Fake Winter

Lip synching?

I was up, out of bed, and downstairs a few minutes after 530am, or just as the coffee maker kicked into gear.  I glanced out back. I could tell that it was cold by the thin coat of frost covering the deck's surface. Sky was clear too, making it look even colder. Lots of stars visible as well.

Slipped into my exercise shoes then headed to the living room where I breezed through 50 sit-ups. Coffee was ready a few minutes later. I pulled the coffee carafe before the 'I am finished' beep sounded. I then headed to the PC where I spent the next 15 minutes or so enjoying coffee and internet. It was a cold 28 degrees. I checked both the MRM and Holiday Valley websites. Both professed to be making snow. That did my heart some good. Should be cold enough for making snow for the next 4 nights.

Didn't get around to meditation until 605am. Though brief, meditation was better than it's been in recent days. I delivered Mindy's coffee next. Probably near 615am. Said she was feeling better. Headed back to the family room to stretch and then dress for a run. Happy to report neck, back, and shoulders all feeling good, and that's without the help of Advil.

Dressed warmly wearing running shorts under my tights and the ear covers under my toboggan. The older I get the more comfort & warmth I seek ahead of my run. I was out the door right at 630am. This was a Beacon singers rehearsal morning which meant I needed to be on the road with Bella and Makayla no later than 740am. I cut my run to three miles to ensure I was back with enough time to eat & shower without panic.

I was back from my run around 7am. Mindy wasn't yet downstairs but on her way. She brought the pug, who I still took the time to walk. Forgot to mention that it was trash day again. For the 2nd week in a row, our can was full or close to. The dredgers were standing in the dark looking over the previous day's work. Not entirely sure what they planned to do. Didn't ask.

I reminded both kids that we'd need to leave the house by 740am. Jacob pitched one saying he wasn't going to school that early. Yeah, you will. Mindy was just starting my eggs. I asked if I had time to shower beforehand. Yes, she encouraged me to do so.

Mindy was talking with Chrissy when I returned showered and dressed. Plans apparently changed. Kenny took their kids to an early ortho appointments freeing Chrissy. In kinds, she was more than agreeable to see Jacob on the bus at the regular time. His lucky day, I guess. It was Chrissy's b-day, too, 33rd I think. Happy b-day, Chrissy! Before leaving for work, Mindy reminded me of Jacob's DARE graduation at Memorial Middle School. Starts at 615pm, but she plans to have him there by 545pm. I planned to meet them there.

My eggs were ready. I woofed them down while at the same time encouraging Bella to be ready to go in 7 minutes. It was 730am on the nose. I headed out to warm the Accord around 732am. It was completely frosted over. Jacob headed down to Chrissy's a couple minutes later. Makayla came down in exchange.

The girls and I headed off at 745am. It was a quick drive to Beacon. Dropped the girls out front just before 8am. Watched to make sure they were completely inside before pulling away. Arrived at work not five minutes later. Took a premium parking spot up front. The sun was shining as I entered the building. A lovely winter-like morning. My boss was already there. I was a little surprised, but not sure why. He's one of those that works 10-11 hour days and then through the night via his electronic tether. Nature of the business we're in.

I spent my first hour catching up on several non-urgent to-do's. Almost forgot about our 9am staff meeting. Joined the team in the conference room at 902am. The meeting was brief, only 30 minutes. Not a whole lot of data. A few of us stuck around after the meeting to discuss other work matters.

I probably spend more than half my time anymore doing reports of one form or another, and that's pretty much how I spent the rest of my day, compiling monthly reports.  I actually enjoy crunching and analyzing numbers, and then telling a story with graphs and charts. I can get lost in it. Time sure flies by too.

Near 5pm, I found myself reviewing my year end time-off/leave balances and discovered some inaccuracies that impacted me negatively. I was determined to get it corrected before leaving. We have a new system for tracking time-off, and I hadn't seen the year-to-date roll-up prior. I was able to figure out the error and made the corrections necessary to ensure that I was carrying over 80 hours of vacation time into the new year.

I finished everything I needed to then left for the DARE graduation around 535pm. I'd almost certainly arrive early, but I wasn't too concerned. Traffic through west Hilliard wasn't an issue. I arrived at the middle school by 545pm. I parked in a less populated lot on the eastside of the school. I sat in the Accord for few minutes but then decided to go ahead and head inside. I spotted Jacob in the warm-up room with all of his classmates in their DARE shirts. The auditorium was just across the hall. I snapped a quick photo of the unsuspecting kids then headed across the hall to the auditorium. Mindy had a seat saved for me. Gloria was there too. Bella, meanwhile, was one row back with Kenny & Makayla. No Chrissy. Apparently she had one last final before her college graduation the following morning.

We waited for a good 20 minutes or more before the graduation ceremony began. Seemed like a lot of trouble for such an event. Officer Metz lead the ceremony starting out with some amateur comedy and introductions. We had to endure the Hilliard Mayor, chief of police, and a city council member as well as a handful of the Beacon teachers.

Finally, the ceremony took aim at the kids. For starters, they singled out a number of the kids for special achievement awards. One was recognized for taking the biggest hit from a bong without choking. And still another for their beer chugging prowess. I was impressed with her demonstration. I mean, had I not seen it for myself I wouldn't have believed an 11 year old girl, no bigger than  minute could drink that much and so fast. A third was recognized for raising the most money through a bake sale. And I'll bet you can guess what was in those wildly popular and yummy brownies. Some parents seemed surprised and perhaps a little put out. I wasn't.

About midway through we had to endure music. The kids sang a song. Jacob being one of the tallest 5th graders, stuck out like a sore thumb. He stood their tall and stiff, hands uncomfortably at his side showing next to no emotion and barely moving his mouth. I could tell he wasn't actually singing. If anything, he was lip synching. Several parents asked for their money back only to be reminded they hadn't paid a thing.

The ceremony must've lasted 90 minutes. At the conclusion officer Metz made the crowd endure a corny photo show he put to some of his favorite country music. He peddled CDs of the same after the show for $5.

All kidding aside, I think the program is a good one, but a bit overdone. I think an extension of DARE should be incorporated into regular school curriculum including topics like: coping, tolerance, & conflict resolution.

We stuck around after the ceremony long enough for Jacob to buy one of the photo CDs and then have his DARE t-shirt signed by the chief of police. Now close to 8pm, I was hungry and ready to get home. Because we drove separately, Mindy asked me to take the kids while she ran her mom home. Bella rode with me, but Jacob surprised us both and asked to go with Mindy. Bella likely had ulterior motives. Yep! Once in the car, she asked if we could stop for fast food. I guess she figured me her best chance. But I said no. Mindy had the pork roast form the night before reheating in the crock-pot at home. I was craving that.

At Mindy's request, I put Bob Evans mashed potatoes in the microwave. Mindy was home 10 minutes later. Jacob asked Mindy to make the leftover pork roast into pork taco meat. I suggested otherwise, offering instead that she mix some with taco seasoning in a small bowl separate from the rest. She ran with that idea. And by the time everyone had finished their dinner and the kitchen was cleaned up, It was near 9pm. Bedtime for all of us wasn't too far off.

Ash Olivia for Dinner

I woke around 2am and right away my mind took off like a rocket contemplating everything from soup to nuts. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t get back to sleep for quite a while. In fact, I remember glancing at the clock and seeing it after 4am. The next thing I knew, Mindy woke me near 550am. Crap!

I hustled through brushing my teeth then and gathering my running clothes. The good news was that it was late start day, so I wouldn’t be leaving for work until 1015am. The bad news was that I still really needed to treat it like a regular work day in regards to my run. I wanted to have my run completed before Mindy left for work so I wouldn’t have to leave the kids by themselves.

I whipped out 50 sit-ups and 50 push-ups. Felt about as good as I have in quite a while doing push-ups. Coffee was ready. I poured a cup and headed to my PC. I spent at least 15 minutes fooling around there before taking Mindy some coffee and waking her. I wasn’t too worried about the time. My goal was to be out the door for my run by 640am.  It was as chilly as it’s been in a while. It was 35 degrees. Supposed to be the beginning of a downward trend. Sadly, though, it won’t last but through the weekend. No snow of any sort in the ten day forecast. At leas they’ll be able to make snow at MRM for the next 4 or 5 nights. Not real sure how much they can make overnight. The day time highs will be in the mid 30s so they’ll have to stop once the temp rises above freezing each day.

Did an abbreviated meditation and a full stretch. Was dressed for a run by 635am and out the door a few minutes later. I wore running tights, a toboggan, and hand covers. Glad I did, too. It was chilly. I warmed quickly and felt great for the run’s duration. In an effort to ensure I was home ahead of Mindy’s needed departure I almost talked myself into trimming the run to 3 miles, but last second I had a change of heart and ran the full course. Glad I did.

I was home just ahead of 730am and Mindy was busy putting the finishing touches on my breakfast while I gathered the dog and headed out for a walk. The dredging crew was already gathered on the bridge discussing the day’s strategy I guessed. We avoided any confrontation and walked the opposite way.  Eiknarf took care of her business quick. Mindy was pretty much on her way out as I was heading in.

Because it was late start, the kids didn’t need to be up for another 90 minutes or so. I went about having a leisurely morning eating my eggs at my PC and while logging onto my work laptop. I was actually working a little even before 8am. Things were quiet though. I didn’t head up for a shower until approximately 820am. By then, it was spitting snow. The temperature had actually dropped a couple more degrees.

I was out of the shower, dressed, and back downstairs by 840am. I returned to my computer desk where I dug into work. I heard the dredging team making all sorts of racket. They were loading up their excavators appearing to be completed with all the heavy work. Had straw and grass seed.  I wondered what they were gonna do about the sidewalk they damaged bringing in that giant excavator to free the smaller one. The boulders they used to build an island to the stuck implement were now along the west shore, but they didn’t have them looking natural by any measure. I was a little disappointed if this was their finished product. In my opinion, the work product suffered after their excavator got stuck. I got back to work and didn’t wake the kids until 915am. Both were slow to motivate. At some point I called Chrissy and then later Kenny to see if they needed me to keep their kids too. We left it kind of open as of last Sunday, before I knew I could alter my customer sit work day.

Kenny called me back and let me know that he was home with the girls. I checked on the kids a few times. It had to be near 950am when I found Bella fooling around in her room essentially still in her PJs. Jacob, on the other hand, was fully ready and playing video games in his room. He’s good about that. Bella got it in gear and was downstairs and ready by 1000am. That’s the time I had to join a recurring conference call. I motioned for quiet as the kids made last minute preparations for the bus stop. They call was extra brief. Not a lot to discuss. The kids headed out to the bus stop a minute or so in front of me, but I wasn’t too far behind. I was out a minute or two later after leashing up Eiknarf.

Kenny and I chatted at the bus stop, mostly about the dredging project’s apparent completion. He asked if all the heavy equipment was gone. Yep. No sooner had the bus arrived to get the kids when the excavator returned on the large trailer. Maybe they just needed to refuel the beast. Not sure. Or maybe the city inspector came by and made them come back. Regardless, they were unloading the thing as I was backing out the drive and heading off to work.

It’s been a while since I worked a Wednesday at the main office. Nice. I arrived just after 1030am. For the first hour or so I had all but forgotten about the late start.  It wasn’t until I glanced at the clock and saw that it was 1230pm did I remember. The day was soaring by.

Once again, spent the lion’s share of the day working on monthly reports. I want to have both completed by Friday if at all possible.  Didn’t bother taking a formal lunch break. In fact, I haven’t taken a real lunch break for several days now.

Talked with Ashley at some point during the day. She needed/wanted to stop by to get more cash for the dentist. I Invited she and Olivia over for dinner. She accepted. I sent Mindy a text indicating as much. We were having pork roast. It was cooking in the crock-pot on the island. In fact, the house smelt like cooked pork when I left for work. Yum!

But I worried that it wasn’t kosher. J

I hoped to get out of work a few minutes early but that never materialized. Instead, I actually worked a few minutes late not leaving until 545pm. My boss, a peer and I were talking for the last 10 minutes or so. According to my car, it was 33 degrees on the drive home. It was pitch dark already too. It felt like winter. My thoughts were all about making snow on MRM. Get them snow guns fired up, boys! I called Mindy, too. Said that Ash and Olivia were already there. I shared that I was taking the back way home after learning that a semi was going  the wrong way on I-270 south and had traffic at a stand still. I got that tip from a co-worker just before heading out.

The back way entails heading all the way down

Old Dublin Rd west

of the river to Trabue. That proved to be a smart move. And for the first time I can recall, I got every light along the way. That’s never happened before.

Just as I have the past couple nights, I walked out over the bridge to check out the dredging work. Their heavy equipment was indeed back and parked for the night in the neighbors yard. Looks like they redid the boulder placement along the west bank. Looks a whole lot better. Still, though, I know neighbor John isn’t going to be happy. They stopped just short of his property line. I’m only guessing but now believe they must’ve had orders to only concern themselves one property line back along both sides. Looks like they completed the lawn restoration across the street, too.

Inside, Olivia was playing with Jacob and Bella. But honestly, she was overtly fussy, almost to the point where it’s hard to enjoy her company, especially when she sasses her mother. I hate to say it, but it seems that Olivia rules the roost. Complains/wines about everything. I did my best to cheer her up while we ate dinner. She was more concerned with getting chocolate from the advent calendar that Mindy picked up for all the grand kids. More than once I had to insist she return to the dinner table with the rest of us. She eventually made a decent dent in her dinner, but after lots of prodding.

Mindy was planning to take Bella to her gymnastics class, but asked if I would pick-up. Yes. They left just as I was finishing up kitchen duties. Jacob went with her. They planned a stop at Targhetto afterwards. I’d have some alone time. Just how much, I wasn’t quite sure. Ashley might’ve stayed around another 10-15 minutes after Mindy and the kids left. We talked for a while, both about her potential move to KY as well as some life choices I’d really like for her to consider, including giving up cigarettes. She may not be making all the right decisions at one time, but I can tell that Ashley’s matured quite a bit over the last year or two. For one, she takes full accountability, and two, she knows what she needs to do. Doing it is always the toughest part, however.

I’m thinking that it was 715pm when she and Olivia departed, but not before taking a few photos, first of Olivia and I, and then Ash & Olivia together. After they left I changed out of my work clothes and into PJs then did some work in my blog. Mindy called around 810pm to say that they were running to another store, and since they were out, they were going to go ahead and pick Bella up from gymnastics too. Yippie! It was after 830pm when I finished up on my blog, or just about the time that Mindy and the kids got home.

I saw that Mindy bought Jacob a new indoor basket ball hoop. She helped him put it together while I continued playing on the computer. I poured a beer just before they got home. It’s Barley’s Double Dog IPA. Losing it’s flavor already. It was just OK.

I was on the computer until just before 930pm. Jacob was right below in the basement bang around with his new basketball. It sounded like a bass drum slamming against the wall. I asked Mindy to have him stop at 930pm. I felt that was more than reasonable. 

I headed in to the familyroom and checked out the program listings to see what might be on the knowledge channels. Nothing of interest, though I did see that Christmas Vacation was playing as I passed some of the less heralded channels. I flipped to it joining it already in progress, or right where Sparky is trying to figure out why his Xmas lights won’t come on. Bella joined me. I couldn’t help but laugh, even though I’ve seen the movie probably more than any other over the last 10 years. A true comedic classic.

Mindy and the kids were off to bed just before 10pm, late for the kids.
After tucking Bella into bed, I headed back downstairs to watch a little more of the movie. I didn’t watch a whole lot more, though. I’m thinking that I stayed up until about 1010pm. I was tired and wanted a good night’s sleep.

Always a Good Time when Cousin Eddie's in town

After a fairly restful night of sleep, I was up and out of bed somewhere near 530am. The coffee had just started brewing. I heard it kick on as I made my way to the kitchen. I glanced out back at the weather. It was cloudy, but it wasn’t raining. Yes, I can do this.

I slipped into my exercise shoes then headed to living room where I completed 50 sit-ups. By the time I finished up, the coffee was all but finished brewing. Ahhh, finally, a hot cup of coffee. Just what the doctor ordered.  I enjoyed coffee while playing on the internet. I admittedly spent more time there than I should’ve. It was 605am when I finally broke away for meditation. I wanted badly to be lazy and liner. Because of that, I spent no more than 7 minutes doing meditation. It was already 612am and time to deliver Mindy’s coffee. She was still under the weather.

Downstairs, I stretched then dressed promptly for a run. For the first time all season, I wore a pair of running tights instead of the loose variety. Makes a big difference not having cool air blowing up the pant leg. Much more comfortable. I wore a toboggan and hand covers too. I was cozy and warm. It was just after 630am and 40 degrees when I headed out the door.

I ran the full 4.1 miles. Spent a lot of time trying to think only positive thoughts. Need to break this cycle of incessant negativity. Like anything else, my thought patterns can become habitual. It's my nature to worry and think only of all the negatives in my life. Repeated over and over, this becomes habit and I do it without thinking. It’s part of human nature, I think, to protect us.  I was largely successful at breaking free of that type of thinking, at least during my run.

The run was soon behind me. And as expected, Mindy was in the kitchen prepping breakfast. She brought the pug to the door while I waited. I gave Eiknarf some time to  stretch before we set out on our walk. Immediately out door, I spotted the guy with the two Lhasa-Apso coming our way. They quickly got Eiknarf’s attention. Dang it! I had to give her leash more than a few yanks to steer her attention elsewhere. We went no further than Kenny & Chrissy’s yard where she took care of her business.

Mindy made the plain omelet again. I was happy about that.  I could tell she wasn’t feeling well. Not only did she look sleepy, but she wasn’t her spunky self. Despite not feeling well, she said she still wanted to go to CBC after work, this being a rare date night.  She left for work at 730am, or just a minute or two before I headed off to the shower.

Told Bella not to be surprised when Lindsey came to the door. She was coming to pick-up Landon’s book bag that was left at our place the evening before. It was waiting by the door. I was fairly quick to shave and shower. I dressed nice, this being a customer day. I wore black dress slacks and a purple button-up dress shirt.

While putting the finishing touches on my pretty self, I could hear Lindsey downstairs already heading back out the door. I was downstairs by 750am. I spent time before heading to the bus stop playing on the internet. Out the door at 810am. We weren’t out there long. The bus was on time.

Back at the house, I took care of a few last minute items then headed off to work. I opted to take I-270 all the way around to New Albany. No traffic problems. I arrived near 850am.

Early on, one of the managers stopped by to let me know that they'd be heading out near noon for a holiday celebration and most likely wouldn't return for the rest of the afternoon. I thanked them and told them to have their team members stop by if they needed me.

The reason I changed my visit to Tuesday was to combine it with another meeting I had on their campus set for 11am. I chose to drive to the meeting, leaving at 1040am. It was in another building on campus, but still a pretty good haul. And besides, I wasn't entirely sure how to get there by foot.

The holiday preparedness meeting was in a far nicer building than the one I work in normally. Cool decor and lots of state-of-the-art technology. The meeting lasted just a short while, 35 minutes tops. I stuck around briefly afterwards to say hello to a familiar face. It was Jay from Cisco. He used to work for another equipment vendor back in the day. Hadn't seen him in perhaps as many as 10 years.

A couple of my work peeps invited me to lunch with them. I graciously declined and instead headed back to my office. I spent a great deal of the afternoon working on monthly report data. Before I knew it, the day was winding down. I thought I might leave as much as an hour early but couldn't pull it off. Got too involved in what I was doing. Nonetheless, I still left earlier than usual. I was out of there by 445pm. Because it was date night, I wanted to be home no later than 530pm if I could help it.

I made good time around I-270 never hitting the slow down I expected in Hilliard. I was home near 520pm. I took a quick glance at the pond before heading inside. Still some work to do. The kids were already off to dinner with Jimaken. Mindy was busy on her laptop putting together sub plans for Wednesdays professional development day. By the time I brushed my teeth she was logged off and out walking Eiknarf. We left for CBC minutes later in the Accord.

I was very much looking forward to their December Hop Odyssey entrant, Cousin Eddie, supposedly hopped 13 times over. The lot was only half full. Expected a much bigger crowd. The bar had more open seats than not and Kate was working the bar. Ran into Stella immediately in the door. She was serving tables but gave both Mindy & I hugs even after Mindy warned that she was ill.

Kate thanked me for checking on her before we left the last time we were in. That's the night that Robert was in and presumably had too much to drink. I ordered a Cousin Eddie. Mindy surprised me and ordered a sample of the same. Sooner or later, I'll have Mindy addicted to the IPA's. :) Ummmm good! Delicious. One of the brewers was in, Jamie. He recognized Mindy & I and asked how it compared to last Xmas' 12 Hops.  I gave honest feedback. Shared that I couldn't really recall the exact flavor, but remember it being one of the best IPAs I'd ever tasted. This one was delicious too. He laughed at my feedback but thanked me for being honest. Unless they were side by side, how could one possibly tell. Besides, I've also learned that IPA's can taste different depending on what I've eaten or drank just prior.

Cousin Eddie is served in a tulip glass signifying its potency as a IIPA. We talked with Kate at length. Mindy & I  chatted some privately too. Among other things, we talked about the grandsons and Lindsey, but also about neighbor Terri's comments to Mindy last Friday. I can tell that Mindy's still upset over the matter.

We eventually ordered some food. Mindy ordered the salmon (go figure). And in an effort to step outside my comfort zone, I didn't order the spinach artichoke dip. Instead, I ordered the Cuban burrito.

The burrito was really good. Came served with fried plantains, nachos, and pico-de-gallo. I ordered a 2nd Cousin Eddie. But with the spicy food, it wasn't the same as the first one. Still good, however. I couldn't eat my entire meal. I had Kate box up the leftovers. We couldn't stay too long. Had to get home to intercept the kids. I'm thinking we left just after 730pm. Mindy picked up the check and left Kate a nice tip. We both agreed that we'd almost certainly be back again Friday night. After all, I can't have my favorite cousin in town and not stop in to see him. :)

Mindy drove home. We weren't home but 5-10 minutes when the kids arrived. I offered my leftovers to Jacob who said he was still hungry. I think he said they ate at McDonald's. He reheated my leftovers but quickly tossed it aside saying he didn't like it at all. OK! We ended up heading to the family room and tuning the TV to one of the knowledge channels watching The Universe. The program was interesting. It was about the Earth's magnetic field and the magnetic poles. Talked about how they could flip-flop at anytime, and what effect that would have on things such as the aurora borealis, or the northern lights. With a magnetic flip, they'd become the southern lights. I eventually fell asleep watching the program.

I woke around 1030pm with the kids and Mindy already in bed. I shut down the house and headed for bed. Good night Cousin Eddie. Sleep tight!

Virtual Mannequins

It was 535am before I made it downstairs to begin preparing for my Monday. Ahead of starting coffee, I glanced out back looking into a steady rain. Ho-hum. After getting the coffee going, I whipped out 50 sit-ups and push-ups. The coffee was ready just about the time I wrapped up calisthenics. Great timing!

Online, I checked the forecast which was calling for steady and heavy rain all day long with a temperature hovering near 50 degrees. Flood warnings abound, too. And last night we learned that we’re within three inches of an annual rainfall record. As of Sunday afternoon, we were sitting at 49.5”. Too bad it’s not cold enough to snow. It’d surely be piling up! The long range forecast is calling for much colder temperatures, especially during the overnights.

I spent entirely too much time online, not breaking away for meditation until almost 605am. Meditation was brief, in fact, too brief. I headed upstairs with coffee for Mindy at 612am. She was still feeling under the weather and sounded congested. However, despite feeling ill, she was going to work.

Back downstairs I stretched and readied for a run. I wore handcovers but nothing over the ears, although I did wear my well-worn OSU ballcap. I headed out the door right at 630am. It was raining but only moderately. I barely noticed it after a mile or so into to it. I ran the full 4.1 miles.

Home near 710am, Mindy hooked me up with the dog while I waited at the door. Eiknarf no longer is falling for the ringing of the doorbell. I have to give her credit there. She wasn’t too enthused about heading out into the rain, but then again, I didn’t care whether she was happy about it or not. She took care of business relatively quickly and we were back inside by 715am. Just before we headed out, Mindy asked how I wanted my eggs prepared. I asked for omelet style again. They were ready when I got back inside.

It wasn’t long before Mindy was heading out the door for school. She reminded us that she’d be stopping at the grocery store after school. Bella asked if she should do her homework at Noah’s. Yes. She reminded us we’d have Rocky and Landon after school too.

I was off to the shower near 730am. I had to shave so it took a bit longer. But even with that, I was still back downstairs by 753am. It doesn’t take me long. I have this process down pat. J Lurking in the back of my mind all weekend was the need to pay my credit card bill online before this coming Friday. I decided to take care of right then. I hate having that hanging over my head. I took care of that in a matter of minutes.

Due to the rain, the kids and I headed to the garage to wait for the bus. This time Jacob suggested it. He’s a smart kid. Bella remember that she left her umbrella at the neighbors the evening prior. She ran down to get it. Jacob and I hung in the garage for maybe five minutes before the bus came a calling. All the kids were safely aboard before 820am.

Eiknarf and I headed back inside where I finished a few last minute prep tasks. This was a Rachel day. I know Mindy was happy about that. I left for work at 822am.

Drove through an absolute downpour making my way into the office. I had my umbrella in the trunk. There were several available parking spots in the front lot. I took one of those. It was just before 9am by the time I was logged in and ready to go.

My boss stopped by early on and we discussed an issue that he and I worked on together heading into the prior weekend. Still wasn’t fixed but he had the right folks engaged to get it squared away once and for all. I had three conference call/meetings I needed to join between 11am and 2pm. That made the day go really fast. Before I knew it was mid to late afternoon. Looking at my schedule, I saw that I had a fairly important meeting at one of my customer locations on Tuesday. I made arrangements to make that my work from their site day this week. That would work out well for both of us. The kids have a late start Wednesday. This way I can work from home for a couple hours until the bus comes.

Lindsey sent me a text sharing that her car was acting up again. Wants to plan to get it in the shop. Talked with Mindy late in the afternoon. Said she was just leaving the grocery and on her way to pick-up the boys and then Jacob and Bella. Sounded congested. Also shared that she was feeling under the weather. Reminded me we’d be having rotisserie chicken for dinner. Sounded good to me. Also asked if I would be agreeable to taking Bella to and from gymnastics. Yes. I promised to call once on my way home.

I wrapped up things in the office near 520pm and then headed out the door for home. Tried calling Mindy more than once. She called me back a couple minutes later and shared that her phone was left in the Pilot. Mindy shared that the dredgers appeared to have gotten the mess in the pond cleaned up again after freeing the stuck excavator late Friday. But with the water up so high from all the rain, I’m not sure how she could tell with any certainty how much progress they really made. It continued to pour during my entire drive home.

Despite the heavy rain, I took a quick look at the pond before heading inside. Water was higher than I’ve seen it in years due to the extra heavy rains. That has to wreak havoc on the dredging.

Inside, the kids were playing one thing or another. Bella was busy making her Xmas list. She was reading it to Mindy while I unloaded my work gear. I had to laugh as I listened. Must’ve been about a $2K list. Holy smoke! While checking email, Bella was asked to have me quiz her on the week’s spelling words. She  soon joined me in the living room pouting. When I asked what was the matter, she went on to tell me that Mindy hurt her feelings. How, I asked. She said her momma told her that she shouldn’t expect everything on her list. Among other things, on it was an iTouch, an iPad, American Girl clothes, a trophy case and a new bed spread. We’ve reminded her more than once that their MRM pass and HV trip should be considered their Xmas present from us. Jacob gets it. Bella, apparently not.

I did my best to cheer-up Bella. We then proceeded to knock out all the compound words on her list. She got them all right after a little help. Dinner was soon served. Mindy prepared plates for the kids. In addition to the rotisserie chicken, we were having leftover baked potatoes and rolls. I got the kids their drinks. I made my own plate after the kids were all set. Mindy made her own, too.

The rotisserie chicken was delicious, but then again, when isn’t it? Landon was hilarious. When Jacob said he didn’t want his chicken, Landon began pillaging his plate. The kid loves to eat dinner. He must’ve had three helpings of chicken. He had everybody at the table laughing at some point. He’s a very funny little guy.

It was 630 by the time we finished dinner. I asked Bella to ready for gymnastics while I finished clean-up. The rest of the kids picked out and ate their treat of choice. I fed Eiknarf some chicken carcass scraps, but also explained that would be her dinner. Bella and I left for gymnastics at 650pm taking the Accord. It was still pouring and our front yard as squishy as ever. You know the grounds saturated when the front gets squishy. With its heavy slope, it  typically drains really well.

Dropped Bella and was back at home just after 7pm. I started work on my blog while Jacob, Landon, and Rocky played Wii. Mindy joined me in the livingroom in the recliner under a blanket. She wasn’t feeling well at all. The kids were doing more bickering than playing. Then, at some point I heard a crash and what sounded like broken glass. Rocky knocked two glass coasters off the end table causing them to shatter An accident to be sure, but one that should’ve never happened. According to Jacob, he had his feet resting on the side table. I made him sit in timeout for a few minutes as much for his bouncing around as anything else.

Lindsey came to get the boys around 745pm. We sent them home with their advent calendars and soon our house was quiet again. Mindy asked if I could hear it – the silence. It was nice. I continued work on my blog until it was time to go after Bella. I left near 820pm. This time I took the Pilot, in part so I could park it nose first on our return. Mindy had it backed in to unload groceries and it was blocking any other access to the driveway and walk forcing me to walk in the mushy wet lawn.

Bella and her gymnastics peeps were goofing around when I showed for the pick-up. Seemed to be having fun. She did a few more practice runs before we set out for home.  

Arrived home at 840pm. I carried in the soda (Fresca & Diet Coke) that Mindy left in the car when carrying in the groceries.

Mindy headed up to bed soon after I got home. I was reluctant to want a hug and kiss given her cold symptoms. I understand that most colds are airborne viruses but don’t want to tempt fate and press my luck.

Jacob and I watched a little of the MNF game – Jacksonville/San Diego. I wasn’t interested in the outcome at all. I eventually returned to my PC where I updated my blog and download weekend photos. I tucked both kids into bed near 920pm. Bella fussed about not having Mindy there to tuck her in. Said I don’t do all the little things her momma does, like close her blinds and turn on her fan. I did those things but she still hungered for her mother’s touch. I spent a few extra minutes with her to settle her down. She seemed content as I exited her room. Jacob was already all but asleep. It was 935pm. By then, I was ready for bed too. Mindy was still half awake and asked why I was coming to bed so early. I really don’t think she realized that 45 minutes had passed since she hit the sack. I shared the time and that I was tired. Good night rain.

Sauerkraut Balls revisited

I slept really well but still woke at 530am as if it were a work day. I happily returned to sleep until 715am when I got up for good. It was mostly gray but with a few large breaks in the cloud cover.  I started a pot of coffee then played on the internet waiting for it to brew.

The first thing I checked was the final score of the Big Ten championship game. Wisconsin won. Also checked the local Fox 28 broadcasting schedule to see if the Vikings/Broncos game would be televised. Yep. On at 1pm. Enjoyed coffee for about an hour, or until 830am when I headed out for a run. There were a few peaks of sunshine as I readied for the run, but the radar promised rain throughout the day. I was eager to knock out the run before any of that hit town.

With the temperature a very mild 54 degrees, I headed out minus hand and ear covers. I ran just three miles like most other Sunday’s, and it went very well – easy. It spit a few sprinkles while I was out but that soon changed to the more steady variety not long after my return. Mindy was up a short time later and started making the kids waffles. She also worked on a grocery list but didn’t think she’d go until Monday. Instead, she planned a run to Target to pick-up a few essentials while running Jacob to a friends birthday party.

The kids slept until 930-10am. At my prompting, Mindy laundered the sofa cover. And with the cover off, I did a little work on yet another broken spring. I turned the sofa on its face providing access to the springs underneath. It took me a while, but I was finally able to reattach the loose spring. Before putting it back down I removed several needless rusted staples from the donut shaped legs that were starting to transfer their corrosion to the carpet. Always something. Ashley called while I was toiling with the sofa so Mindy talked with her. She shared what she’d need for her next dental appointment. Think money. Not in a very chipper mood, I shared that the girls only call when they want something.

While Mindy showered, I vacuumed under the sofa then the tile around the back door. I left the vacuum out for a more thorough job later. Mindy still upstairs getting ready to run errands, I started the sauerkraut ball production line process. I pulled the previously made mixture from the fridge and then filled three bowls, one with egg, one with flour, and the last with bread crumbs. Took about 30 minutes to prep the balls for deep frying. Mindy was downstairs apparently ready to head out just as I was rolling the last of the balls in the bread crumbs.  She and Jacob left around 1230pm.

Deep frying the sauerkraut balls is the easy part. I did five at a time. All totaled, I deep fried 46, or the same amount as the first batch on TG day. Lindsey called from Ashley’s house at some point asking if she could stop by for money to cover her cell phone expenses. I only offered that she could stop by to talk about it, but that we had an alternative to her spending $50 a month on a phone. She didn’t sound enthused but agreed to come over and hear me out.

Before shutting down the deep fryer, I offered to refry all the leftover Barley fries from the night before to serve as Bella’s lunch. She was agreeable to the thought of fresh again  French fries. They turned out nice and crispy, though probably a tad over cooked, this being their second dip in hot oil. Still, Bella enjoyed them.

After cleaning up the all dishes from the sauerkraut ball extravaganza, I put the freshly laundered sofa cover back on and then vacuumed the entire family room carpet and kitchen tile floor. Lindsey and the boys showed up just as I was finishing up the vacuuming. As usual, our initial discussion was contentious at best. Lindsey went on and on about how she couldn’t believe I wouldn’t give her, her own money for the phone.  I asked where was this expense when we created the budget, and why did we only learn about it yesterday, just hours before it would be turned off. This is how she handles everything. Everything becomes an urgent emergency, and in my mind, a horrible way to live one’s life.

I offered instead that we would let her use our ‘spare phone’ and she would only need to pay us the $10 fee. She didn’t want to hear it citing that we would be able to spy on her call activity.  She went on to cite having a monthly surplus of $211 in her budget. First, I understand wanting to have a cell phone, everybody’s got one these days. But why she wouldn’t want to save another $40 a month without losing anything seemed asinine to me. I reminded her that her car was never purchased as a long-term solution. She needs to be thinking/saving for a more reliable car as well as any other emergency. I also took the opportunity to blast her once again for not signing up for the medical insurance benefits provided by her employer. Said it's too expensive. How much are cigarettes?

The entire time we talked, I was mopping the kitchen tile floor. Lot of footprints in and around the rear entry door that were driving me insane.  In fact, I pretty much had the whole 1^st floor spic-and-span prior to Mindy’s return. Lindsey eventually said she’d switch to our $10 phone next month after she had time to alert all of her peeps of a pending number change. I thought that was a foolish reason to spend another $40 but agreed to the compromise. I also curiously asked why she, her mother, and Ashley hadn’t already considered a shared cell plan.

Landon asked several times if he could play the Wii, but I was trying to watch my beloved Vikings and told him no.  He and Bella busied themselves doing other things until Mindy got back home. I soon shared the compromise that Lindsey and I reached. Mindy then gave Lindsey the $50 to cover her December cell bill. Lindsey wanted to head home to do laundry. I offered that the boys could spend the rest of the afternoon with us while she headed home.

Mindy asked for help readying some potatoes for baking. I soaked all the taters we had, about 16, in the kitchen sink. While away, she confirmed our dinner plans with the neighbors. Planning to cookout near 5pm. We’d be providing salad, baked potatoes, and sauerkraut balls.

Just prior to Lindsey heading out, Rocky had a bit of a meltdown and as a consequence he was doing a time out in the spare room. He pitched one when he heard Lindsey leave. Well that eventually upset Landon too. Bella, bless her heart, she went upstairs to comfort Rocky and talk him down off the ledge. Landon was better seconds later without counsel. The Vikings, meanwhile, were holding on to a slim lead in the mid 3^rd quarter. I decided to let the kids take over the TV and play Wii. I needed to shower anyway.

I turned on the bedroom TV to the Vikings game and let it whirl while I showered. As it stood, the Vikings were still leading. I wasn’t too long in the shower. I was downstairs by 4pm. I did a little writing in my blog while passing the time before our cookout with the neighbors. Around 445pm I checked the Vikings final. They lost 35-32. Oh boy! It doesn’t bother me much this season. Getting used to losing. They’re 2-10.

We didn’t head down to the neighbors until 515pm. I carried the potatoes, sauerkraut balls, and jug of beer in a laundry basket while Mindy carried the salad bowl. Rocky took Eiknarf. As wild as the Rocky was at home, he was most pleasant and kind at Chrissy & Kenny’s house. Mindy commented that sometimes all that’s needed is a change of scenery. Like night and day. Hmmm?

The O’Connell’s showed up about 15 minutes later, or just as Kenny was putting the meat on the grill. Apparently there was a miscommunication regarding the meat. Not enough thawed steak. I only shared that I would be OK with a hot dog, and really OK with just sauerkraut balls, salad, and beer.

Dinner was ready by 6pm. Kenny cut the steaks in half, but even then, Mindy and I didn’t go for any. Mindy was feeling under the weather, and thinking she might have a cold coming on. Oh boy! Mindy, by the way, didn’t have word one with Terri for the entire event. She’s still a little miffed with the comments she made at our place Friday night. Unbeknownst to me, in addition to the comments about working harder to be a family, she apparently asked Mindy if she was a high school whore after a fire fighter friend of theirs told she & Mike stories of having his way with Mindy back in high school. Mindy assured Terri that he was telling tall tales.

The gathering wasn’t about us. Instead, it was a 47^th birthday celebration for Mike O. After dinner Chrissy unveiled a cake and everybody gathered around to sing the happy birthday song and then enjoy some cake. Landon had two pieces. Lindsey showed up to get the boys at some point. Not at all sure of the time. I’m guessing it was close to 7pm. She came in with her hair down. Hadn’t seen her hair down before. She usually wears it up in a bun. I was surprised at how long it is – well beyond the middle of her back. She refused any cake. Happily, she thanked both Terri and Chrissy for keeping the boys on Saturday without being prompted.

With Mindy not feeling well, we didn’t hang out much longer. We walked back home with Lindsey and the boys. I told Jacob & Bella they could stay and play for another 15 minutes. Lindsey asked for more gas money. With the fuel gauge inaccurate, she said she didn’t want to chance it.  I only asked that she let me know how much fuel it actually takes when she filled it.

We also worked out the nights we could pick-up the kids after school – Monday and Wednesday. Not sure what she’s going to do the other nights. Right now, neither her mother or her sisters are stepping up to help even once. Dreadful. 

After Lindsey left, Mindy dispatched Bella to the shower. Jacob took one earlier that day now that he’s on the morning shower routine. We all gathered on the sofa catching some of the BCS bowl match-up show. LSU & Alabama will be playing for the mythical national championship. The Buckeyes won’t be playing in a BCS game for the first time in years, but will still be in a bowl game (Gator Bowl) on Jan 2nd playing Florida. Both teams finished the year 6-6. Should be a good game.

At 830pm Mindy put the final Harry Potter movie in the Blu-Ray player picking up where they left off a few days prior. I hadn’t seen even part of it before, but watched with the rest of the family. Must've been about an hour remaining. Mindy & Jacob seemed to follow along with all the characters and their arch rivals and such. I haven’t seen but one or two of the entire movie series, and those were the first two. I was completely lost. Still, I was able to watch and somewhat enjoy the dramatic ending despite how predictable it was.

Mindy and the kids were off to bed as soon as the movie ended. I’m thinking that was near 930pm. I tucked Bella into bed then headed back to the sofa where I watched a little more of the SNF game between the Saints and Lions. Once I started to dose off I got up and headed for bed. I think it was 1030pm when I plopped into bed.

No Giant Tortoises in Gallipolis

After drinking about 4 pints, I still had the wherewithal to pop a few Advil before heading to bed. That was very wise. And as I often do, I woke near 530am happy that it wasn’t a work day. At the time I didn’t feel anywhere close to fully rested. I quickly fell back asleep waking again and for good around 745am. I felt a whole lot better, but still could’ve used more sleep. However, if we wanted to leave for Gallipolis by 1030am, I needed to get moving.

Mindy remained sleeping having told me before we fell asleep to wake her near 9am. I headed downstairs and started coffee. The morning sky was absolutely stunning, with just the right mix of sun and clouds. As the sun made its initial ascent, it looked like it was on fire

While the coffee brewed, I spent a little time tidying up the kitchen. However, having cleaned up most of the mess the night before, it didn’t take too long to get things squared away. The coffee was ready by the time I finished clean-up. Enjoyed a cup of coffee while playing at the PC, but not for too long. It was mostly clear and close to 50 degrees. I took Mindy some coffee early, and just before Lindsey dropped the boys. It was close to 830am when they showed up. Lindsey asked if we would leave some laundry money for her at Chrissy’s. Once the boys were settled, I dressed and left for a run. It was near 850am.

I ran the usual weekend three miles without incident and was back at the house just after 920am. Inside, I asked if anyone had walked Eiknarf. Yep, Mindy had already taken care of it. I then asked Mindy if she planned to shower. She did, but not before packing everybody a lunch. While Mindy made lunches, I made egg sandwiches for the two of us.  No one else wanted eggs.

It was near 10am when I headed up for a shower. It didn’t’ take me long. I was ready by 1015am. Mindy was already busy loading our gear into the Pilot. She mentioned being stressed after having trouble getting the directions to print and then remembering that we  needed to stop for gas. I suggested that we simply use our GPS. I programmed the destination into my Droid well ahead of time to make sure it was recognized. It was.

Bella walked the boys down to the neighbors. Jacob, meanwhile, made a last minute plea to stay at Chrissy’s too. But Mindy would have none of it. Mindy feels strongly that we all need to be there to support Bella. I agreed, but also know how boring the all-day gymnastics event can be. That has to be torture for an 11 year old. Last second, we remembered to send money to Chrissy for Lindsey.

It was 1035am when we backed out the drive. And after a quick stop at the Circle K for gas, we were on the road for Gallipolis. It was 1040am. Not far into our drive, Lindsey texted Mindy asking that we leave another $50 with Chrissy to cover her cell phone bill, which she hadn’t before mentioned. Wasn’t even in the budget. Mindy texted her back that we were already on the road and that we’d talk about it later. Of course that prompted a call within the next hour. Mindy shielded me from the call sharing that we’d talk about it later.

We took I-70 east to I-71 south to I-270 east to route 23 south. We took route 23 south all the way to Chillicothe where we picked up route 35 east. I’ve taken route 35 two times past, both times in route to my mom’s place in Hamden. The first was the day of her wedding to Ronald, and the 2^nd was Xmas day 1995 or 96. Like the route 23 leg, the route 35 leg was about 55 miles. It’s almost all rural with only one gas station between route 23 and our destination. It’s a very lovely drive, though. Lots of beautiful rural scenery.

Bella was supposed to be there by 1pm, or 30 minutes before her first event. We arrived about ten minutes early – 1250pm, but not before struggling to find the gym and having to make a big loop around the small river town. Turned out the street name the GPS asked us to turn on had been renamed. Who knew?

Our previous two gymnastics meets were hosted in local high schools. This one was hosted in a private gym by the local participating team. Nice facility but lacking stand type seating. Instead, seating amounted to folding funeral chairs and all at ground level. It was a good 45 minutes before Bella’s first performance. Lots of sitting and waiting. After almost 2.5 hours of driving, and then sitting idly, I started to get sleepy. I waited for Bella to finish her first competition and then pulled my sun glasses down over my eyes and took a brief but fulfilling nap. I’m guessing that I slept for about 20 minutes. I missed the medal presentation. She took 3^rd place in the event.

We had another 70 - 80 minutes before the next event. Jacob was bored out of his mind. I was bored too, but did some people watching to help pass time. And believe me, there were lots of people worthy of a look and a listen. After all, we were in Gallipolis, and just across the river from West Virginia. Holy smoke! Is that brother Charles?

 Then there was this young girl. She couldn’t have been but 4 years old. She was an amazing tumbler. She had a floor routine with two or three consecutive back flips, a routine that rivaled that of the much older advanced tumblers. Very impressive.

Bella’s second event, double-mini, took place at 330pm. She placed 3^rd in that one too. I was thrilled that they sped things up to finish. They called Bella for her 3^rd and final event at 350pm, or almost 40 minutes early. They grouped three different levels all together for the trampoline competition. Wrapped up at 415pm. And Bella took 1^st place in the 9 year old beginner category.  She was stoked! And what a way to finish.

We hurried to get out of there and hit the road for home. We were back on the highway a few minutes later. Bella was excited and called her mawmaw as well as Jodie and Larry to share her good news. She fell asleep minutes later and slept until we exited the freeway for home. We were fortunate and remained under daylight for the entire route 35 drive. I was happy about that.

Earlier, we resigned ourselves to the fact that we wouldn’t be home until 8pm. Imagine then how good it felt when we arrived near 630pm. I suggested we head to Barley’s for dinner. Both kids nixed the idea sometime during the long drive home, but then warmed to it by the time we arrived home. 

We quickly walked the dog then freshened up before heading back out to Barleys.  I grabbed an empty growler just before heading out the door. It was still before 7pm when arrived at Barleys. The lot was near capacity, but we found a recently vacated spot close to the door. Mindy requested a booth or a table in main dining area. Sarah was our server. Chatted briefly with Zach who shared that they hadn’t found a pink Nintendo DS (Mindy phoned them earlier asking them to check).  I ordered one of there Double Dog IPAs. I don't think they've had that on tap for more than a year. Mindy went with water after sampling their new porter. The kids both ordered Dr Pepper.

We ordered a basket of fries to share while we perused the menu for our main course. Mindy suggested we order quickly, pretty much scraping my drink one beer first rule of thumb. Mindy ordered their Saturday brisket special while Bella ordered a corn dog. And just as he often does, Jacob ordered buffalo chicken tenders with a side of Gates. I ordered the Pile-it-on Texas burger.

My burger was extra good, but I couldn’t eat it all. I asked for a take-home box for the last 1/3. Mindy boxed her leftovers too. I’ll bet we weren’t at Barley’s for more than 40-45 minutes. I know it wasn’t even 8pm when we headed for home.

Mindy talked about being overtly tired all evening long. And once we arrived home she quickly readied for bed. In fact, I think she was in bed by 830pm. Jacob, Bella and I stayed up watching football. Jacob surprised me and begged off to watch the rest of the big ten championship game from his own bed around 9pm. Bella headed to her room to watch some other TV programming. She bounced back and forth between her room and downstairs a couple of times. In fact, at one point she crept up behind me putting a play millipede in my hair. It startled me, which made her laugh.

The inaugural Big Ten championship game between Michigan State and Wisconsin was a good one – high scoring and lots of big plays. Wisconsin took an early lead but Michigan State came roaring back and suddenly looked like they might run away with it. They were ahead when I fell asleep, up by 8 or 9 points. I woke on the sofa around 1120pm and saw that their lead was whittled to 4.  I turned off the TV and headed for bed stopping to check on the kids first. Jacob was still awake watching the game, and Bella still watching TV in her own room I made Bella turn off her TV and go to sleep. She gave me just a little push back but ultimately acquiesced.

It was a clear night. I could see the moon from the half-moon window as I slipped into bed. Good night moon!

Excavator Out & Having Pizza In

I was up close to 530am and downstairs a few minutes later.  Once again, frost coated the ground and deck surfaces. Looked fairly cold. I finished both sit-ups and push-ups by 542am. The coffee brewing cycle was just wrapping up when I poured a cup. I didn't wait for the beep.

I sat in front of the PC for maybe 10-15 minutes all the while enjoying coffee. It was a chilly 30 degrees. Expecting a fairly nice early December day with partly sunny skies and temps in the low 40s. Saturday was forecasted to be even warmer with partly sunny skies and temps in the low 50s.

I headed upstairs to wake Mindy near 610am. I placed her coffee on the night stand, said good morning then headed back downstairs to finish my pre-run routine. I did a brief meditation and a stretch then readied for a run. Once again I wore my ear covers and a toboggan along with handcovers. I was plenty comfy immediately out the door.  I was in good spirits simply because it was Friday. That always feels good, especially after a full work week. I ran 4.1 miles without much effort. I was back at home near 710am to get the dog and warm Mindy's Pilot. She had her keys waiting by the door. I started the car while Mindy ran down the pug. Once again, she carried her down the stairs to where I stood waiting with her leash.

Eiknarf and I walked to the east again because the dredging team was already congregating on the bridge likely discussing the next steps in recovering their mud sunken excavator. I really wanted to get a picture but didn't want to bother them either. Eiknarf took care of business fairly quickly. We walked just past Chrissy's house and back.

I was happy to see that Mindy made omelet style eggs, and already had a plate waiting in my usual spot. I poured an accompanying glass of juice and sat to eat. Bella was moving slow and wasn't sure what she wanted to eat. She didn't want eggs. I offered some of mine. There were still plenty left in the pan, presumably for Eiknarf. Mindy left near 730am, just as she always does.

I headed off to the shower by 735am. It didn't take me long. I dressed in jeans and a black t-shirt, my old familiar uniform. After all, it was Friday. I was downstairs by 755am. Bella and Jacob were busy playing and asked if it was time to go. Nope. Told them we had almost 15 minutes still. With a little idle time on my hands, I decided to play on the internet. I Googled Trans Siberian Orchestra checking on their CMH concert date as well as the ticket prices. Turns out, their show is the same day as Mannheim (Dec 18). The problem is that Mannheim is in Akron and I'm now on-call that weekend. Contemplating seeing TSO instead. Still tickets available but they're pricier than I hoped, the least expensive $58 + handling.

It was 808am and time to go. I hollered for the kids who were quick to ready for our walk to the bus stop. It was cold but sunny. Felt nice. Met Chrissy and the girls. Commented that one more week of school for Chrissy before graduation. She's very excited.

Bus arrived pretty much on time, or 815am. Walked right home not giving Eiknarf the opportunity to bark at the workers already busy working on freeing up their stuck excavator. They had a couple more piles of boulders dropped already that morning too. Busy dropping them over the bridge railing and into the water. Using them to build and island out to the stuck implement.

I listened to a song or two all the while the Accord warmed in the driveway. It was 821am when I headed out the door. Arrived at work and was in my office by 845am. I spent most of my day crunching numbers for monthly reports. Got involved in a couple urgent customer matters too, but all in all it was a fairly easy work day. Ate only a banana and some chunks of cheese all day long. I left my salad in the fridge. It had already been there since Monday. It’ll need pitched. I was happy to see that the stock market finished the week up over 12K after two really bad weeks leading up to TG. Here’s hoping for a yearend rally!

Talked with Mindy late afternoon. Among other things, she shared that the dredgers finally freed the excavator from the pond but that they made quite a mess in so doing. Said they’d be back next week to continue their work. When asked, I told Mindy that I hoped to leave for home near 5pm. That didn’t happen. Once again, I got stuck dealing with a problem near the day’s end. It was more like 535pm when I shut down and headed for home. Mindy planned to order Sporano’s for dinner, but wanted to wait until she knew I was on my way before placing the order. I called her as soon as I was on the road. I’m guessing it was near 540pm.

Arrived home around 6pm. Before heading inside, I walked to the bridge overlooking the pond. Yep, what a mess. There were piles of mud and rocks everywhere.  I’d wait and get a better look and see in the AM. We had a house full, our two kids, Rocky & Landon, as well as most of the island kids. Oh boy!  Mindy reviewed what she ordered for dinner: 1 large pepperoni pizza and 3 subs. I suggested that she call back and order a 2^nd pizza, especially if the island kids were staying for dinner. She agreed and called back and added a 2^nd large pizza.

Mindy invited the island parents down too, but wasn’t sure what time they’d show up. She also whipped up a big bowl of salad to complement the pizza and subs. It had to be around 630pm when the delivery guy showed up. Mindy, all the kids and I went ahead and ate. The food was good, but I was careful not to eat too much since I planned to make a healthy dent in my CBC growler.

Chrissy showed up by herself but said Kenny would be down a while later. Sure enough, he was about 20 minutes behind her. Around 8pm Mike & Terri showed up. We let the PAC 12 championship game – Oregon/UCLA - whirl in the background. Lindsey showed up after work to get the boys. Immediately went on about not having anyone to watch the kids on Saturday. Said her mother told her to tell us to take them with us to Bella’s all-day gymnastics meet in Gallipolis. We held our tongues.

Both neighbors chimed in that they would be more than willing to keep an eye on the boys while we were away. Lindsey, of course, jumped all over that offer. Planned to drop the boys at our house around 830am where they’d remain until we needed to leave at 1030am at which time they’d head to Chrissy and Terri’s for the rest of the day, or until 530pm when Lindsey got off work. Lindsey and the boys left around 830pm.

Jacob and Evan headed off to his room to play video games and/or watch a movie. The girls, meanwhile, were having a good time in the livingroom dancing and listening to music from my iTunes collection.

As the evening wore on Terri unwisely quizzed Mindy about our relationship & family dysfunction. She first asked Mindy if she thought our rather young marriage could withstand the baggage from my first marriage (I.E. my grown kids). And then at some point Terri really hit a nerve with Mindy, suggesting that she might want to work harder at blending our families. Mindy wasn't humored or amused. Without hesitation she lit her up. There was no mistaking how she felt. Everybody got quiet as Mindy went off on Terri for speaking about issues she really knew little about. As you might guess, it was very uncomfortable for the next few minutes. Mindy & Terri did their best to patch things up, but the tension was still present. We eventually change the subject and ended up hanging out for another 45-60 minutes before calling it a night. By the time everybody left for home it was near 11pm. We really needed to get to bed with a long drive and a busy day ahead of us on Saturday. However, before everybody headed out we once again confirmed plans for the neighbors to watch the boys, and also planned a cookout for Sunday to celebrate Mike O.s 47^th birthday.

Physically Metaphorically Stuck in the Mud

I woke somewhere close to midnight thinking it had to be time to get up. Imagine my surprise when I learned otherwise. I happily went right back to sleep waking a couple more times guilty of clock watching. I finally got up for good around 535am after approximately 10 hours of sleep. Now, you might think that after ten hours of sleep I would’ve been rearing to go right out of bed, but to the contrary. Instead, I was dragging rear. Whatever the reason, that happens more often than you might think.

By the time I got downstairs the coffee brew cycle was all but finished. I glanced out back at the weather. It looked cold. This I assessed by the thick coating of frost covering everything in sight. I quickly headed to the living room where I whipped out the day’s sit-ups. By then I was already beginning to shake off the sleepies. And then, after slurping down a little coffee I was awake as ever.

Meditation was way too brief, but I had little choice given that I’d need to leave the house around 735am to get Bella and Makayla to Beacon singers practice by 8am. I delivered Mindy’s coffee near 605am. She asked how I was feeling after finding me in bed so early the evening before. Told her I was still a little tired but otherwise fine. I needed to get moving. I headed downstairs to stretch and then head out for my run.

I made sure to wear the winter weather extras: a toboggan, ear muffs, hand covers, and perhaps just as important, an extra layer of shorts to keep my private parts warm. It was near 27 degrees out the door and already after 630am. I decided early on that I would trim my run to 3 miles so I wouldn’t be pushed for time after the run. I ran the entire three miles comfortably and also feeling much better about things.

At home, it was trash day and they had already been by to empty our can. I drug the empty can back to its resting place then headed in for the dog. Mindy coaxed Eiknarf out of bed and downstairs to her waiting leash. We headed out near 705am. I walked her eastward so to avoid the dredging guys already congregating at the bridge. She took care of her business rather quickly. We headed back home for breakfast.

Mindy made omelet style scrambled eggs again, my most recent preference. I warmed Eiknarf’s leftover eggs still in the fridge from the day before. I didn’t need any lunch since I still had Tuesday’s in the fridge at work. All I needed to take was a banana. Mindy left for work about ten minutes early. I headed off to the shower soon after, once again needing/wanting to be out the door no later than 740am. As such, I reminded both kids.

My shower was quick. I was downstairs and ready by 733am. Told Bella we needed to leave by 740am. Jacob was already heading out the door for Chrissy’s in his new shoes, new jacket, and his blown dry. I headed out to warm/defrost the Accord, which was covered in a thick coat of frost.

I enjoyed a little more of my coffee before picking up my bag and heading out. Bella ran down to get Makayla who wasn’t yet with us. Before I could finish squeegeeing the car windows clear, they both came running. Off we went. It was 742am as we buzzed by the dredgers already getting busy. We made good time heading up the freeway into Hilliard. I dropped the girls at the school just before 8am. As before, I waited until I saw them head inside before pulling away.

I haven’t arrived at the office this early in a really long time. I pulled in the lot at 805am and parked up front. It was a gorgeous sunny morning, by the way.  I was settled in my office a little while later, where I quickly discovered that I was one of just a handful of folks actually working from the office. By 9am several others were online and working, but they must’ve been doing so from home. That just meant I could work with less chance of interruption. I accomplished a lot, including getting a quick jump on the November monthly reports, by downloading all the necessary raw data.

A couple times I tinkered with the idea of simply heading home and finishing my work day there. But in the end I stuck it out at the office. As a rule of thumb, I am much more focused from the office than I am at home. As you might expect, it was crazy quiet.

I didn’t get that hungry either. The only thing I ate from my packed lunch was the cheese and banana. I left my salad and fruit in the fridge.

As 3pm neared once again I kicked around the idea of heading home, but again opted not. Then, as luck would have it, my boss called me from Cleveland asking me to get involved in a rather ugly problem. I didn’t feel that comfortable with the limited information I had to go on, but started plugging away anyway. Suddenly, my afternoon got a little crazy. I had my boss calling me, a customer, and then another customer. Oh boy! It’s funny how that can work Quiet all day, then bam, everybody wants a piece of me.

I worked my way through those issues as far as I could. Mindy called a couple times, too. I missed both. Worried that something was wrong, I called back at my earliest convenience. I was no big deal. Just shared that she was on her way from having her hair done, visiting niece Lindey, and picking up the boys. Said Lindey’s doing really well, all things considered. I shared how busy I was and that I’d call again once in route for home.

I worked until near 530pm making for a 10.5 hour day with few if any real breaks. The time went incredibly fast, though. No complaints. I called Mindy once I was near 270. Among other things, she shared that the dredgers got their excavator stuck in the pond, sunk in the mud at least three feet deep. Said there were all sorts of heavy equipment on site to try and get it out. She also shared that my dad opted out of sticking around for dinner after seeing the kids off the bus. She wasn’t sure why, but if memory serves, I think it had something to do with the mannequins. We ended the call as I turned onto Wilson off Roberts.

At home, it was almost completely dark. I walked over to the bridge to get a peak at the excavator still embedded in the pond. Wow! I was surprised how deeply entrenched it was. Mindy wasn’t kidding. It was leaning a bit too. Looks like they’re using the boulders originally planned for the shore line to make a peninsula out to the stuck excavator. Have two others on site now, too, and one of them really big. Me and another guy checking it out from the bridge could only laugh. The workers were long gone. Knocked off before dark. According to Mindy, they didn’t seem too concerned about it. Said it’s happened before, and it was even worse. She said they also complained freely about neighbor Carl’s constant fault finding with their work. Eventually told him that they were working to their contract and that’s that. J

I headed in to see the family, unload my stuff, and prepare for dinner. We had Rocky and Landon again. Mindy said they’d both been pretty good. The house seemed a little small with everyone gathered around the kitchen with lots of stuff scattered about. That always makes me crazy. There’s no denying that I prefer coming home to a quiet, tranquil, and exceptionally clean home. But it is what it is. This has become my life.

Soon dinner was served. Everybody loves beef & noodles. Mindy gave me the leftover Gloria mashed potatoes. The kids all had Bob Evans brand while Mindy was the only one having mashed sweet potatoes. It was all really good. I had a second helping of noodles. Landon and Bella did too. Landon is a good eater, and very entertaining. He has a sweet soul as well. Mindy and Ashley both think he’s likely to be gay. Come what may.

Mindy promised the kids a science experiment and fresh baked cookies after dinner. They were essentially slice and bakes. The experiment came first, however, and while I did clean-up. She dropped Mentos into an old  2 liter bottle filled with about 12 ounces of soda. She had the kids guessing what might happen. She did it twice. Both times, nothing. I had to laugh. Bewildered by the results, she eventually scrapped the experiment. She went on about having done the same thing with her class earlier in the day and seeing an eruption of sorts. Bad Mentos? J

Next, she got out the cookie dough. The kids actually like eating the raw dough as much or more than the finished product. It was comical listening to them beg for more of the raw stuff. They played in the basement while the cookies baked. They got to playing a little rough at times where I had to interject with a few mostly idol threats.

I had my laptop fired up and logged into work since dinner time. I was stuck following up on that issue my boss asked me to run with earlier. I sent an update to those that needed to be involved and then called the customer.  I was done, at least temporarily, by 745pm, or about the same time that Lindsey arrived to get the boys. Mindy had me leave the leftover beef & noodles out for Lindsey, who texted her earlier, stating that she’d be hungry for dinner.

Imagine my surprise when I caught a glimpse of Lindsey with her left jaw all swollen, almost as if she had a golf ball in there. Said it was an old root canal gone bad. Blamed her old dentist.  I couldn’t help but chime in asking what she planning to do about it. As it was, she was on antibiotics. I also reiterated why it’s so important that we take care of ourselves. But as always, she missed the intended point. She went on and on about how she brushes her teeth all the time. My point wasn’t necessarily about brushing regularly, though that’s good, but instead that this was why we wisely subscribe to our medical/dental insurance plans at work, to cover such things. These things happen to everyone. The difference is how well we prepared ourselves for such a crisis. She’s in somewhat of a pickle. Her government provided insurance apparently won’t do a crown. Instead, they will only pull it. 

She’s 27 and turned down her company’s insurance even against my recommendation that she not. My advice: you can’t afford NOT to get it. And besides, you’ll only miss the money for a short burst of time until you get used to it not being there. Not to mention that it comes out pretax. This falls into the category, you’ve gotta care more about yourself than anyone else. Otherwise, I am not gonna feel sorry for you and bail you out of trouble once it comes. Duh! I was annoyed as she sat there in obvious discomfort and pain. Stupid is as stupid does (Sally Fields, Forest Gump ’94). J

Before she and the boys left, I asked her how the car’s doing, noticing that she hadn’t said a word about if for two days. I had plans for its repairs in my back pocket. She said the check engine light is no longer on since Wednesday morning and that it’s performing well, but in the same breath shared that it will happen again.  I shook my head in agreement.

Lastly, Lindsey shared that she had no one to get and watch the boys Friday evening either. Mindy and I agreed to offer our services. Not sure what she’s going to do about Saturday. To say that I was tense, stressed, or crabby after she departed would be an understatement. Unfortunately, Bella was the first one to feel the affects. She was fooling around on the banister until I made her stop. Seconds later she knocked over the doggie gate which slammed loudly onto the tile floor, and enough to make us all jump. I gave her an earful and the stink eye. She was sad. Instantly, I felt bad for snapping at her. And while her antics were uncalled for, the impetus for my anger was not her silliness. Rather, it was rooted in my not so bright daughter’s choices.  I felt really bad when Bella weepingly asked if she should head to her room. No.

What I needed was a diversion, and then maybe some peace, stillness, and a beer! I changed into my PJs then returned to the kitchen where I tapped into my jug of Bodhi I had stashed in the fridge since last Wednesday night still untapped. Ahhh! Now that’s what I’m talking about. Jacob and I watched a college football game even though his preference was watching the rest of the Harry Potter movie he and his mother recently bought. It was already near 830pm anyway. Mindy suggested that both kids needed to plan to be in bed by 9pm – no exceptions. She stuck to her guns, too. Jacob figured what the heck, and headed up much earlier than that. Apparently the Southern Florida/ West Virginia game interested him little.

I didn’t care who won either, but still wanted to watch just for the diversion factor. A couple of times I checked my laptop to see if there was any further feedback on that pesky work issue. There was none. I watched more of the game until my pint was gone and I started to dose from the sofa. Heavenly, I tell you. Heavenly!