemed unfazed. Lori shared that most of the damage, at least now, seems to be motor skills and especially his left side.

Mindy and I headed for home. Admittedly, I was still a little shaken up by the whole thing, but then again, who wouldn't be? Back at the house I quickly changed into my PJs then decided to tackle the toilet repair. Originally, I thought I might wait and do it Tuesday morning after everyone was gone to school and before I headed across town. Changed my mind. Gathered my repair parts and headed up. I let Mindy know that I would likely need her help when it came time to place the commode back onto the drain flange.

I made sure the two-piece flange would seat nicely around the drain. It did. No need for the 1/4" spacer I bought. Once in place, I fastened the flange with four wood screws. Hollered for Mindy to come assist. We did the guest toilet last summer. She knows the drill. Had a little trouble getting the new wax seal to stick to the bottom of the toilet bowl but after three tries it seemed to stick. Together we carefully placed the toilet into position onto and over the drain. Wisely, I'd already replaced the water inlet line. All that remained was tightening the nuts on the toilet bolts and then attaching the water line. I excused Mindy.

A few minutes later it was time to test out my hand work. I hollered for Mindy to fetch a flashlight and go to the garage to watch for leaks while I turned on the water and gave the toilet its first flush. Success! Had to tinker a bit with the flush lever chain to get it right but other than that, it was all good. I still needed to cut the bolts just above the not so the decorative plastic caps would snap on. Figured I'd wait a day or two for any settling. Guessed I might have to tighten the nuts a little more after some use. Wise man!

I didn't feel like it, but instead of leaving all my tools out, I took 10 minutes to put everything away where it belongs. Otherwise, those things have a way of sitting around for a month or two. Had the job done, my tools put away, and the bathroom looking good as new by 830pm. Plan to leave the rather small hole I cut into the garage ceiling exposed for a couple weeks just in case. Besides, I really need an 8' step ladder to reach the work area comfortably. I plan to buy one. It's something I've been eying for a few years. It'll come in handy when painting or doing any work in our rooms with vaulted ceilings. Storage is at a premium around our house though. That's my only concern.

Felt a little grouchy after completing all that work. Stayed in the living room reading all by myself. Mindy headed to bed around 9pm. She gave Bella orders to head to bed by 930pm. I stayed up until 1015pm reading, thinking, playing on the computer. Before heading up to bed I went ahead and booked our hotel room for the night we arrive in the Couv. Not sure why, but decided to wait and book the 2nd night, which will be the night before we leave to come home.

Commode-o Dragon

I woke a couple times during the night remembering that it was the start of day light savings time. What I couldn’t quite figure out conclusively was the actual time. We a regular clock in the room that has been 5 hours and 12 minutes fast for several months running. Just below it is the Time Warner cable box which at the time registered only 4 hours and 12 minutes behind. Not sure why the brain fart, but perhaps I was sleepy. At any rate, I wondered how Mindy would’ve remembered to set the cable box clock ahead in the middle of the night. I wasn’t 100% sue what time it was when I finally got up and out of bed.

Well, as it turned out, I was up and out of bed at 805am EDT. It donned on my while prepping coffee that the cable box time is automatically updated. Duh! I set the stove clock to the new time and then headed to my PC. I enjoyed coffee and internet for about 45 minutes before I heard Mindy stirring upstairs. I was a little surprised when she joined me before 930am. Turned out, she had forgotten about the time change and thus was more than a little surprised once I pointed it out.

Before my run and while enjoying coffee, we discussed how the morning might unfold in preparation for the family birthday celebration (Lindsey, Ashley, Landon, & Mindy) we had planned for 3pm. We decided on a taco bar but would need to go to the grocery store to get all the fixins. Planned to pick-up another b-day cake, too. Our house needed cleaned, too, and I hoped to possibly even get to that pile of honey suckle brush out back as well as on the water leak coming from the kids bathroom.

I headed out for a run around 10am. At the time the kids were still in bed asleep. It was warm enough that I was able to skip a base layer as well as hand and ear covers. For some reason my legs were incredibly stiff, and a result the 3 mile run was difficult. I was tuckered and sweaty by the run’s end.

After my run I carried some recycling to the garage. I could see that more water was leaking from the garage ceiling. Dang it! I asked Mindy if one of the kids had just showered. Yes, Jacob. I was determined to figure out once and for all just what was leaking: the toilet, tub, or the sink. I got out my step ladder and a utility knife. I was a little surprised that I could poke my finer all the way through the drywalled ceiling. I cut a rectangular shaped section of wet drywall away exposing wet insulation. Once I pushed the insulation away I could see the toilet drain stack near where the water seemed to be leaking. Appears as if it’s been going on for a while now. Oh boy! From the exposed hole, I could see the drain pipe for the toilet, tub and sink. Only the toilet stack looked wet. Which just happened to be straight above the access hole I cut.

At some point I asked Mindy to have one of the kids flush the toilet while I remained vigilant with my flash light on the step ladder. No sooner did Jacob flush the toilet that water began dripping from around the flange. At the time I was simply happy to have the leak narrowed down to the general source – the toilet. Next step, of course, would be pulling up the toilet to determine the how, why, and then the extent of the damage.

I temporarily put the plumbing work aside and headed in to help with the house cleaning. After watering all the plants, I vacuumed the entire downstairs including sucking up the plant debris. Took about an hour. While I was busy with the vacuuming, Mindy was in the shower. Before she ran off to the grocery store I suggested she give me a hand pulling up the toilet. For two months or so we’ve had a complete toilet rebuild kit along with a new wax ring. Commons sense told me that the wax ring had to be compromised to allow water to leak past and around the drain pipe.

After turning off the water supply and then toweling out what remained, it was time to pull it up. Again, both bolts were corroded and loose. I wasn’t expecting what I quickly discovered once I had the toilet off the flange. The metal flange was completely corroded on one side – gone! No wonder it was leaking. And the bigger problem was how to replace it since the metal flange is integrated into the lip of the 3” toilet drain. Oh boy! I knew of no easy way. After sharing and staring for a while, Mindy suggested she call my dad and ask him to come over and take a look. I agreed. My hope was that the final piece that included the flange wouldn’t be glued but of course in fact it was. I felt hopeless, seeing my only alternative involving cutting back into the drain stack and rebuilding it with new. Off course further complicating matters was the air intake which was immediately below the toilet flange lip. I decided to wait for dad’s opinion.

He showed up no more than 10 minutes later and immediately saw my dilemma. He had no easy fix beyond somehow rigging it up or as I already guessed, cutting back into the existing drain stack and rebuilding it up to a whole new drain flange assembly. In the end, 3” PVC drain piping is cheap. The trick is in the labor, the cutting and splicing into the existing. Certainly no quick fix. I could only shake my head. I offered that it would be nice if somebody made a hinged flange for such applications, or that I could buy a stand-alone metal flange and cut it into halves and then fasten it around the existing drain stack lip. In the end, however, doing the repair right was most important to me. After all, I don’t want to be doing it again in a couple years. The sub flooring by the way, was wet but not rotted.

With no solution immediately at hand, we headed downstairs. After dad left I planned to do a little internet research and possibly even make a quick drive to Lowes or Home Depot. Dad left around 1-130pm. By then Mindy had long since left for the grocery to pick-up the food for our birthday celebration, which dad planned to be part of. Said he’d come back around 3pm after running a couple errands.

I came up with no easy fix via YouTube and Google but did learn that they drain flange combo is indeed supposed to be glued. Mindy was back home with the taco fixins shortly after dad left. And given the hour, I didn’t feel that I had enough time to run to Home Depot. Rightfully so, Mindy and the kids asked how long they might be without a toilet. That got a chuckle out of me. I certainly hoped to have it fixed by the end of the new week. Again, if I had to, I knew I could cut back into the stack and rebuild it.

While Mindy got the food going and the gifts ready, I headed back to the kids bathroom where I dismantled the toilet in preparation for the rebuild. I thought it wise to get the toilet rebuilt that way it would be ready for redeployment once the drain flange issue was solved.

I was still at it when Ashley, Olivia and Lindsey arrived. Forgot to mention that Lindsey dropped the boys off around noon but they spent almost all their time outside with Jacob. Hardly even knew they were there. Ashley and Olivia came upstairs to talk with me. Ashley laughed at my predicament. Dad, the house is 20 years old. True! I was a mess, and I am pretty sure that Ashley made some mention of that too. She was right, I needed a shower.

Shower felt great. Joined everyone downstairs around 315pm. Taco stuff smelt terrific. Ashley shared some details surrounding her wedding which is currently planned for June 20, 2015. Has a dress picked out as well as the venue. Mindy and I are supposed to join her for an open house there next Sunday. She shared that Steven has one last hurdle before getting hired at the T.Marzetti Company – a drug test. His father works for the company so I am assuming he put in a good word. According to Ashley, the pay and benefits should be quite nice.

Over the next couple hours we enjoyed food, conversation and fun. All the birthdayers got their turn having the happy birthday song sang to them as well as an opportunity to blow out candles. Cards and gifts were next. Was happy to see that both girls had cards for Mindy. Sadly, it’s not something they’ve always been good at doing. Perhaps they’ve come to realize the value of good familial relationships. One can have hope.

In the middle of our family festivities Bella came sharing that my work phone was ringing. Well, I missed the call but followed up. It was a call from a former manager and friend. At the same time, because my work laptop was fired up. I saw that he’d sent an instant message too. Figuring it important, I responded to the IM. I was floored by what he had to share. An otherwise healthy, longtime peer and friend had fallen victim to a severe stroke the evening before. Hearing the news, I felt as though the life and air was sucked from my lungs. I gathered my composure then returned to the kitchen where the others were still partying. At first I thought I might keep the news to myself but decided to share it quietly with Mindy. I briefly buried my face in her shoulder while I once again regained my composure. I spent the rest of the afternoon/evening playing with the grandkids.

All were gone by 7pm. Shortly after they left I changed back into my running clothes and then headed back to the kids bathroom to finish rebuilding their toilet. Took about an hour to redo the tank and then reattach to the main bowl. All the seals and gaskets are now brand new. It should last at least another 10-15 years. Still needing a solution for the corroded flange, I left the toilet disengaged from the floor and made sure to point that out to both kids so they didn’t use it in the interim. Wrapped up my work in the bathroom near 8pm.

Spent what remained of my evening reading as well as contemplating my good friend, Ken’s situation. Headed for bed near 10pm.

Sloppy, Slushy, Puddles

 

 

Was up near 730am to partly cloudy skies with a strong push towards clearing. I enjoyed coffee and played on my PC for an hour or so before taking Mindy some coffee then heading out on a run. I ran three miles in gorgeous early spring conditions. It was about 40 degrees.

Mindy and the pug were up and downstairs by my return, which was around 930am. It was so nice outside, we let Eiknarf out the deck door on her own. She ran out back to relieve herself. Weather permitting (think no rain), we planned on heading up to MRM later that morning. Mindy had already begun carrying up everyone’s gear from the basement.

Thinking it was near 10am when I got a shower and into my base ski layer. While Mindy and the kids readied, I made breakfast sandwiches for Mindy and I and then loaded our gear into the Pilot. We left the house near 11am. Tommy responded to an earlier text sharing that he wasn’t going to make it up to MRM. On the way drive up, Bob I. shared that he wasn’t going to make it either. We got there around 1145am. Lot might’ve been about half full. They were hosting the annual pond skimming and cardboard sled contest that afternoon. It was partly sunny & warm, already about 50 degrees.

I chose to ski my Mantras. Good choice. Rather short lines at the 4 Star lift. Snow was thick and slushy. There was even a sizeable puddle at the top of the mountain. Yikes! Lots of youngsters in shorts and a couple without shirts. You’re so cool!  I might’ve skied three or four runs before decidedly calling it quits. Just wasn’t worth the risk of injury. And although I was largely separated from Mindy, who did her last couple runs with Tina Cubra, we called it quits at the same time. The kids, however, stayed out a while longer keeping an eye on the pond skimming and later the cardboard sled races. Mindy and I headed in for a beer. Tina promised to join us shortly.

Got a pitcher of Deschutes Black Butte Porter as well as a coffee and Bailey’s for Mindy. Mindy and Tina each had a beer, but I drank the rest. The kids soon joined us asking if we could leave. Not until we’re ready. Mindy ordered the kids a pizza. Thought that would hold them over for a little while. Jacob put on a full court press to leave and then go to the mall with his new girlfriend. Mindy said no, in part because we had birthday dinner plans with her teacher pal Kerrianne and her husband, Kevin later that evening and we planned to have Jacob watch Bella. He continued asking even after Mindy gave him an emphatic no. He finally realized the answer wasn’t going to change.

Think it was near 3pm when we called it an afternoon. Before we left, Jacob headed out to do one more run. Frankly, I was a little surprised. Mindy and I had no regrets. Simply wanted to get out for a couple runs. This season we skied MRM Nov, Dec, Jan, Feb and March. Great season MRM team! Doubt we’ll make it back for next week’s finale weekend unless the weather takes a deep winter dive, though that’s not in the forecast.

Got home around 330pm. While the others rushed inside to pee, I started the unload. Once done, they all contributed to the unload process. Whether the drive home or the night before, Mindy declared early on that she was heading up for a nap. Somewhat surprisingly, so was Bella. Jacob, on the other hand, headed out and off to Evans to play basketball. By then the partly sunny skies had given way to clouds and even some very light rain. He didn’t mind. I eventually joined Mindy for a nap. I wasn’t that sleepy but figured I could use one ahead of round two later that evening with Kevin & Kerrianne.

We snuggled for a while before I eventually fell asleep. Mindy got up for a shower around 5pm. I got in immediately after. Had her leave it run for me. I told Jacob earlier when he headed out to shoot baskets to be home by 6pm, which was the time we planned to head to the short north and the Japanese steakhouse. We were actually ready by 530pm, so Mindy texted Jacob to come home. We made our expectations abundantly clear, that he needed to stay with Bella the entire time and be nice. He asked if he could return to shoot baskets if Bella agreed to come along. Yes. We informed him that the house would be secured. I think it was 545pm when we actually left.

Didn’t take long to get downtown. Like last Wednesday, we parked in the North Market parking lot, but unlike that evening when they had timed parking rates, this time there was a flat, pay-ahead parking rate of $8. The Japanese steakhouse is on the corner of Vine and High St, or just a couple store fronts down from Barley’s Ale House #1 and Novak’s.

One other from our dinner party was already there, Tina. But gathered over in the corner were a couple familiar faces. It was the Dooley family celebrating their mother’s birthday, though noticeably missing was my old pal Joe. Apparently he couldn’t make it. I talked with Kenny and then Joe Sr. until their table was ready. Wished Mrs. Dooley a happy birthday as they rushed off to their table. Good family!

Soon Kevin & Keri showed up. Keri let us all know early on that she wasn’t too surprised that all of us were there despite Kevin keeping it secret. Said she knew he was up to something. There were nine of us in all, four couples and one single. I ordered Jack & Coke while Mindy partook in one of their exotic rum drinks. It was bright green but tasty.

Food was good. I ordered sea scallops & filet. Mindy, I am pretty sure, stuck with filet only. Still, one of the complementary appetizers included shrimp. It was decent too. Our Su chef was good at his craft and entertaining as one might expect. I find the Japanese steakhouse experience fun and certainly a good setting for large dinner parties, but it would never be my choice for a dinner out with my wife. I guess I prefer my meal served more traditionally.

We had a good time sharing conversation with the seven others. The Dooley family was maybe 15 minutes in front of us out the door. I just happened to be heading back from the restroom as they were heading out. Wished them well and asked Kenny to give my best to his brother Joe.

Our kids were home alone, and the plan all along was to take Wendy’s home to them afterwards. However ,sometime during dinner they sent a text asking if we would bring Chipotle instead. At first Mindy said no, but I offered that we go ahead and honor the request. It’s not that far out of our way. Mindy agreed. Some of the others in the dinner party headed next door to Novak’s after dinner. I asked Mindy if she wanted to stop for one. She briefly tinkered with the idea but then decided it best to get home. It couldn’t have been later than 8pm.

Two Chipotles locations came immediately to mind, one on Rome-Hilliard Rd, and the other on 5th ave in Grandview. We opted to stop at the one in Grandview. Mindy went inside to place the order while I waited in the car. Got there just in the nick of time to beat the rush. Must’ve been a line 6 or 7 deep right behind Mindy.

Got home around 830-840pm. Both kids were grateful for the Chipotle stop. Woofed down their food in a hurry. I headed upstairs to change into my PJs pretty quick. Once I was downstairs and comfortable, I poured myself a Jack & Coke, which was a far cry better than the two I had at dinner. Guessing they were made with Pepsi. Mindy headed off to bed pretty early. I’m thinking that it was no later than 930pm when she headed up. I stayed up a while longer, joining Mindy in bed somewhere between 10-1030pm.