Deck Done - Gone Golfing

I was up early for a weekend, once again just ahead of 700am. It was Sunday, so it was my day off from calisthenics. I started coffee then took to the computer for a while. Among other things, I read about the Buckeyes epic collapse, and then spent some time downloading photos from Saturday. I had a few good ones from the night before.

I fooled around online until 830am when I decided it was time to do my run. I checked the temperature first. It was only 50 degrees but with brilliant sunshine. I wore a short sleeved wicking shirt with a pullover fleece. However, with the sun beating down, I was almost too warm.

I ran the typical abbreviated weekend run – 3 miles. I was back at home just after 9am. The rest of the family remained in bed, though Mindy joined me within the next 30 minutes. With the deck stain dry, but still tacky, I could see where I needed a 2^nd coat with much greater clarity. I planned to do that real quick and then cut the lawn. All of that, I might add, before leaving for 18 holes of golf around 1230pm.

As soon as the kids were up Mindy made homemade waffles. I declined any. Instead, I headed out to get started on the deck. It didn’t take but 30 minutes to apply a 2^nd coat to the high traffic areas and then cover a few other noticeable thin spots. With the improved applicators, this finish looks by far the best ever. 

Before moving on to cutting the lawn, I had to move all of the deck furniture out of the way and into the mulch beds. That took some doing. I was mowing by 10am. It was sunny but still seasonably cool (low 60s). That made the mowing so much easier. Even though the grass was really long out front, I lowered the blade about an inch from its highest setting. Otherwise, I’d need to cut again in 2 or 3 days, and I just don’t have the time for that.

 Mindy helped by jockeying the cars around to make room along the drive way for mowing and trimming. I finished up the entire yard, including mowing, trimming, edging and blowing around 1140am. I headed in for a shower. Once I was out of the shower, Mindy let me know that she was leaving for the grocery and that the kids would have to be left alone for a short while until she returned. Jacob maybe, but Bella? I don’t know dear. She thought better of it without me saying another word. She called Chrissy to ask if she would keep an eye on the kids after Kenny & I left for golf. I felt better.

Kenny & I planned to leave for golf around 1230pm to make our 120pm tee time at Phoenix. I made a ham & cheese sandwich, my first substantial food all day, just before we left. Kenny agreed to drive. I headed out front and sat on the driveway next to my clubs waiting on him to pull up.

We arrived just ahead of 1pm. Kenny insisted on getting both green fees. Thanks Kenny! We headed up to the putting green. There was a gaggle of golfers at the range but nobody on the tee box. Looked like it was fairly open. I held my breath that it would stay that way until we got up there. It did. There was a twosome out in front of us just hitting their 2^nd shots. Just before we teed off the starter asked us if he could stick a single with us. Why not? His name was Dennis. Said he was in town to play a soccer game and also to

drop his daughter at OSU.

Hole #1 is a blind par 5. As usual, I hit my opening drive right down the middle. I was eager to hit my new 5-wood that I bought the week before heading to NYC. I knew I couldn’t reach in 2 anyway. I went with the new 5 wood but topped it, landing it about 100 yards from the green. I hit my 3^rd shot on and within 20’. I two putted for a par. Kenny got a par, too.

For some reason, the 2^nd hole, a 171 yard par 3 always eats me up. I rarely hit a decent shot off the tee. You have to carry the shot about 100 yds over a field of heather. This time I hit a 5 iron on the green and only 15’ from the hole. I was most pleased. Kenny was inside of that. I three putted the extra fast green. Kenny birdied. Nice birdie, Kenny!

Holes #5 and 6 ate me up. Neither should be that hard, but I made them that way. I lost two balls on #5 hitting two reallybad shots into the thick heather. Oh boy! I had to take an eight. On the #6 par 3 I hit another shot out of bounds. I hit my next shot just off the green and eventually carded a double-bogey. I finished the front with a par and two bogeys.

We didn’t bother taking a break at the turn. We played on. I thought about checking the Viking score but ultimately thought better of it. I’d wait until I got home to see how they did. After almost no golf for two months, I struggled with my 2^nd shot accuracy. My driving was fairly consistent missing only a couple fairways all day long. Plus, I was hammering most of my putts long but on line.

My back nine was littered with double-bogeys and bogeys.  I got pretty lucky on #17, the par three that overlooks the clubhouse to the left, down a steep hill over a treacherous rocky ravine. I hit an 8-iron what I thought was dead on, but it hit just short and kicked hard left seemingly into the rocky ravine. Damn! Kenny commented that I passed the drop zone as we approached the green. But there it was, my ball, hanging on by a thread  atop a mound of weeds and grass, about 6 inches above solid ground and perhaps a single breath from falling into the rocky ravine. I hit my 60 degrees wedge within 10’. I missed the par putt but saved the bogey. It could’ve been way worse.

I easily carried the water on #18, hitting perhaps my best drive of the day. But like I did all day, I hit a poor second shot and then put my PW just off the back of the green. I three putted for yet another double-bogey. I shot a 49 on the front and a 49 on the back. Kenny took me by 5 or 6 strokes.

We finished by 445pm – record time for Phoenix – just a little over 3.5 hours. I was happy and surprised that we didn’t have to wait much if at all. Mindy texted that she was inviting my dad for dinner. I acknowledged and let her know that we were already on our way home, a full 45 minutes earlier than I predicted.

Kenny dropped me at home around 5pm, or just after. Mindy was busy in the kitchen preparing dinner, boneless, skinless chicken breasts. I had a small snack to tie me over until it was ready then went to my PC to check on the Vikings game, which was a final. Crap, they lost again. And just like week one, they were ahead at halftime. This time they lead 17-0 but still found a way to lose. According to the story line, it was the tale of two halves. Mindy shared that she drove by my dad’s house earlier after not being able to reach him by phone. He was on his tractor mowing his lawn.

Mindy went to fetch dad around 530pm. Seemed to be getting around just fine. We chatted a little ahead of our dinner being served. I joked about his white knee high hosiery. As I understand it, they’re supposed to promote good circulation.

I asked Mindy to broil my chicken for the last few minutes. Thus far it cooked covered on the stove in a grill pan. She really wanted to use the gas grill, but the deck was out of commission for at least another day.  And speaking of the weather, it had been sunny all day, but clouds were starting to move in and rain was predicted for later in the evening and lasting well into Monday. I was hopeful that the last day of my 4 day weekend wouldn’t end up a washout.

Dinner was good – chicken breast served over rice with a garden salad. Mindy had Chrissy pick us up a tray of the yummy Pillsbury brownies from Sam’s Club that I like after she called and offered earlier in the day. They would be dessert after clean-up.

Mindy took dad home around 7pm. Said he was tired. He’s still taking Oxycondone for pain. He's gotta be sporting a perpetual buzz. Mindy was gone longer than I expected.  I spent most of that time on the PC while the kids were outside playing.

At some point I decided it was beer time! I poured a centennial and then headed out on the deck. The full day of sun took care of any remaining tackiness. It was a gorgeous evening, about 68 degrees. Mindy got home around 8pm best guess. She joined me on the deck sitting on our new surround benches. Said the reason she was gone so long was that brother Bob, April and Evan stopped by dad’s after trying unsuccessfully to reach him via his cell phone earlier. He left it at home while he was at our house. They were worried and figured they ought to drive by to check on him. I don’t think I’ve seen April since Xmas.

We sat on the deck with the kids for about 30 minutes. Again, it was really nice. While I enjoyed a 2^nd beer, Mindy enjoyed a glass of wine. We headed inside around 830pm and tuned into the Sunday night football game on NBC – Eagles vs. Falcons. Both teams looked good.

Mindy and the kids peeled off for bed before 930pm. I stayed up, this being almost like a Saturday night. I even poured a 3^rd beer. I surprised myself staying up for the entirety of the game. At some point I went to the basement in an attempt to further visualize what I want it to become if we ever get off the schnide and start the finishing project.

Boring Game?

I was up just ahead of 7am. I could see that it was mostly clear though the sun still not quite up yet. I started some coffee then did sit-ups but skipped push-ups. My left shoulder was absolutely killing me most likely from the 50,000 or so brushes strokes the day before. I took some Advil since I'd be right back at it again after my run.

I enjoyed my alone time sipping coffee and playing on the internet until well past 800am. I decided it was time to go on a run around 830am. It was chilly again, about 52 degrees. I ran just three miles.

Mindy was up a short while after I returned from my run. She planned to go to yoga while I planned to continue staining the deck. I got myself organized for another long day on the deck beginning around 10am. I planned to finish the pergola first, then the skirting, and finally the deck itself. Before any staining I got my music going again, only this time I set up on the deck so not to bother Mindy and the kids. I listened to more Pink Floyd.

I finally tapped into the new five gallon bucket, which needed stirred before I deemed it ready for use. I'll bet I stirred for a solid 5 minutes. The new batch was noticeably thinner, but this I already knew. Because it was thinner it went on easier but still covered really well too. I'll bet I worked on the pergola for a solid hour, and maybe longer. Once it was done I moved on to the skirting. I did the toughest part first, the area below the A/C unit and tucked behind all the Cannas, climbing hibiscus, and maiden grass.

After that the rest of the skirting was cake. I'll bet it didn't take but 30 minutes. By then, Mindy was already off to yoga and the kids off playing with the neighbors. Just before Mindy left for yoga, I asked if she would be willing to stop at Barley's and fill a jug with Centennial. I knew I'd be craving it later. She willingly agreed. Now around 12 noon, it was time to get cranking on the deck's main surface. Before using the stain pad I did the new bench tops and posts with the 4" brush where it would be difficult to maneuver the pad. Kenny stopped over to ask if I would keep an eye and ear out for their kids while he ran off to his grandpa's to mow his lawn. Sure thing! Chrissy was shopping for a wedding dresses with her cousins and sister-in-law.

The stain pad worked well, especially with the 1' long wooden handle I found in the basement. It laid down a nice even coat. The surface goes relative fast, but also uses a lot of stain. I had the newest section of deck (where the hot tub used to reside) done in no time. Looked really nice. In fact, even nicer than I imagined.

As I moved on to the older surface, the staining wasn't quite as easy as the new stuff for all the raised grain, but still simpler than the rail and pergola. The older stuff really sucked up the stain. I used the brush to do the edge all along the stucco and put it on really thick. I had the upper tier completed  after about 90 minutes best guess. While she was still off to yoga, I wrote out a card commemorating the six year anniversary of the day we met - September 17, 2005 @ Bob & Mary Ann's block party. There was a card for me already on the island counter.

I ate a few chunks of cheese but then headed back out for more fun, this time attacking the deck's lower tier. Mindy got home about the time I was working on the large steps off the main deck. She offered to make me something to eat. I asked for more ice water and my leftover reuben. It was delicious. The skies were mostly sunny with only occasional periods of cloud cover. In the brilliant sunshine it was warm.

I systematically moved down to the lower tier leaving the area in front of the stairs for last, that way I could walk off into the yard as I finished not needing to walk across any wet stain. The afternoon went by seemingly in the blink of an eye. It was already approaching 5pm. I had already identified a few thin spots that would need a second coat, but the only area still not done were the steps leading to the side yard.  I was exhausted, and had lost all my motivation to continue. Still, I forged onward, not wanting to stop until the job was completed. 

By then, Trena, our new next door neighbor, had guests arriving for her Buckeye game yard party. It probably took me another 30 minutes to finish the stairs. By 530pm I was sticky and stiff - ready for a shower and a cold beer. I took my time cleaning up, making sure my two brushes were clean and everything of value stowed inside or in the garage. All the deck's regular contents were still in the yard.

I used a coarse wash cloth mitten to exfoliate and remove dried stain from my skin. That mitten leaves my face smooth as a baby's ass. :) I took a few more Advil too. I felt a major sense of accomplishment having completed a chore that's haunted me for two years running, although I still figured I'd spend about 30 minutes Sunday morning on touch up. But for all intents and purposes, the job was done!

Mindy whipped up a batch of chili all afternoon along with some corn bread. Last minute, she decided to take the entire batch down to the neighbors. We ended up loading everything into an empty clothes basket for easy transport.

Everybody enjoyed some chili and cornbread before the Buckeye game kicked off. It was good. Chrissy spent her afternoon decorating the house for Halloween. Early, but hey. We cleaned up the dinner mess still before kick-off. I was sure the Buckeyes would win this one. So sure,  that I bet Jacob $5 after he gave me 4 points.

The game didn't start well. In what seemed like the blink of an eye, we were behind 14-0. But the Buckeyes finally got some momentum and discovered their running game with Jordan Hall, one of the previously suspended players. We marched down the field twice but could net nothing more than two field goals. Disappointing!

We held out hope that the game would be the tale of two different halves with the Buckeyes catching fire and righting the ship after halftime. That didn't happen. In fact, I don't think we had more than 20 yards passing for the entire game. That phase of our game looked anemic.  Just bad! We lost 24-6.

By the games end, Chrissy was asleep as were all the dogs ( our two pugs and Mike & Teri's puppies too). We packed up and headed for home around 1030pm. Mindy and the kids headed directly to bed. I stayed up having a snack and watching a little more football. I headed for bed by 1110pm. Happy six years, dear!

Stain Season / Ski Season ... It Begins Now

Despite having the day off work, I was up pretty early. I can't recall if Mindy was already in the shower, or still sleeping. It must've been around 6am. I brushed my teeth then headed downstairs to get the day started. I completed my calisthenics quickly. I was at the PC when Mindy came down around 7am after waking the children. By then I had already decided  that  I wouldn't be running until after the kids were on the bus.

It was chilly, only 45 degrees. Not exactly the kind of temps I had in mind for staining the deck. However, the temperature was expected to reach into the low 60s under partly cloudy skies, which would be ideal - not too hot and not too cool.

Mindy soon left for work and the kids went on about their business before school. I played around online ahead of getting the kids on the bus and before my run. Time moved swiftly. Soon it was time to head out. I changed into my running clothes before heading out to the bus stop, that way I would be motivated to take off on my run as soon as the kids were off to school. The bus came at 815am. Could darn near set your watch to it. I wished the kids a happy Friday then headed back home with Eiknarf.

I let her walk out front and up to the fire hydrant and back. I was eager to get my run behind me so I could get back and started on the deck. I put Eiknarf inside then headed off on my run. I ran just three miles treating my 1st day of 4 off much like a weekend day. It was a good run and over in about 30 minutes, or somewhere close to 9am.

 The sky transitioned numerous times between sunshine and clouds while I cleared the deck of all the flower pots, chairs, benches, and Mindy's fountain. That took a while.  I then headed inside where I  organized my deck staining materials, including the paint tarp, brushes, tray , stain, and rags. I set my iPod and Bose dock up in the bay window so I could enjoy tunes too.  I was ready to get started around 10am. Through the large trees to the west, I could see what looked like dark storm clouds. I wasn't too pleased. I hurried inside and surfed to weather.com. No rain, just clouds. Wanting to get the staining done for two years, I wouldn't have been happy at all had it rained. After all, when I scheduled the day off, the forecast called for 75 and sunny for 4 to 5 days in a row.

I got started on the railing at the west end of the deck by the new surround benches. I decided to use the stain leftover from the last go round first, which was also in a 5 gallon paint pail. It was really thick since it was the last gallon of the five, and that was even after stirring vigorously for ten minutes. I decided to thin it a little after pouring about a quart into an old one gallon pail. The new 2" staining brush I bought the day before worked nicely on the railing and pickets. Still, I can't think of a better word than tedious to describe the mind numbing job, especially just getting started. It seems like it will never end.

I opted to listen to some old Pink Floyd while working. And before long I was making some real progress. After finishing the first 4' section deckside, I headed down to ground level so I could get its back side. That required me doing a belly crawl through the mulch and then contorting my body up through the A/C unit bracket mounted on the back of the house. Not only that, but I had to contend with all the flowers too. Believe me, it was no easy task. After doing both sides of 8' of rail I decided I needed some sustenance, so I headed inside to make a sandwich. I made a roast beef wrap. It was delicious.

Next, I did the 8' section of rail overlooking the backyard that is also surrounded by a large rose bush as well as other mature plants. There are often bumble and honey bees galore hanging in those flowers. I'd feel home free once I got past that difficult section. After 2.5 hours I had completed only 16' foot of railing. You'd think it would go faster than that but it doesn't.  Again, the work is tedious, but the results impressive. It made the 16 year old railing look almost new again.

Like it did earlier in the day, the sky transitioned between periods of clouds and sunshine all afternoon. Through my toil, I listened to three different Pink Floyd albums: Final Cut, Animals, and the Division Bell. It's funny that it's taken me all these years to realize how stuck on war Roger Waters was both with the Wall and then with the Final Cut.  I love the music and the story but also understand why David Gilmour needed to break away to express his own creative energy. 

Mindy asked that I let her know if I would be home to intercept the kids off the bus. Around 130pm,  I sent her a text  that I would.  I made it around to the eastern-most railing just about the time the kids got home from school. Yeah, it took that long. Where had the day gone? They ran off to play in a hurry.

I completed the entire railing still using what was left of the stain from the last time, which by the way, was the fall of 2006, I think. In fact, I still had a little bit left after completing the railing. After a very brief break, I started on the pergola, which is also a pain. I had to stand on the rail holding on with one hand while staining with the other to get the most outward facing boards. I could use the step ladder for the rest.

Mindy got home around 445pm. She came out to check on me and complimented my work. Asked if I still wanted to visit Aspen Ski & Board.  I did. She willingly agreed to get our skis, as well as the kids poles and boots loaded into the Honda while I kept staining. I planned to keep going on the pergola until the old stain was gone. I might've had about a pint remaining. The last hour I listened to some old Edgar Winter, and never did it sound better. About half the pergola was done when I ran out of stain. It was close to 530pm. I already knew that Aspen Ski & Board closed at 7pm. I spent the next 15-20 minutes cleaning up my tools and mess and then headed inside for a quick shower while Mindy corralled the children.

I was ready in quick order. We left for ASBCO around 6pm. Mindy suggested we stop and visit my dad after ABSCO. Again, he's rehabbing less than a half mile from their Arlington store. We also planned to get dinner after that. In fact, both kids crabbed about being hungry on our way up.

Eric was working the counter at ABSCO, the same guy that's been there for the last few years. There was a queue of folks dropping off or picking up skis that needed or had already been tuned. We waited patiently. It's good to see them so busy. Eric took care of the paper work for mine and Mindy's tune-up first. Again, the preseason special is only $10 - what a deal! He then turned his attention to the kids, whose equipment  we planned to trade in. He sized their skies first, and said they both were still fine. We quickly countered that Jacob wanted to trade in his skis and boots for a snow board package and that Bella would almost certainly need new boots.

Eric measured Bella's foot and agreed that she needed bigger boots.  You're telling me, I'm the one that had to get the old ones on her everyday last season. They were tight even then. Bella wasn't at all disappointed that she wasn't getting new skis. She loves her pink K2s. Eric put her in some new white Techna ski boots. Bella really liked those, too. Bella now out of the way, Eric turned his attention to Jacob.

Because he's grown so much, Eric said he's already a tweener (between kids and adult equipment). He asked what my preference was. I suggested we go with adult equipment. Eric agreed and said while more expensive, it would perform much better and last longer. Gave Jacob the choice of several boards, boots, and bindings. Jacob chose a colorful board but its primary color black - a boy after my own heart. We upgraded the boots and bindings too, all of which were at least 40% off the list price. While Eric was taking care of Jacob, Mindy was busy trying on new ski pants. Eric showed her a few options there too and pointed out that all their apparel was 20% off, which is part of their preseason offering every year. Meanwhile, Bella befriended a 4 year old in with her daddy. I think her name was Avery. Reminded us very much of Olivia.  Too cute!

Jacob's stuff was pricey - about $380 after taking into account the sale price - but we also got a $100 trade-in credit for his old stuff. Picking out his new gear, he was as excited as I've seen him. Plus, if he goes out and has a blast boarding then it's well worth the cash. Because Bella needed only boots, her upgrade was only an additional $50 or so. Mindy found a new pair of ski pants she liked. We got those too. We also had to pay for three ski tune-ups. Said all of our gear, new and old, would be ready for pick-up on the 20th. I paid the tab.

Both kids shared their eagerness for dinner as we left ASBCO. We reminded them that we planned a brief stop at Arlington Ct. to see dad. There might've been a little complaining but both agreed that we should make the stop. As we pulled in, Mindy said it was the same place Jimaken's grandpa spent the last year or two of his life before passing. She'd been there a few times visiting him.

We signed in around 7pm and then headed back to dad's room. His door was pulled closed. I gave it a knock. I could just barely hear him saying something. I opened the door and announced my family's presence. He seemed genuinely happy to see us. Both kids gave him a hug. So did Mindy. If all went as planned, he'd be checking out Saturday morning and heading for home. He was already thinking he might miss all the attention and care. He's progressing well, and getting around without any complications whatsoever. The wound still looks darn near fresh, however. I'm sure it'll take some time to heal. We didn't stay too long, maybe 20 minutes.

Dad even walked us out. Even as we loaded into the Pilot and headed out of the lot we were still unsettled on our dinner destination. After some back and forth we agreed on the Big Fat. Everybody likes it and it was convenient and close. We pulled in the lot five minutes later. Even Bella, who has an extraordinary sense of direction was baffled at how quickly we got there having taken the back way through Arlington.

Johnny was working. We hadn't seen him in maybe a year. He's been spending most of his time at the new place, Fisherman's Wharf at Polaris. Said Maria (his sister) was there that night and married to the place. At first we thought he said married. Maria is a very attractive single Greek woman.

Alexsandra was our server. Drinks were first. Mindy ordered only water. Both kids ordered Dr Pepper, and I ordered a Jack & Coke. Jacob must've thanked me two or three times for his snow board stuff while we perused the menu. He must've felt bad because he insisted his mother pay for dinner. :)

Jacob ordered a gyro platter. Bella ordered pasta with parmesan (no sauce). Mindy ordered sea scallops, and I ordered the King crab legs, but only one pound. Mindy and I each ordered small Greek salad's too. I ordered a 2nd Jack & Coke just before our dinner arrived. We knew and expected because Johnny was in the house that the food would be exceptional and it was. The crab legs were delicious. I tried one of Mindy's scallops. They were really good too. The kids wanted dessert, so Mindy ordered two slices of cake (lemon raspberry and chocolate) to go. Mindy picked up the check.

It was chilly, only 55 degrees as we made our way to the car. Bella asked if we could hang with the neighbors who were said to be having a fire on their patio back at home. Mindy wasn't sure. Once at home, Mindy let the kids head down to hang with the neighbors. I waited to see if Mindy was going to go. She came down in her PJs. I had a Jack & Coke already poured and ready for transport. Despite being in her PJs, Mindy agreed to walk down.

The neighbors didn't bat an eye at her attire. It was Chrissy, Kenny & Teri. Mike was on duty. The kids were playing outside. Seemingly out of nowhere, Teri declared that she was flatulent after starting a new diet. Advised everyone to beware. We were all in stitches. While hanging out, we watched the Boise State vs. Toledo game. Boise State didn't have nearly the trouble we did with them.

Speaking of football, the neighbors invited us to watch the OSU game at their place Saturday night. Sounded good to us. I headed home to make a 2nd Jack & Coke at some point. Offered to bring Mindy the rest of her beer, which she refused. She later went for it herself. We hung out until the football game hit the 3rd quarter. I'm thinking it was near 11pm when we all walked home and headed for bed. I stayed up a  few minutes longer than the others snacking on some chips.

Nintendo DS, Barley's, and Lowes

It was Thursday, and I was up right on time. Because it was my Friday, I proceeded with a little extra bounce in my step. I completed sit-ups and push-ups and then spent about ten minutes on the PC. It wasn't very pleasant  weather-wise, only 53 degrees with light rain. Thankfully, the forecast was much brighter. Calling for clearing skies and seasonable temps. I was counting on good weather for the long four day weekend, when I planned to stain the deck and overseed some thin/bare spots in the lawn.

I grumbled mildly over the rain but also anticipated it.  As usual, I woke Mindy with coffee at 610am. After meditation and a stretch it was time to run. I dressed warmly with a short sleeved wicking shirt and a pullover fleece.  I headed out the door at 632am.

Drippy and dark at the outset, the skies eventually brightened, though the rain continued to fall. I ran the full 4.1 miles track.  Mindy and I still planned to swap cars, so shortly after breakfast she left for work in the Accord.

Off to the shower by 735am. It didn't take me long. I was shaved, showered and dressed by 755am. Thankfully, the rain had stopped by the time the kids and I headed out for the bus stop. However, not realizing that immediately out the door, I had my umbrella fully employed. Jacob was embarrassed as I danced and twirled my umbrella all the way to the bus stop. He turned away as if he didn't know me.

Soon we were joined by the neighbors. I celebrated gleefully the fact that this was my Friday. Soon the bus came and rescued the kids. By then, I had already shut my umbrella and helped Makayla and Lillian do the same with theirs. Eiknarf and I walked out front where she finally took a dump.

I made a few last minute preparations before heading off the work the in the Pilot. Unless I am mistaken, that was the first time I'd driven the Pilot to work. I parked in my usual spot far removed from other cars. By the time I arrived at work the sky had brightened considerably. No longer did there appear to be a threat of rain.

It wasn't long before I was settled in. My boss sent the team an email advising that he was taking  Thursday & Friday to be with his daughter who was giving an induced birth. I spent the first couple hours of my day dealing with a mini crisis, and once gain not doing the work I planned. But around 11am I was able to free myself from the urgent/emergency quadrant and turn my attention to the proactive stuff I had originally planned. I stayed focused on all of that for almost 2 hours, or until I deemed it time for lunch, and more precisely, my trip to Lowes to get the long weekend's project materials.

I went to the paint department first where I searched out a clerk to mix up a five gallon bucket of deck stain. Just like the last two or three times, I went with Olympic Maximum - dessert sand semi-transparent deck stain. I carried the five gallon bucket of base tint to the counter for the gentleman. He thanked me and then joked around about me working with him. While he mixed the stain , I went for the other staining supplies.

I picked up 3 six-count bags of 2" sponge brushes, 2 good quality paint/stain brushes ( 2" & 4"), a gallon of mineral spirits, and a stain pad made specifically for staining decks. As past results have proven, using a paint pad is the way to go when staining the deck surface itself - fast and efficient. The pad made especially for decks has a much thicker nap as well as a coarser sponge underbody. I bought an extra pad, too. By the time I gathered all the ancillary staining materials my 5 gallons of stain was ready for the cart. I thanked the clerk and moved on to the home garden section.

There I picked up a 15K sq ft bag of Scott's fertilizer, seven 40lb bags of top soil, 3 lbs of Pennington grass seed - a mix of fescue and blue grass. On the way to the check out, I picked up a new leaf rake and then a can of bee-bop just in case the yellow jackets bother me while staining the deck.

I guessed I'd spend $300. My total was actually something less - $282. I felt good about that. I loaded my haul and headed back to the office, but not before almost running over a guy riding a ten speed bicycle, who chose not to honor his stop sign. Good thing I was paying careful attention. I had to hit the brakes pretty hard, too. And guess how he thanked me. Yeah, he turned around and flipped me off. What? I pointed to the stop sign he'd just ran. He turned around once he cleared the intersection and flipped me off again. Really?

I proceeded on, still a little frustrated with his foolish arrogance. I got stopped first in line at the traffic light at Mill Run and Fishinger Rd. And who comes barreling along? The ten speed guy. Uh-oh! I could see worry in his eyes as I made sure he saw my big over done smile. He peddled hard through the traffic light and eventually begged off the street and up on the sidewalk where he must've figured he'd be safe from an angry motorist. Once the light changed to green, I stepped on the gas and followed the path of the foolish biker. I decided what the hell, and jumped the curb proceeding along down the grassy strip and sidewalk. I scared the begezzies out of that guy!

OK, the part about stepping on the gas and jumping the curb isn't true. He went on as did I. I let it go. He's the fool.

Back at the office around 215pm, I ate my packed lunch. After lunch I split my time between proactive monthly reports and organizing a meeting for the following week. As the day wound down I got dragged into a couple issues I really had no purpose being involved beyond just knowing about them. Not wanting to leave for 4 days with the issues in limbo, I had no choice but to spend time getting those two issues squared away and on the right track.

As 5pm neared I set up my out-of-office for both email and blackberry. I talked with Mindy sometime during the last hour of my day. Shared that she found Bella's Nintendo DS in her backpack even though Bella knows she' not allowed to take it to school.  I could tell that Mindy was pissed. Told Bella that we'd collectively decide her punishment. That's Bella!

 I left for home sometime just after 530pm arriving home near 550pm. By then the sky was partly cloudy with dappled sunlight and temps only in the low 60's. Jacob was at soccer practice, so the three of us had plans to have dinner at Barley's. Soon after arriving home I headed out to carry all my project material to the garage.

We left for Barley's a few minutes later talking about the DS incident during our drive there. Bottom line, Bella initially said she didn't give thought to whether she was allowed to take it on the bus, and honestly, I don't recall her being told not to take it to school, either.  But when asked what was fair punishment,  Bella said no screens for five days. We agreed, but it also included one day with no friends. In addition, we explained why we don't want her taking it on the bus or to school. Could come up missing, stolen, or lost.

Arrived at Barley's a few minutes later. I was in a great mood. Can't think of a better place to start a long four day weekend. We took a small barside table. Missing off the menu for about the last month,  Centennial was finally back. Janet brought me one of those. I think Mindy had only water, and Bella, a Dr Pepper. We shared an order of smothered fries then ordered dinner. I went with the Reuben special, and Mindy ordered the muscles. Bella ordered chicken tenders with buffalo sauce on the side.

I washed down the reuben with a second Centennial. It was goooood! We didn't stay too late at all. Mindy placed a to-go order for gates of hell wings to take home to Jacob. Just before we were ready to leave we noticed Bob Imber standing right next to our table. Said he'd been sitting at the corner of the bar for a while. Had been golfing at Split Rock with Bob B. earlier. We chatted briefly. Mindy picked up the tab and also drove us home. We arrived there a couple minutes after Jacob and Jimaken.

Bella and I walked down to the neighbors so I could ask Kenny about weekend golf. In what was a historic moment, Chirssy was actually standing over the stove making dinner - tacos - while Kenny stood nearby enjoying a beer.  Chrissy was quite proud of herself. So much so that she offered Bella and I some. We both declined, however, citing bellies full of Barley's. We didn't stay too long. Kenny and I agreed that Sunday would work best for both of us. We planned to ask two others to join us.

It was just after 830pm and time to slip into our PJs. I was looking forward to another beer and then Thursday night college football. The game featured LSU vs. Mississippi St. LSU was ahead when we joined already in progress. Mindy and the kids headed off to bed shortly after 9pm.  I stayed up slightly past 10pm enjoying another beer and football.

In the End, Einstein Lost his Mind

I woke near 5am and must’ve checked the clock 3 or 4 more times before finally waking at 555am. Dang it! That last half hour of sleep was good, some of the night’s best. I stepped on the gas while brushing my teeth, and quickly gathered my running clothes as I headed off down the stairs.

I glanced out back and then grabbed my exercise shoes before starting sit-ups. It was clear and moony. I hit the go button on the coffee maker just before that. My shoulders were just the slightest bit stiff.  I decided to skip push-ups for one day.

Enjoyed coffee in front of the PC. It was 610am in a hurry. I did a brief meditation before taking Mindy some coffee. She knew I overslept. Said she heard and saw me leap out of bed. I headed back downstairs where I readied for a run after a very brief but effective stretch routine. It was 63 degrees so I backed off from the winter weight wicking shirt and moved to a thin long-sleeved version. That was ideal.

It was completely clear when I left the house and the moon was still visible in the high western sky. However, by the time that I was finished, fog/clouds were moving in from the north. I ran the full 4.1 miles, not allowing myself to ratchet the run back just because I was behind schedule. I sold myself on the greater, long-term good, which was to stick to plan. I’m glad I did.

I was back home around 722am. Mindy had my eggs ready and waiting. It was picture day for both kids. Bella was dressed in purple and looked nice. Had her hair pulled tightly back, which wouldn’t have been my preference. I said nothing to discourage her. Jacob couldn't have cared less. He was wearing his Browns jersey. Mindy pestered him about his hair and tried fixing it herself. It looked really bad after she did some things to it – flattened to his head. Oh boy! I felt for him. His hair looks way better messed up. I think Mindy came to the same conclusion, and let him fix it his own way.

Mindy departed at 730am. The kids and I carried on as usual. After a shower and primping I was dressed and ready to go by 755am. I looked good by the way, new black Dockers and a light purple button up dress shirt. Shoot, I should’ve had my picture taken. J

Speaking of pictures, I noticed that the praying mantis caught in the wolf spider's web was being eaten as I left on my run earlier. By the time I got back, it was nothing more than a carcass. I decided to take a couple photos. I had to stick my camera lens in and amongst the web and ivy. Couldn’t get a good feel for whether I had it focused correctly.

I pointed it out to the kids. Bella was most interested and even had me lift her up so she could get a bird’s eye view of it. She found it fascinating – a girl after my own heart.

We headed out to the bus stop at 810am. I pointed out the fast moving low hanging clouds to Bella and showed her how to pick a point of reference to determine which direction they were blowing in from. She latched on to the idea quickly. The bus arrived on time and soon the kids were whisked away to school. I wished them both a happy picture day. Jacob wasn’t amused. Eiknarf and I headed back towards home. I took inventory of all my gear, this being a customer site work day. Had everything I needed. Not sure what it is, but it seems it has been rainy and/or cloudy every Wednesday lately. The clear skies from earlier that morning held so much promise, too. Darn!

I left for work at 825am after finishing a 2^nd cup of coffee. I hopped on I-270 north and took it all the way around. Like most mornings, the only congestion was near Rt 23 and then again near I-71, but I don’t think we ever slowed below 60 mph. Still took 30 minutes to get there, but then again it is about 28 miles tip to toe.

Despite the clouds, it was a pleasurable walk into the building from the far lot through an area sprinkled with mature trees and then over a walking bridge. I got settled fairly quickly, and maybe in record time.

We carried through with our regular scheduled Wednesday 10am call. Truth be told, I wasn't that comfortable with it, pretty much winging it by the seat of our pants. That's not my style. The rest of the morning breezed by. Come 1230pm I left for lunch not entirely sure where I'd go, but I had an idea. Thought I might venture down to Easton and do a little browsing.

Given that it was mid-September and the middle of the work week, I wasn't expecting much of a crowd. I wouldn't call it crowded by any stretch, but it was far more populated than I expected. I made my way to Macy's, obviously one of my favorite stores to shop for fashion. Haven't been in the Easton Macy's for several years.

I spent about 45 minutes looking at and trying on clothes. I bought nothing but found some real nice dress slacks and shoes I liked. Perhaps most shocking was the price they're asking for Ralph Lauren and/or Lacoste (alligator) golf polos $88 & $78 respectively. Are you frickin kidding me? No way! It's just not in my blood. I like wearing quality made clothing, and I can tell the difference between cheap and good quality, but I simply refuse to pay through the nose for a logo.

As I stated earlier,  I left without buying anything. While looking at dress slacks I had two other customers approach me for help. They both thought I worked there. Wouldn't they have been surprised if I told them to F off, or, Oh, honey, you're too big for our fitting rooms. I could've had fun with it.

Not sure the time, but I figured I ought to head back to the office. No sooner had I unlocked the door to the Accord when my cell rang. It was Lindsey calling to ask for a ride to a job interview on Thursday morning. Without pause, I said that I had to work, which was an absolute. She didn't care for my answer. Our conversation was brief.  I felt bad .. .sort of, but then again, how did she plan on getting there every day if she actually got the job?

Once back at my make-shift office I drafted an email to Lindsey from my Gmail account pretty much asking the same question about getting there every day, but also being careful not to come off sounding too mean. What good would that do? I sprinkled in some accolades for the few baby steps she's taken for good measure.

The rest of my work day went by quickly. I left for home shortly after 5pm. It was still mostly cloudy but there were a few breaks in the clouds overhead. Too, it was fairly warm. I took 270 north all the way around. It was fast and efficient, though there was the typical slowdown once I neared Hilliard and I-70.

Dinner consisted of leftovers. I had rotisserie chicken, as did Mindy and Bella. Mindy heated some turkey brats too, mainly for Bella, but she didn't like them. Jacob was having tilapia. Bella loves chicken skin, and asked for it specifically. When asked what cut she'd prefer on her plate, her reply is always the same, skin please.

Mindy tossed out the twice-a-week gymnastics transportation quandary; which one of us is taking, and which one is picking up? Her preference was delivery. I accepted my fate of being the shuttle home. Mindy and Bella headed out around 650pm. After clean-up, I fooled around with my most recent photos via my PC. I finally got around to updating my blog, too.

And even though the gymnastics team practice goes until 9pm, Mindy told them to expect us to be picking her up at 830pm moving forward. An 8 or 9 year old getting home close to 930pm is just too late.

I left to fetch Bella at 818pm. I opted to drive the Pilot, my first such ride since getting it back from the shop. It was like driving a new car, quiet and smooth. Mindy and I planned to swap vehicles on Thursday, so I could pick-up some home project supplies.

Bella was just finishing her trampoline routine when I walked in DCW. I didn't have to wait but a minute for Bella to get her shoes. We were on our way home just like that. Bella pleaded for me to stop at Wendy's on our way home, but I objected. We'd already eaten dinner. I promised a snack once home. She asked a 2nd time. My answer didn't change.

At home, Mindy had the children get ready for bed, bent on seeing them there somewhere closer to 9pm than most recent evenings. While all that was going on, I was watching a new program on one of the knowledge channels hosted by the guy from Fringe. Can't readily recall the same but it's a cool show that shares interesting but somewhat freaky facts and stories. This particular episode was about the removal of Einstein's brain after his death on April 18 1955. The guy that did it was hoping to find the key to genius. He lost everything in his effort, including his own mind.

Mindy faded early. She and the kids were tucked into bed by 920pm. I stayed up, planning to make some popcorn and watch some more Science Channel. Everything went according to plan, except for Bella coming down all exited after losing her 2nd tooth this week. She returned five minutes later to eat some popcorn with me.  I was off to bed by 1010pm.

Lunar Influence

I slept well and woke a few minutes early. Was downstairs by 527am. Once again the sky was clear with many stars still visible, a welcome change after an entire week’s worth of clouds and rain.

I started sit-ups then remembered I hadn’t yet hit the go button on the coffee maker. As soon as I finished sit-ups I made sure to hit the go button. Then, after a few minutes on the PC, I whipped out 55 push-ups. Wide awake, and my blood now flowing, I headed back to the PC with a cup of coffee. Right away I noticed a discernable difference – a good difference - in the flavor, much more robust than usual. It hit me then that this was Folgers Black Satin as opposed to the Gourmet Supreme Roast Mindy more often buys. And by the way, Folgers coffee is mountain grown. Yeah, Mrs. Olson told me as much. J

Before pulling myself away from the PC, I read about the MNF results. No surprise, the Patriots easily won their game against the Dolphins. But what was a surprise was the late game – Broncos vs. Raiders. The Raiders won. Now close to 6am, I headed to the family room for meditation.

Morning Thoughts:

There are times when staying positive, centered, and in the now becomes painstakingly difficult. And I’m sure that’s true for almost everyone. For me, more often than not, the triggers are my daughters, and more specifically, the paths they’ve chosen. I frequently allow that to throw me off course. It then takes considerable effort to regain my center and positive focus. Right or wrong, life’s biggest rewards or disappointments are often centered around our children.

Time to deliver Mindy’s coffee. It was close to 615am when I woke Mindy by placing a cup of coffee on her night stand. Back downstairs I completed the usual stretch routine then dressed and left for a run. Given that it was only 62 degrees, I had to choose the right shirt. That is always a tough call this time of year. And I typically err towards being too warm over being chilly. To that end, I chose the winter weight wicking shirt again.

I noticed the wolf spider, who’s spun its web in the sidelight window of our front door, had a small praying mantis lodged in its sticky clutches. I touched the mantis on my way out to see if it was still alive. Appeared not. Often times a spider will strike a killing blow well before it actually eats its prey. Using the nearby Ivy as additional shelter, I couldn’t tell if Wolfy was home or not.

I headed off on my run just a couple minutes after 630am. I ran the full 4.1 miles without incident. It was trash day. Jacob rolled our can to the curb the evening before. It was emptied while I was off on my run. The run went well. I rolled the emptied can back to its home then continued on around to the deck and in the back door. Jacob saw me and let me in right away. We keep the door locked almost all the time.

Mindy was busy making cheesy scrambled eggs. With the Pilot still in the shop, I was reminded that she was taking the Accord and I’d be driving the BM’er. It was supposed to be a lovely day, so it wouldn’t be much of an inconvenience at all. The eggs were finally ready. I topped mine with green Tabasco. Mindy gave me too many, so I shared them with Eiknarf just like most other days. This time, however, she threw them up soon after woofing them down. Honestly, they didn’t’ look any different than they did before they went in – a good indication that she swallowed them without any chewing whatsoever. She seemed disappointed when I scooped them up and placed on Bella’s unsuspecting plate. Uhhh- just kiddin’!

There was still a little left in the frying pan. After Bella put some real food in her dog bowl, I topped it off with what remained of the eggs. She ate a bit slower this go round. Mindy left for work around 730am. I tried not to concern myself with the fact that she was driving my new car. Yikes! Just don’t think about it and you’ll be fine. I headed off to the shower at 733am.

Spent about 20 minutes getting a shave, showered, and dressed.  With the time I had before the school bus, I did some more reading about how to get the best moon shots. Learned quite a bit. I hoped to try some of the tips later that night provided the weather gods cooperated.

While hanging out, Bella came to me sharing that she needed some cash for her lunch account. I was fine giving her some money, but asked that she call her mom real quick to confirm if she might’ve already added money to her account online. She hadn’t. I gave her more than enough to cover the day’s lunch ($3), though she said she likes to get a 2^nd beer and leave a 40% tip. What? Oh, wait, no, that’s Mindy. J

The kids and I headed out just ahead of 810am. Chrissy was out with the girls and quickly shared how excited she was to be going to the Kate Perry concert that night. The bus arrived right on time, or at 815am. I walked Eiknarf out front for a few more minutes. She beared no fruit

I finished my 2^nd cup of coffee then headed off to work. I thought about unloading the dishwasher, which I ran overnight, but thought better of it. I really needed to scoot. Headed out the door at 825am.

Arrived at the office around 840am and was inside and settled a few minutes later. The first hour or so was spent catching up on routine matters. I thought I might spend the rest of my day putting together my customer’s detailed monthly report, but my priorities were quickly changed when my boss came by and asked that I take over a conference call he’d been on for a while. He needed to beg off for something else. Sure. I ended up dealing with that issue for the next 4 hours. Believe me, it was a challenge.

I decided not to venture out for lunch, but did take some time to eat at my desk and then scrawl out a Lowes/Home Depot shopping list. The list included most of what I’d need to stain the deck starting Friday. I also exchanged texts with Mindy. She let me know that the Pilot was ready to be picked up. We’d coordinate that after work. That being the case, I planned to swap her cars on Thursday so I could get those things on my shopping list.

I stayed busy all afternoon and didn’t get out of the office until 540pm. But because it was a smooth drive home, I got there still just ahead of 6pm. Like the evening before, Bella was just making her way up the driveway with Eiknarf presumably after an early evening walk.

Jacob was already off to soccer practice with his dad. Mindy and I had already agreed to go after the Pilot ahead of having dinner, which would consist of leftovers. Before heading out I took a few minutes to rinse my lunch dishes and then prep Wednesday’s coffee. I’m guessing that it was about 615pm when we left for Hugh White.

Mindy said she needed to pick-up a few items at Kroger (veggies for salad). She asked me if I wanted to make that stop after dropping her at Hugh White, or if I wanted to head straight home and start dinner. I opted to make the Kroger stop after she expressed that as her preference too. Bella opted to go with me to Kroger.

I dropped Mindy at Hugh White and then Bella and I headed across the street to the Georgesville Rd Kroger. We each pushed a cart inside from the parking lot, doing our good deed for the day. We kept one and stowed one. They had their Halloween stuff out, so we spent a couple minutes checking out all of it before taking care of our business.

Onto the produce section all the while Bella managed our cart (scary). When it was all said and done, we had picked up some leaf lettuce, Roma tomatoes, cucumbers, and bananas. As we passed the rotisserie chickens we decided to get one. They were only $5 and we love them. Bella picked out some candy in the checkout aisle. Our total was a whopping $13. Not bad at all.

I called Mindy as soon as we got moving anxious to learn how the Pilot sounded and handled. Bella, meanwhile, was absolutely astonished with the handsfree Bluetooth feature in my car.  She couldn’t believe that all we had to do was tell it to call Mindy. In fact, she thought I was talking to her. Too funny! Mindy said the Pilot was all but silent – no noisy vibrations and it handled well. Said she’d forgotten how quiet it was.

We arrived home a couple minutes later. Mindy got a chuckle out of us picking up the rotisserie chicken. Both Bella and I wanted that for dinner. Of course, I still ate some leftover mashed potatoes, and then some of the fresh buffalo rice Mindy whipped up. The chicken was delicious and moist. You just can’t beat it for $5.

Makayla came over midway through our dinner. We offered her dinner after she shared that she was home with only Kenny. Chrissy, you may recall, was off to the Kate Perry concert. Makayla accepted food, but only mashed potatoes. She and Bella played the Wii Fit after dinner and during clean-up.

It was approximately 715pm once dinner clean-up was completed. I took to the computer to work on my blog and then review the aperture/f-stop document I was reading earlier. Provided the skies remained clear, I planned to take more moon shots later that evening. 

Jacob got home from soccer practice around 745pm. He was indecisive in regards to his dinner. He initially opted for only cereal, but then later pleaded with Mindy to make him a grilled cheese sandwich. After saying no, she had a change of heart and granted his wish.  Rare for Mindy to change her mind that easily.

While the kids played and showered, Mindy and I chatted in the livingroom and from the same perches we held the evening before – she in the recliner and me flat on my back with my feet/legs propped up on the other Queen Anne chair.

As darkness set in, I headed out to the deck to see if the moon was visible. It was, but still too low in the eastern sky for some clear, unabated shots. I headed back inside for another ten minutes. While passing time, I decided to open the Anthony Thomas chocolate covered pretzel rods that Mindy brought me home on Monday. She knows how much I love those things. They looked awesome, but unfortunately, their looks were deceiving. The pretzel rods were stale and chewy. In contrast, the ones I picked up at Giant Eagle a month or so ago were still to die for delicious. I had Jacob try both, too. He agreed with me  100%.

. While setting up my tripod on the deck, I saw a giant spider milling about on his web attached between the deck rail and one of our patio chairs. It’s one of those spiders you see this time every year with black and yellow stripped legs and a big round belly. I took a couple close-up with no flash. I had the camera in the manual mode so I didn’t really expect the shots to turn out too well.

With my camera now set up on the tripod, I waited for the moon to clear the neighbor’s big red maple. While waiting, I brought the spider’s whereabouts to the attention of the kids. Jacob came out to see it first. Bella soon followed. Bella is totally spooked by spiders. Mindy came out too. I decided that it would be at least another 10 minutes before prime photo time. Instead of waiting outside, I headed back in.  Mindy and the kids decided it was time to head to bed. It was only 920pm.

I waited another ten minutes then headed out to snap some photos using what I learned earlier. Those shots turned out far better than any of my previous attempts, but I quickly learned that my relatively weak zoom was a liability for such shots. It’s clear that this type of shot was really beyond the scope of my small camera. The experts recommend a 300mm zoom – f/11 and 1/400. I might try my 20X optical zoom on the next clear moon rise.

Inside at my PC, I worked quickly to finish up Monday’s blog entry anxious to plop down on the sofa to catch a little Science Channel. But I was fighting the clock the entire time. It was 950pm when I finished writing. I headed quickly to the TV and sofa. Turned out, there wasn’t much of interest on any of the knowledge channels. I parked on the Human Planet but only briefly after seeing that it was a repeat. I headed up to bed at 1005pm. Good night almost full moon.

@ the Funny Farm

Our power went out sometime after heading to bed. Not sure why or exactly when. However, I do know that all four of us were up around 2am. Both kids were in our room sleeping on the floor. I’m still not sure why. It’s not like there was a storm. Mindy ushered the kids back to their rooms while I reset my bedroom clock. I took that opportunity to set it back to 2 hours and 7 minutes fast. I fell back asleep easily.

I was up for good at 525am after another fairly restful night of sleep. Like most work mornings, I could’ve slept longer, but at the same time knew I needed to get up and after it. I was downstairs even before 530am. There was bright moonlight shining onto the deck from the west. Looked gorgeous.

I started coffee then gathered up my exercise shoes. I whipped out 55 sit-ups in a hurry. I was eager to see the final score of the Cowboys/Jets game. I expected to find that the Cowboys ran away with it. That wasn’t the case. Instead, the Jets pulled out a win in the waning moments of the 4^th quarter. Hmm?

It wasn’t long before I had 55 push-ups out of the way and was back seated in front of my PC with a hot cup of coffee. I read more of the painful details surrounding the Vikings defeat as well as the box scores to a few other key games. I walked away from my morning entertainment at 555am and moved on to meditation.

At 610am I was just about to head upstairs to wake Mindy when I suddenly remembered that she wasn’t going to school. Instead, she was taking Bella to see a pediatric ophthalmologist, an appointment that’s been scheduled for many months now.  I remember Mindy saying she was going to sleep in until 7am when she needed to wake Jacob, who wasn’t too thrilled to learn that Bella wouldn’t be going to school.

Instead of waking Mindy, I moved directly to stretching. And then after finishing that, I dressed and left for a run. It was only 59 degrees so I chose to wear a winter weight wicking shirt along with long running pants. Again, I could’ve done without the mock part but there wasn’t much I could do about that. I needed the overall thickness the winter weight provides. The good news was that the day’s high was expected to be summery and in the mid 80’s. Hasn’t been that warm since Saturday the 3^rd when it reached 96.

I ran 4.1 miles like most other work days, the first couple miles under the shroud of darkness. The run went well and went by in a hurry. Felt good. My mind was occupied with the planning of many home projects. Finished strong. I took a few minutes to shami off the Honda again, now for the third time since I washed it near noon the day before.

Mindy was already up and in the kitchen at her PC. I asked if I needed to make my own breakfast. Nope. Mindy had it waiting in the microwave. Just didn’t want any surprises. Mindy was having a hard time getting Jacob up, again angry that Bella was getting a ‘day off’. He eventually came down and took Eiknarf out for a walk.

I finished my eggs and then headed up for a shower. Bella came into the masterbath mid-shower calling out to me. Said she was hearing strange noises in her room and wanted me to check it out. Sure dear, but after my shower. J I think she was dreaming.

Was back downstairs around 750am. Both kids were in the kitchen and Jacob still giving Bella grief for not going to school. I asked Jacob if he realized that they put needles in your eyes to do a full eye exams, knowing full well that Bella was within earshot. Bella quickly chimed in that she knew better.

Jacob and I headed out to the bus stop at 810am. We met Chrissy and the girls there. The girls were concerned with Bella’s whereabouts but then quickly remembered even before I could explain. The bus arrived at 815am. I headed back home with Eiknarf.

I told Mindy that I planned to stop and visit my dad at lunch. She then handed me a card that the kids had for him celebrating Grand Parents Day. They slipped a mini Snicker bar inside the envelope too. Mindy planned to give me a call if Honda called with the Pilot part in. Just before I headed out the door, Mindy and I chatted about Lindsey. Both of us were frustrated with the conversations we had with her yesterday afternoon. We’re lost about the best way to help open up her eyes and foster the real change she says she wants to make. Time slipping away fast, I left for work in the Accord at 830am.

Arrived at the office around 845am and quickly moved to get myself situated. Not only did I have to get logged on, but also had to stow my lunch and fetch fresh ice water. It was 9am before I was digging into the day.

I talked with my boss early on after he popped his head in my office to ask a technical question. Among other things, I asked about vacation time approvals. He asked that I simply send him an email with the dates and the name of my planned back-up. I went ahead and sent dates for all my remaining 2011 vacation and personal days (total of 13 days). Included amongst them was taking off this coming Friday and the following Monday. After checking and seeing a lovely weather forecast (mid 70’s and sunny), I was hopeful of getting the deck stained. Of course with a 4-day weekend, I hope to get in some golf too. Wahoo!

I planned to take lunch and go visit dad. But before that I had to join a 1pm call first. The call lasted all of 25 minutes. I left for Arlington Ct at 130pm. It was a lovely afternoon, but probably more clouds overhead than I expected. Still, it was nice. I wasn’t sure of the exact location but knew that Mindy had the address. I phoned her right away.

Turned out, Mindy, Bella and her mom were just sitting down for lunch at Bob Evans. Mindy said she’d text me the address and number shortly.  I remembered her saying it was on Old Henderson Rd. I headed that way figuring I might find it on my own. It doesn’t take that long to get there – about ten minutes. Once I turned onto Old Henderson Rd I spotted an Ohio Health Rehab center. I was sure that was it. But as I parked and walked up it occurred to me that this didn’t look like a facility that hosted guests overnight. I entered anyway and immediately went to the reception desk asking for help finding dad.

She asked what he was there for. I told her physical rehab after a knee replacement. We both laughed. She then asked for a name when another nurse asked if I might be looking for Arlington Ct. Yes! That’s the name of it. She said it was right around the corner. OK.

I found it easily from there, though it didn’t look like a rehab center at all. Looked more like a retirement community. I headed inside where I was quickly greeted by a receptionist. And after giving dad’s name, ‘dad’, she promptly shared that there were many dads there and would need more detail. Of course, how silly of me. OK, that didn’t really happen. J She happily gave me his room number along with instructions on how to get back there.

I arrived at his room but no one was home. I knew I was in the right place because his name tag was on the door. A nurse stopped by to tell me he was most likely in physical therapy just down the hall, and that it was more than fine for me to head down there to see him. I set his Grand Parents Day card on the night stand and then head to the physical therapy room.

Sure enough, there he was bouncing/passing a large rubber ball with another older gentleman. Rather than a couple older men recouping from knee surgery, what I envisioned were two old guys that lost their minds simply passing time by bouncing a ball back and forth. Reminded me much of the movie One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest. Alright boys let's play ball nicely.  

Without being noticed, I walked up and introduced myself into their seemingly silly little game, asking them to pass it to me. The other gentleman willing did without batting an eye. It took dad a second or two to figure out it was me. He later admitted that the oxycodone was kicking his ass.

After playing bouncy ball, the nurse had dad walk across the room, then down the hall, with only the use of a cane. He did really well. I fixed my focus on the characteristics of his legs from behind, noticing a big difference from the left to the right. His left, the one with the knee replacement, is now much straighter whereas the right bows out a little.

His walk took him back to his room, which has a view out to a very lovely courtyard and fountain. We chatted for about 15-20 minutes, me telling dad all about our latest Honda Pilot dilemma.

I begged out around 215pm. Told him I might be back again on Wednesday if he's still there. But thinking more clearly, I'd be working out east that day. I was just a 1/2 mile from Aspen Ski & Board. It didn't make sense to be that close and not stop, especially since we plan to do the trade-in thing for both kids this season. The early bird gets the worm. I headed that way realizing that all I could do is ask and look. Need to have the kids in tow for sizing purposes.

I was the only customer in the store. The girl at the desk referred me to a manager who came out and greeted me then showed me the new boys and girls trade-in packages. Said we'd get $100 back for each set regardless of whether they stay with skis or move to boards. The difference, of course, being the price of the new package. Board packages are about $60-$80 more. Certainly not ridiculous.

I walked around checking out their new skis and jackets too. Nice, but pricey. Saw a jacket I liked but it was $600. Uhhhh, NO! Back to the office. Much like Sunday, when I picked up Lindsey, there was one dark gray cloud overhead. Otherwise, the sky was generally sunny. As soon as I walked out of ASBCO, big rain drops began to fall. And by the time I was back on Henderson Rd, it was a mini downpour. Inconceivable! I could only laugh at my predicament. I know one thing for sure,. I won't be hurrying home to shami off the Accord, at least not this week. Screw it!

I was back at the office by 3pm. Seemed late, but I was gone for only 90 minutes. I ate my packed lunch while working. Mindy called mid-afternoon to let me know the results of Bella's eye exam. One, she doesn't need glasses, at least not yet. However, the doctor  predicted she would by the time she's ten. Not entirely sure how that works. In fact, I can't see it :) She also shared that her mom agreed to take her home from Hugh White Honda after dropping the Pilot to get the new bearing installed. They called to let her know the part was in. Thought they might even get it back to us later that evening.

If it was, I'd take her after it when I got home from work.

Left the office for home around 535pm. Called Mindy once I was on the road. She offered an option for good or bad news first. Bad! The bad news was that in replacing the bearing they discovered that the shaft that the bearing attaches to was stripped. Said they could rig it up but wanted to replace it too. Unfortunately, they'd need to order it and it wouldn't be in until Tuesday around noon. They'd have to keep it over night. Jason agreed to give Mindy another free oil change, probably the 4th or 5th freebie they've given us over the past couple years. The good news was that it was covered under warranty too. Duh!

Mindy was grilling pork chops for dinner. I let her go so she continue on making my supper. Got home around 6pm. Bella met me out front walking Eiknarf. We walked in together. Mindy was putting the finishing touches on dinner. At some point Mindy asked which if any part of getting Bella to gymnastics I wanted to do. I gave her the choice.  She chose me dropping her off.

Mindy went on and on about how well the pork chops turned  out. She must've sampled them before we sat for dinner. She was right. They were incredibly juicy and flavorful. Along with the chops, we had green peas and garden salads. Jacob was the lone abstainer, having grilled chicken breast in lieu of pork. Bella said it was the best ever, too.

All the kids headed out back for an airsoft battle after dinner. Mindy warned Bella that she wouldn't have too much time before we'd need to leave for gymnastics. Kind of funny watching the girls run around out back with their eye goggles on and toting rifles.

I whistled for Bella around 645pm. We needed to leave by 650pm. She was already in the proper garb. We took the Accord, of course, the Pilot still at the dealership. Arrived a few minutes early. Bella asked if I could be the one to come after her at 815pm. That wasn't the agreement that Mindy and I had and I didn't want to mislead. I left it up in the air.

Back at home, Mindy and I sat in the livingroom chatting. I eventually took up refuge on the floor with my legs resting on the cushion of the non-reclining Queen Anne chair. Mindy was sitting in the recliner. That felt good on my back. I closed my eyes while we chatted and eventually fell asleep. Next thing I knew, I woke and Mindy was gone, presumably after Bella. I headed to the family room feeling wide awake. I had a piece of the variety cheese cake Mindy bought for my birthday celebration. I believe the slice I had was caramel.

I tuned the TV to the early MNF game already in progress. With just about 7 minutes left in the first half, the Patriots lead the Dolphins 14-7. Mindy and Bella were home a few minutes later. Mindy had both kids get showers while she and I watched football. She and the kids headed off to bed just a little after 9pm. Mindy said she slept poorly the night before and needed a really good night of sleep. I figured to stay up until 10pm or so. I tucked the kids into bed then headed back downstairs. I took a couple more moon photos, this time experimenting around with both aperture and f-stop settings.

I watched the game well into the 4th quarter. When I gave up and headed to bed he Patriots had a commanding 31-17 lead with roughly 10 minutes to go. Good night moon!