Sunday, April 24, 2011

Confetti Eggs for Easter



I woke around 745a, and aside from a stiff neck and shoulders, I felt pretty good. I tried to remain stealthy as I slipped off to brush my teeth, but Mindy woke just as I was heading out the bedroom door for downstairs. She asked me to lie down and hold her for a few minutes. I obliged her request. Must’ve stayed in bed for another 30 minutes.

While I started coffee and played on the internet, Mindy took a shower, presumably getting ready for church. Meanwhile, it was another cloudy, rainy, and moderately warm spring morning. Any hopes of a hot & sunny Easter were dashed. Expecting rain most of the day with the high reaching only 62 degrees.

I walked Frankie before Mindy & the kids were downstairs. She took care of her business in a hurry. Still before 9a, the kids finally woke up. Mindy’s trained them well. They always ask before they head downstairs on Xmas and Easter. Mindy granted their wish. Bella was down first. It took a few seconds for me to realize what she was doing. She was already gathering the hidden eggs Mindy stashed around the family room. Mindy made her stop until Jacob made it down. They both used plastic grocery bags to store their  eggs. Personally, I think they’re getting a little old & wise for a one room egg hunt. They found 51 of the 52 in the matter of a minute.

The kids opened some of the plastic eggs revealing their content. I'm quite sure that Mindy said 11 of the eggs held $1 each. The rest held candy. After the egg hunt, the kids attacked their personal baskets. Almost immediately Bella echoed displeasure with hers - the skimpy offering. Mindy wasn’t very happy to hear that from her. Jacob seemed pleased though.

After spending a few minutes rifling through their baskets we headed out back for a confetti egg fight. Mindy brought out the special eggs after taking cinnamon rolls out of the oven. What Jacob didn’t realize was that I already had one of the eggs in my possession. I nailed him in the high thigh from about 20 feet. Left a nasty read mark. A younger Jacob would’ve broke into tears. He laughed it off.

Both Mindy & I were a little surprised at the durability of these eggs. Actually hurt when they hit you, and most bounced off remaining whole. Bella took a couple to the head. Jacob plays rough. We finished the confetti egg battle after about five minutes. Left a mess in the grass. We headed back to the house. At some point I gave Mindy her Easter present, a dazzling new gazing ball. I think she liked it.

Mindy headed back upstairs to ready for church. At the same time she had the kids ready themselves. Before they left for church, she had me take a few pictures. Same dress she wore a few years back I noticed. After Mindy and the kids left for church, I started some bacon. I hadn’t had bacon and eggs in a while. Craving it. Last Easter, I remember hanging the new track lighting over the fireplace. As I recall, I did a lot of swearing. Not sure why that came to mind.

It dawned on me while I was cooking breakfast that I hadn’t yet ran. The holiday thing threw me a curve ball. Almost ready, I decided to go ahead and eat beforehand. I enjoyed my eggs and bacon then readied for a run. As long as I didn‘t stuff myself I knew I’d be fine.

I headed out the door around 1035a. Like most Sunday’s I rolled my run back to just three miles. It rained lightly on and off but wasn’t anything more than an inconvenience. Sadly, getting used to running in the rain. We go through a phase every spring when we become stuck in an endless loop of rain and cool temps. More often than not the pattern strikes a week or so ahead of Memorial Day. Perhaps we’re getting it out of the way early this year. Only time will tell.

After my run I headed out back to see if there were a few yard chores I could complete in the less than desirable conditions. I topped off the hot tub and then checked the long standing ant hill near one of the back yard red maples. I put down Ortho ant killer last week. Supposed to kill on contact and then keep them away for 90 days.  Looked like a mound of busy ants to me. I went and got more of the poison and applied an extra heavy dose. After topping off the hot tub I watered it in well, per the directions.

Mindy and the kids were home around noon. Mindy offered to make me a grilled cheese sandwich, but how could I finish my chores if I were a sandwich? J I declined. I cut back some honey suckle and then trimmed some dead growth from the shrubs out front. Before calling it an afternoon, I took 30 minutes to fix and clean the head on my weedeater, and then I replace the blade on the edger attachment, both perfect rainy day tasks.

The front lawn really needed cut again, but it was too wet. I held out hope that we'd get a dry afternoon during the coming week where I could then cut it after work. I headed in for a much needed shower. It was around 230p. Mindy wanted to head to her mom’s place around 3-330p. I was ready to go by 3p. In addition to the kids, we took Frankie and scalloped potatoes. We left the house at 315p.

Mindy had her XM set to “the Jesus Channel”. I tried switching to the classic vinyl station but couldn’t locate it. Mindy pointed out that it needs to be set to XM2. Ahh – OK. We arrived at Gloria’s place around 330p. We were the 3rd car to arrive. Expecting at least 3 others. After a brief greeting, Jacob and I headed out back to shoot hoops. We brought the basketball the kids pulled from the pond. After adding a little air it seemed like a real nice ball.

While playing basketball, the sky cleared up and the temperature shot up in a hurry. Having checked the radar just before leaving the house, I guessed that it just might clear for about an hour. Jacob and I played two games of 1 on 1. I took both, but worked up one heck of sweat in doing so. Somehow or another I hurt my left wrist. Not sure when or how. Every time I took a shot a sharp pain surged along and behind the thumb and into my wrist.  I stayed outside soaking up the sunshine and warm temps while it lasted. Figured I better get it them. Looked like rain everyday during the coming week.

Dinner must’ve been served around 5p. There was ham, KFC chicken, macaroni salad, corn pudding, coleslaw, deviled eggs, and green beans. I ate plenty but avoided completely stuffing myself. After dinner I could’ve fallen asleep but didn’t. Several folks went on a neighborhood walk. Mindy & I did not.

Dessert was served around 7p – ice box cookie cake and strawberry flan cake.  I had two pieces of the ice box cookie cake. Yummy!

Already after 730p, I suggested we ready for home. Mindy agreed. Must’ve been around 745p when we headed out. Gloria gave each of the grandkids an Easter basket before they left. She made Easter treat bags for all the adults too. That was very nice. Mine was filled with lots of bulls eyes.

Arrived home just before 8p. Both kids pleaded for a little outdoor playtime, but Mindy quickly nixed that notion. Instead, she had them ready for bed. At Jacob’s prompting, we tuned the TV to the Discovery Channel’s Human Planet. Another excellent episode. I poured a pint of Centennial. Went down easy. We watched until 9p. I fell asleep on the floor for about 10-15 minutes. I woke shortly after Mindy sent the kids upstairs for bed. It was 915p. I played around on my PC for a few minutes until Mindy announced that she was heading to bed. I went back in the family room with Frankie for a few to hopefully get her settled for the night.

I headed upstairs to tuck in the kids. Eiknarf taken care of, Bella said she needed to talk to me about this boy at school, Joe. Oh boy, with Bella, you just never know where the conversation might lead. She went on and on about how he’s always chasing/following her. Brings other boys along too. Sounds like Joe has a crush on our Bella. Bella wasn’t happy that I was heading to bed. She likes for me to be up and downstairs until she falls asleep.

I wasn’t in bed but a minute or two when Frankie found her way to the bottom of the stairs and started whining. She wanted to be with her people. I’m usually with her on the sofa when she falls asleep. After talking it over with Mindy we agreed to allow Frankie to sleep with Bella, who had already made her way into our room to ask. Good night monsoon!



Saturday, April 23, 2011

Playing Easter with the G-Kids

I slept fairly well Friday night and was up at 730a after about 9.5 hours of sleep. Downstairs I started a pot of coffee then whipped out sit-ups and push-ups before heading out with Eiknarf. It was warm, about 61 degrees, but once again cloudy and threatening rain. In fact, it started to rain while Eiknarf and I finished our walk. Ugh!

It was just after 8a when we returned home and I poured some coffee. I could hear Mindy upstairs and stirring. I was very surprised that she was up and downstairs a couple minutes later. She's rarely up before 9a on a Saturday.

We kept largely to ourselves, me on my PC and Mindy on her laptop until the kids were up. Not 30 minutes went by before Frankie insisted on going out again. This time Mindy took her out. I worked on publishing a few blog entries before heading out on my Saturday run. It was near 930a. I wasn’t sure how to dress but opted for long running pants and a wicking shirt. It was in the low 60s but also very humid. I was a tad too warm. Could easily have gone with shorts and a short sleeved shirt. The sky cleared briefly and the sun came out. That warmed things even more and also in a hurry. When I returned Mindy shared that Bella wanted some Tim Horton’s donuts.  Why not? I made it conditional. One, she had to go with me and two she had to pay. She said she’d go along but didn’t have enough money to buy.  I was kidding about her paying. We took the BM’er. Bella’s rode in it only one other time.

It was still sunny and warm as we headed down the road to Timmy’s. It didn’t take us long to get our dozen donuts, but by the time we were heading back towards home clouds were moving in again. L The lovely weather was short lived.  Nice while it lasted!

I enjoyed a cream filled donut before heading out. Mindy wanted to nail down our day’s plans. She offered that we should have the grandkids over to give them their Easter baskets. Wanted me to make the arrangements. I called both Lindsey and Ashley. Kelly agreed to bring the kids over. Ashley agreed to pick ‘em up around 730p. Mindy planned to grill brats and dogs. She was planning a trip to the grocery well before any of that and wanted me to take Jacob for a haircut. Jacob  was willing to pay me $20 not to take him. Mindy wasn’t amused when I accepted his bribe. Told her I’d end up taking him Monday. I gave him his money back.

While Mindy left for the grocery, Bella ran off to Makayla’s. Jacob and Evan had an airsoft battle out back. I gave him until 1245p. At that time I told him that we’d have to leave to get his haircut. He agreed. It rained on and off, but that didn’t detour the boys. Jacob was a muddy mess when he came back inside. By then I had already showered and was busy downloading some music from iTunes. I asked Bella to see if Chrissy would keep an eye on her while I ran Jacob to get his haircut. Kenny agreed. Jacob and I left around 1p.

We headed to the Great Clips by the Hilliard Giant Eagle. They were moderately busy but still able to take him right away. I walked back to give the stylist some pointers. It was a guy. Can’t recall his name. He’s cut my hair before. He did a good job. One of the best cuts Jacob’s had.

Mindy called just as we were finishing up at Great Clips. She was already on her way home from the grocery. Jacob and I headed across the street to Dick’s Sporting Goods despite his insistence that we not. I wanted to look at their skate boards. Bella’s Target special recently broke. They have some decent boards, but not like I was lead to believe. We didn’t buy one. There only about ten minutes we left empty handed and headed back towards home.

Mindy was already home. Jacob put on a pouty face as we entered the house. I wasn’t sure if he was joking or if he was playing it up for Mindy. He absolutely hates getting his haircut. Mindy gave me one of those looks as I entered. I assured her that he was only joking. He turned around laughing. Jacob headed back out to play with his friends. I headed out to work in the flower beds some.

My goals was to remove the English Ivy growing up the sides of the house and then cut down the two burning bushes that are completely dead on the west side of the house. As I shared earlier, it was only in the mid 60s but awfully humid. I worked up quite a sweat out there in the flower beds. Mindy came out for about 30 minutes to help. We filled an entire tarp with English Ivy clippings from the east side alone. Mindy broke off to head down to Chrissy’s house. They planned to cookout with us later once the gkids and dad were over.

I took a second shower after yard work. I was sticky, sweaty and dirty. The gkids showed up around 330p. Kelly dropped them off. Lindsey came over too. As usual, the kids were a little wild, especially at first. At Mindy’s prompting, I lit the grill around 5p. As luck would have it, it started raining again, heavy too. I checked the radar. It didn’t look like the rain was gonna last, at least not the heavy stuff.

Not sure the time when dad arrived, but it was after 5p. I headed out to grill the brats and dogs, about 15 of each. Mindy had potato salad and baked beans prepared too. Even before dinner, I started drinking  Jack & Coke. I needed the buzz to help deal with the chaos. J

Brats and dogs grilled up real nice. I had one of each along with some potato salad. Meanwhile, we had a houseful between the grand kids, neighbors, dad, as well as our own kids. Ashley arrived around 730-8p to pick-up the grandkids and Lindsey.

I kept the Jack & Cokes flowing into evening hours. I had quite a buzz going. At some point, as the evening wound down Mindy became annoyed with a comment I made about her mom. Let’s just say that she gave me an earful in front of the remaining guests - neighbors and dad. Ouch!

Not sure the time when Dad peeled off for home, but I’m guessing it was near 830p. The neighbors stuck around for a while. At some point Mindy got upset again, but for what I can’t recall. Not sure if it was me or Jacob. But anyway, she grabbed her purse and keys and left for about 20-30 minutes. Once Bella got word of that she was upset too.

Chrissy took that as her queue to depart. She begged off for home. Kenny and big Jake stuck around with Jacob and I. A little foggy on the details, but at some point big Jake asked if he could take a swig of Jack. Yes. He didn’t care for it at all. Not sure what he thought it would taste like. Kind of funny watching him deal with the inevitable burn. Jake gave Kenny hell for laughing and dared him to take a swig. Kenny promptly downed what remained in the bottle (not much) without emotion.

Mindy was back home a couple minutes later. Said she was going to bed. Kenny & Jake headed for home. They weren’t gone five minutes when Kenny returned to the front door saying that he forgot Makayla. Oops! :) She was upstairs with Bella. Jacob and I toyed with the idea of walking down to Kenny’s to shoot pool but never did. Mindy made him go to bed. I took refuge on the sofa watching TV and eventually falling asleep. Mindy got busy playing Easter bunny. She woke me around 11p, I think, to head to bed.

Friday, April 22, 2011

Cool & Rainy like Veteran's Day

I was up on time on what proved to be yet another rainy morning in April. It was supposed to be Good Friday, but the gloomy weather made it hard to find anything good about it. Seemed more like Veteran’s Day in mid November. I breezed through sit-ups and push-ups then checked the ugly forecast online. It was 44 degrees and raining. Later in the day, it wasn’t expected to warm beyond the low 50’s.

It was near 6a when Eiknarf and I headed out for our morning walk. She’s getting much better about taking care of business quickly ever since we switched her food. I can’t help but think it’s more than just a coincidence. Like I’ve shared before, she’s gobbling up her twice-a-day food allotment in one setting.

We were back home by 610a. Because it was Good Friday, both Mindy and the kids didn’t have school. In turn, that clipped several minutes from my morning routine. I enjoyed coffee for a while longer and took more time than usual with meditation and stretching, too. It was 645a when I headed out for a run. It was chilly enough that I was compelled to wear running gloves. It rained but only lightly. I ran the full 4.1 mile track getting back somewhere near 720a. Mindy wasn’t up so I prepared my own breakfast. I didn’t mind. I fried two eggs perfectly and enjoyed them along with fruit and ½ an English muffin.

I headed up for a shower around 740a. Mindy woke as I headed into the shower. I was quick with a shower, primping, and then getting dressed. Mindy was already out of bed and downstairs when I finished. Said she and the kids were gonna color eggs and maybe even have lunch with her mom. Sadly, there wasn’t gonna be any outdoor playin’ going on. Weather was miserable.

Left for work at 810a. I’d forgotten that my peer and I planned a 9a meeting with a handful of folks. No worries. We pulled it off. The work day wasn’t nearly as stressful as I thought it might be. Friday’s can get crazy quickly. I left for lunch at 115p making a stop at Wal-Mart & Home Depot to get Easter stuff for Mindy & the kids.

I went to Wal-Mart first. There I bought Jacob & Bella new fishing poles and tackle as well as a couple auto care items for me. I headed to Home Depot next. There, I picked up two new sprayers for the hose, odorless ant spray, parts for the weedeater, and a gazing ball for Mindy. I also bought two cool new tiki torches for the deck.

It was 230p. I headed back to the office for what I hoped would be a calm finish to the work week. I called Mindy during my drive home but got disconnected. She called back a couple minutes later. Shared that I got the stuff for the kids Easter Baskets as planned. She shared that they made confetti eggs and went to lunch with her mom at Minelli’s. She also said that Jacob asked if we could dine at Barley’s. Oh, and by the way, it was still raining and chilly.  I wasn’t sure about Barley’s. My neck & shoulders were bothering me all day long.

Inside, Mindy showed off the Easter crafts the kids made that day. Jacob asked about Barleys. I was noncommittal. I eventually made my way to the livingroon floor lying flat on my back trying to stretch out the kink. Mindy, the kids, and Frankie followed me. I wrestled with the kids a little. And unless I’m mistaken, I think I took a brief nap. It was raining at a good clip. Hard to get motivated to do anything, really. Mindy kept on me about dinner. Honestly, a Minelli’s pizza sounded good to me, but they had already been there earlier. I reminded Jacob that I had just been the Barley’s the evening before. I eventually acquiesced agreeing to do dinner at Barleys. It was after 7p when we headed out.

It was raining heavy enough that I let everyone out at the door. I found a parking spot towards the back of the lot. Mindy put our name in for a bar area booth. It was very crowded. I enjoyed a Centennial while waiting for a table. I also carried on a conversation with Scott P. about the Brew Kettle brewery's in-house brewing program where you pay like $175 to brew your favorite beer. That fee covers everything: ingredients, bottles, customer labels, etc. Sounds like fun.

Sarah was our server. Mindy ordered the hummus plate, and I ordered the Cuban with bacon. Haven’t had one of those for about a year, or ever since they changed the recipe to the more traditional Cuban. Loved their old one way better. Jacob ordered buffalo chicken tenders with Gates of Hell sauce on the side for dipping. Bella ordered a corn dog and fries. I ordered a 2nd Centennial IPA too, despite having some left in my first.

Mindy left an empty growler at the bar when we arrived. Before leaving, I asked Katy to fill it with Centennial. I paid the bar tab and Mindy picked up dinner. We headed home around 9p. It was noticeably warmer as we headed out the door, at least 10 degrees warmer. Hmm? We talked about hanging with the neighbors once home, but they were also out for dinner - celebrating their anniversary.

I tuned the TV to FOX to watch Fringe. Mindy felt it too much for the kids but I assured her that it was PG. They watched intently.  I poured a Centennial from my growler but fell asleep before it was gone. We headed to bed around 10p, or after the program. Unusual for a Friday night. I had about ½ a beer left.  I covered it and placed it in the fridge.

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Second Centennial

I overslept again but this time by only ten minutes. I didn’t sweat it much, if at all. I knew that I could make it up easily since the kids had a late start. I just needed to be back home from my run before Mindy left for school.

On a positive note, it was crystal clear, the moon visible and bright, about 2/3s full. Unfortunately, it was expected to get down to 37 over night. After sit-ups I checked the actual temp and forecast. It was currently 35 degrees with an expected high of only 53 with sunshine. I’d take it, but not exactly what I had in mind.

After push-ups and coffee I headed out with Eiknarf. I stopped to zip my fleece all the way up to my neck. It was chilly! Frankie took care of business in a reasonable amount of time, but because we got a late start, it was already after 615a when we got back home. I insisted on doing a meditation and stretch. Can’t let that slip. I did both in the course of the next 15 minutes. I headed upstairs with coffee and Eiknarf at 635a. Mindy was still in the shower.

Downstairs, I bundled for a run wearing ear covers but no gloves. I used my sleeves like a turtle uses his shell, drew my hands up inside until I was warm and sweaty. I ran the full 4.1 miles without incident. Soon, I was back at home and tending to our emptied trash can. After placing it back in its usual stash I headed inside where Mindy already had my eggs waiting. She was all but ready to head out. It was 724a.

Both kids were still asleep, not needing up for a while due to the scheduled late start. Mindy suggested a kinder, gentler way of waking them. Apparently they complained about the last late start when I opened their doors and woke them with a normal voice. Mindy advised that she accomplished this by opening their blinds and turning off their fans then gives them a kiss. Ummm, let me see … No! How about this? Mornin' Soldiers. Welcome to mamby-pamby land!

Although by accident, Mindy fried an egg for Eiknarf, too. The yoke broke so she made me another. I fed it to her before heading off to the shower. I opened the kids blinds as Mindy suggested and turned off their fans. They didn’t budge. I tapped Bella’s mattress and said good morning. She acknowledged my presence but remained in bed. Jacob, on the other hand, seemed to wake up naturally. I was out of the shower and almost fully dressed when I heard the door bell. I automatically assumed it Dad. It was. He let himself in.

I joined him downstairs a minute later. We each enjoyed some coffee while I made last minute lunch preparations. Jacob joined us around 805a. I asked Dad about the Delores story he was telling Mindy when I fell asleep the evening before. He filled in the blanks some. I agreed that Jacob could head outside with his airsoft rifle and shoot the resting geese. Rats with wings! He loves doing it. Just scares them away, nothing more.

Bella remained asleep as I prepared for departure. I told Dad that she could sleep as late as 9a, and then reminded him that bus stop time was 957a. He’s done it before and acknowledged the times. I left for work.

It was a beautiful drive in. The sunshine was awesome. Hard to come by this month. I arrived on time. I spent the first 30 minutes of the day preparing for our department meeting. The meeting went really well. I was quite pleased. We have a good team. I was energized and inspired afterwards.

Once again, I was just too busy to consider leaving for lunch. I thought about a visit to Home Depot but couldn’t remember what was on my list, Happens a lot. When I think about it in advance, I send the list via email that I can access on my smart phone. I ate my lunch at my desk around 2p, an hour later than usual. We held our 2nd department meeting at 3p. Went just as well as the morning session. I was again very pleased.

From 4p to 515p I was once again very busy. My boss and I had an informal discussion about the following day. He was scheduled off. I’d be getting his escalations, too. I was happy to do it. I left for home just before 530p.

I called my mom on the drive home. She sounded good and said as much. Talked about her recent ailings. Said her neck is still bothering her but refuses to do the physical therapy recommended which is designed to help strengthen the muscles in that area of her neck. Wouldn’t take my advice. I quipped that if she knew so much, why she didn’t just do the surgery herself too with scalpel and mirror. Said she never hears from 3rd son Tommy and/or her brother Chuck, though expects him home from Vegas next month. I asked if she’s sought a tombstone for aunt Linda’s grave yet. Hasn’t, but plans to come to town and visit Modlich’s with dad once the weather warms. I ended the call when I pulled up at home.

Mindy was on the phone when I arrived home. I noticed quickly that she was sporting a strange new haircut and style. My face must’ve gave away my initial reaction. She shared as much with the person on the other end of the call. I don’t recall giving her permission to change her hair style.  With few words, we prepared for a dinner date at Barley’s. I tried coaxing Mindy into letting me fix her hair the way I like it, but she’d have nothing to do with my preference. Thing is, I know style like I know the back of my hand. Just ask me!

Phone rang while I was taking care of my personal electronics at my PC station. Mindy answered. Turned out being my mom again. Told Mindy that aunt Linda’s husband Steve passed away. I guess she just got word. He made it only 4 months longer than Linda.

We left for Barley’s around 6p. The drive was quiet. We sat at a barside table. All the stools were taken. Busy. I ordered a Centennial. Mindy only a glass of water. I tinkered with my camera while Mindy played on her smartphone. We eventually ordered food. I went with buffalo chicken tenders and fries. Mindy went with steamed muscles. I had a second Centennial. We settled our tab near 730p and left for home.

We beat the kids home by roughly ten minutes. Looked like they had an egg hunt. Not sure if it took place at their dad's or elsewhere. Bella came in waving $6 dollars around in addition to a basket full of candy.

It was Idol elimination night. We settled in front of the TV five minutes early catching a little knowledge TV first. I managed to stay awake long enough to see Jacob sent to the bottom three but no others. I woke with 10 minutes remaining in the show when Mindy shared that Haley was also in the bottom three, but had already been sent back to safety. It came down to Jacob and Stefano, Bella's personal favorite. America voted and after 52 million votes Stefano was sent packing. he took it well, about as good as I've ever seen anyone. His Idol peeps rushed to embrace him as the show ended.

It was 9p. We watched Bones next. Quite sure Mindy let the kids stay up. All of them were off school Friday - Good Friday. Lucky them! I, however, still had to work. I didn't make it all the way through Bones either, ending up dosing from my chair. We headed to bed at 10p sharp. I was out before Mindy's head hit her pillow.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Tornado Sirens in the Night

Another night of severe thunderstorms. In fact, this time we had tornado warnings tossed in, too. Mindy and the kids even got up and headed to the basement. I’m thinking that was near 330a. Bella is hyper sensitive to any weather remotely capable of producing tornados. She was in our bed at least twice through the night in a downright panic. Then, when the sirens went off she flipped out, insisting that Mindy go to the basement. Mindy eventually drug herself from bed. I remember hearing Bella insist that she get Jacob up too, and then Frankie. They didn’t bother asking me more than once. When originally asked, I said no and rolled over and went back to sleep.

I laid there half awake for about five minutes listening to the tornado sirens. The weather quieted down completely – eerie even. I remember thinking, great, I refused to get up and go to the basement with the others and now I’m gonna die here in a tornado. I got up and turned on the TV to check the weather and radar. Channel 4 had the best coverage. Said the tornado threat was now all the way out in Newark, well past us. Looked like a doosey though. And the pounding against the windows and house earlier was crazy wicked. The sirens continued despite what I knew. It was well past us. I quietly went back to sleep.

Turns out, I slept right through my normal rise time, oversleeping by 20 minutes. I was frustrated with myself for doing so. What could I do other than hit the gas pedal? I quickly brushed my teeth and headed downstairs to whip through my routine. It was still raining but only lightly. No more lightning either.

I hurried through sit-ups then checked the forecast. It was warm and cloudy. Most of the threatening weather appeared beyond us. I went to do push-ups but my left wrist was hurting so bad I decided to forego them and in their place did curls. I took Frankie out at 605a. The rain had all but stopped. She took care of business quickly and efficiently. We were back by 615a. I poured and enjoyed some coffee then did a quick meditation and stretch. It was after 630a when I prepared Mindy’s coffee.

Frankie and I headed up where Mindy was already mid-shower. I headed back downstairs to ready for a run. My running clothes were in the dryer after getting soaked in yesterday’s downpour. I wore two wicking shirts but no fleece. Actually, though, that proved a tad too warm, but I simply dealt with it. Lightning struck nearby again. And a second flash was close enough that the thunder was only a second behind. At the time, I was just one quick loop from the three mile mark, and the farthest point from our house. Figures! I clipped that final loop and turned towards home, not wanting to risk life and limb. I made it back home safely.

Mindy was up and ready for work. Both kids were up and alert too. I teased Bella about making sure that her mom, Jacob and Frankie were safe while neglecting me. Said she gave me one chance. I then shared that reacting to the siren was 10 minutes too late. They still had no idea. We laughed it off that the siren is nothing more than telling you that had there been a tornado heading towards us, we’d have been dead.

Mindy made scrambled eggs topped with cheese. Said she made enough for Frankie too. I ate most of mine but had some left to add to what was already set aside for the dog. Meanwhile, Eiknarf expressed unbridled anxiousness for her share. She was making sounds I've never before heard. I gave them to her just before heading up for a shower.

Shower felt great. Was back downstairs packing my lunch by 745a. Mindy again had one of those yummy salads already prepared and setting in the fridge. I threw together a fruit medley, cheese and a banana. The kids and I headed out for the bus at 757a. Jacob didn’t have his jacket on or with him. I made him run back home and get it as the forecast was calling for dropping temps through the afternoon. By the end of the school day it was expected to be around 40.

After some last minute preparations, I headed off for work. It was somewhere near 830a. Work started off fine. We had our weekly staff call at 9a. It lasted no more than 30 minutes. Discussed ideas for process improvement.

I know I say it almost every day, but once again it was crazy busy. I ate my packed lunch from my desk. The salad Mindy packed really hit the spot. Being so busy made the entire day go by in a snap. Mindy called mid-afternoon to let me know that soccer practice was canceled due to wet fields. She also mentioned that my dad was joining us for dinner, having inferno chicken. She said he also agreed to cover the kids’ late start Thursday morning after I told Mindy that I couldn't due to previously planned department meetings that I just couldn’t miss.

I left work somewhere close to 530p. The lawn looked even greener than it did earlier that morning. All this rain is certainly good for our lawns, but we could sure use mid-70’s and sunshine. Greeted dad and Mindy as soon as I was inside the house. Both kids were off in their rooms. I asked if that was for punishment or play. Mindy confirmed for play. Good!

Dad and I chatted about who knows what while Mindy dished up dinner. The inferno chicken was exceptional. Mindy made baked potatoes & tater tots, too. I went with the tots. Oh yeah, there were green peas as well. During dinner dad shared that he transported Vicky to her second eye surgery appointment, cataracts, I think. Said everything went well. He also shared the details surrounding Archie’s latest vet appointment at Banfield. As I gathered, he’s in good overall health. Just not sure why he’d send his son to a veterinarian in lieu of a real doctor. 

I shared that Banfield sent me a reminder that Ykraps was due for his rabies vaccine. I joked that I called and asked if they were sure he still needed it. After receiving a confident yes I dug him up and took him in. Really? No, not really. That story morphed into the horrible odor emanating from near his pond side burial site. I wondered if it was his body decomposing. Mindy chimed in that he’d almost certainly be fully decomposed, now some 15 months removed.

The kids were dismissed from the dinner table and ran off to play. I’m thinking Bella headed off to Makayla’s and Jacob off on his bike. After clean-up, Dad, Mindy & I enjoyed some Jeni’s ice cream (what was left from our cookout two weeks ago). We each had some of the chocolate jalapeño and the black coffee. We offered to send what was left of the buttermint home with dad. Mindy & I don’t care too much for it. Dad accepted.

Dad started telling stories from his youth. While listening, I slipped over to the sofa and laid down. I wasn’t trying to kid anyone. I was tired and likely going out for a nap. The story he was telling was of particular interest to Mindy. You see, he was sharing a story about his interactions with her aunt - her father’s sister - who he was friends with as a youngster. I must’ve drifted off quickly. Next thing I knew Dad was heading off for home. Said he’d see me around 8am for the late start.

It was almost time for Idol. The kids now home, we all gathered in the family to watch. Haley didn’t disappoint, but her performance was not the strongest, that I’ll admit. Instead, James Durbin was best. He did a Muse tune. I think it was called, Uprising. My thoughts: Jacob, Lauren and Scottie were the three worst.

The kids headed to bed after Idol. Mindy and I stayed up watching Break In, starring Christian Slater. Very funny, although I fell asleep before the very end. Headed to bed immediately afterwards. Tucked Bella in on my way to bed. Found a roll of scotch tape tucked under her pillow. Strange??? You just never know what you might find under there. Happens frequently. I went right to sleep. My shoulders were bothering me quite a bit.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Soaking Wet Runner

I was up a few minutes early and feeling pretty good. It was raining heavily. I could hear it beating against the roof and skylights. Bella was asleep in our bed after joining us in the middle of the night and during a loud thunderstorm.

I was downstairs by 532a staring out the back door and slipping into my exercise tennies. I could see that water was ponding in the middle backyard again. I wasn’t looking forward to my walk with Eiknarf, not to mention my run. I held out hope that it would let up soon.

By the time that I completed sit-ups and push-ups the rain had indeed subsided. A check of the radar revealed that the heaviest stuff had already passed us by. After a little coffee Eiknarf and I headed out. I didn’t bother with an umbrella. It was raining only lightly. Eiknarf took care of her business in orderly fashion. We were back after our usual ten minute stroll. I toweled her off once back inside.

Next up, meditation and stretching. Both went reasonably well. As good as my right shoulder was feeling last week, it was aching again this week. I must’ve strained the muscles that I sprained doing yard work or playing with Olivia. I didn’t bother delivering coffee to Mindy. She was taking a sick day. When she planned it, she figured Bella would be stating home too, but as of the night before, the plan was for Bella to return to school. She didn’t have a fever and claimed to feel better. Mindy would spend the day resting.

I readied for my run wearing a long sleeved wicking shirt and fleece (no gloves or ear covers). It was raining again but only lightly. That didn’t bother me. However, not a half mile into the run it started to rain heavily again and pretty much stayed that way through its duration. I was soaked head to toe. Because I was so wet, I chose to reenter the house through the garage that way I could strip out of my drippy clothes in the laundry room without trampling water through the house. As luck would have it, the pass through door was locked. I knocked twice before someone answered – Bella. Geesh, people!

Mindy brought me the beach towel she had draped over the newell post by the front door. I toweled off and stripped out of my wet clothes and reverted to my PJs temporarily and through breakfast. Bella asserted that she wasn’t feeling too well again and said she didn’t want to go to school. I think her knowing that Mindy was staying home made her want to stay home too. But Mindy would have none of that and instead insisted that she get with the program and get prepared for school. She moped and whined until bus time.

Since it was raining, the kids and I decided to wait for the bus from the comfort of the garage. We spotted Chrissy standing out in the now light rain. She started coming our way just as the bus pulled up. The kids dashed off for the bus. I headed back inside to do final prep and to say goodbye to Mindy, who was already snuggled up in bed again. I left for work at 810a. My work day was another busy one. At certain times during the day rain pounded against my office window. Couldn’t see squat! I was so busy that I didn’t bother taking a real lunch break, though I did eat from my desk.

Once again, I worked late after joining a conference call with a customer. Didn’t get out of the office until just before 6p again. By then the rain had pretty much stopped but by then there was ponding everywhere. Mindy had already left to take Bella to gymnastics and planned on making a couple stops while she was out. Jacob was planning to stay home. She let me know all this via email. Also let me know that there was tortellini in the microwave. Wouldn’t be home until some time after 7p.

At home I tended to my after work chores then warmed my toretellini and red sauce. I topped it with shredded sharp cheddar cheese as well as a little parmesan. I found a salad in the fridge too. Jacob confirmed that it was for me. Both were good, although I couldn’t eat all of the tortellini. Put what remained back in the fridge. Jacob asked if he could head out and ride his new bike. Like he often does, he was out and back in less than three minutes. That’s annoying.

After finishing my dinner I retreated to the livingroom with a book bent on doing some reading and napping. But I am not trying to fool anyone. I was incredibly sleepy and more bent on napping. I don’t think I made it through one entire page before my eyes became so heavy that I got lost in sleep.

At some point I heard Mindy & Bella come in but still wasn’t fully awake. Mindy came in to chat but I was too tired to carry on a meaningful conversation. She walked away frustrated. I got up at some point and made my way to the sofa where I fell asleep again. I didn’t wake up until Mindy asked me to tuck in the kids. What I didn’t realize was that she was off to bed too, or at least there to read. After tucking in the kids I caught a second wind and headed back downstairs. It was only 910p. I watched a little of the Reds game but then bounced over to one of the knowledge channels. Can’t readily recall what I watched. Mindy came to rail again asking me to come to bed. I joined her in bed around 1030p.

Monday, April 18, 2011

Beef Kabobs, Speech, Grass #2

I figured I was up a few minutes early but not too sure by how much. Turns out, by just a few. It was 532a by the time I made it to the downstairs to the kitchen. I had to prep coffee having blown off the chore the evening before. That took until 536a. Not a lot of time, but every minute counts when we're talking about my busy morning routine.

I glanced out back to find the return of cloudy skies. I no idea the temp, at least not until my sit-ups were done. It was 54 degrees with cloudy skies forecasted along with temps in the low 60s. And looking further ahead, the forecast looked worse,  very rainy and cool. No 70s until the middle of next week.

I eventually made it back to the kitchen where I whipped out 55 push-ups. Until then, I had no idea that I had a kink in my left wrist. Felt it as soon as I put my entire body weight on it. I muddled through the pain completing 55 push-ups anyway.

I enjoyed a cup of coffee while reading the Daily OM. Always feels good to gain a little perspective on life. Eiknarf and I headed out around 6a. We walked to the west. Through the cloud cover I could see what I assumed was the moon in the western sky. It was extremely bright yet severely distorted by clouds. Cool. Frankie took care of business after about a 10 minute walk.

Back at home I completed a meditation then a stretch routine. I was done with both by 625a. I prepped Mindy’s coffee then headed upstairs along with Eiknarf. Mindy was just getting out of bed. After a quick greeting I headed back downstairs to ready for my run.
I was out the door by 635a.

I ran the full 4.1 miles without any issues other than feeling a bit sluggish & tired. Yesterday’s yard work, I think, played a large role in that. In any case, I was happy when the run was finally behind me. Mindy and the kids were gathered in the kitchen, and my eggs ready and waiting at my usual place setting. Bella shared that she didn’t feel well. Said her nose was dry - bleeding even. Mindy asked Bella to bus home as normal and then asked Jacob to call her if there was a Beacon ambassadors meeting after school.  As it was, we didn’t have the new schedule. Mindy advised Bella to call her if she ended up sick in the office.

I headed off to the shower right after Mindy left. It was 733a. I was downstairs pulling together my lunch by 750a. Mindy packed me a salad, so all I had to throw together was some fruit and cheese. Didn’t take long at all. The kids and I headed off for the bus stop at 757a. Bella wasn’t her usual jovial self. Looked tired too. Kenny was out with the girls. Said he was off again and thought he might try to be fitted for a new driver around 9-10am. Weather was looking better than promised.

Frankie and I walked out front long enough for her to get a second chance to relieve herself. Can’t recall if she did or didn’t. Headed off for work at 810a.

Work went fairly well. I was crazy busy all day long, but forced myself to take a lunch by closing my door and relaxing for nearly an hour. That always does me some good. I talked with Mindy mid-afternoon, said she was on her way to pick-up Bella from school. I missed a call from a vaguely familiar number. After talking with Mindy I realized that it was her school’s number. Apparently Bella threw up at school and wasn’t feeling well.  I wasn’t surprised.  Mindy had invited my dad for dinner – grilled beef kabobs – but planned to call and inform him that Bella was sick and let him make the choice as to whether he still wanted to join us. Mindy asked that I call on my way home.

Outside, meanwhile, it looked like a much nicer day than forecasted. It was partly sunny and 71 degrees. I called Mindy as I left the office. It was already 6p. Working late! Mindy shared that Bella was feeling a lot better but that my dad decided to skip the visit caring not to chance getting ill.  While chatting with Mindy, Ashley rang in. I took her call. We chatted for the remainder of my drive home. Asked how Olivia made out at the skating party. Said she loved it. Ashley shared that hardly anyone attended, twenty people tops. When she was little it was a wildly popular event. I used to take all three girls. That’s back when Kelly and I were having marital problems. I had my eye on Ashley Miller’s mom, who attended every one of them just like me. To my eyes, she was a bombshell, and also single! J

At home, Mindy had the beef kabobs all but ready. Smelt delicious. Made fresh garden salads and broccoli infused rice, too. A few of the sirloin beef chunks on the kabobs were extra tough, but most of them fine. The weather, meanwhile, was still very nice, but the forecast for the next few days calling for nothing but rain. I asked Mindy if she would mind taking care of clean-up thus affording me the opportunity to cut the grass. The front needed it badly. She happily agreed. She added that Chrissy wanted us to come down to her house later to serve as the audience for a class speech she needs to deliver to 5 adults.

I headed out to cut the lawn. I used the wacker then edger first. Had to fix the stuck wacker line twice. Needs a new head. Oh the joys of yard work. About 2/3s of the front lawn was as thick as it’s ever been. Good thing I cut it when I did. Took about an hour beginning to end. The only part of the back needing addressed was up around the deck. It always comes in slower than the front.

It was 730p when I headed in for a quick shower.  I dressed in my PJs after. Chrissy called letting us know that she was now ready for us to come down. Mindy and I headed down leaving Jacob and Bella at home watching TV. Chrissy had the O’Connell’s over too. The four of us along with Kenny made up the required audience of 5. Had to video it too, and pan the applauding audience afterwards for full credit. I remember taking that same speech class back in 88-89’. Of course, back then, camcorders were rare. The professor video tapped us for later viewing.

Chrissy did her speech on her decision to go to college as an adult. I found it entertaining. She admitted before hand being nervous since she knows us all so well. Considering it here first speech, it was pretty good. She got choked up towards the end as she thanked those that were making her return to college doable. Cute! I’ll say this about Chrissy, she's a very determined young woman.

We didn’t hang out long since our kids were home alone. Back at home we tuned into the Science Channel watching a program about the sun. Totally cool stuff. Per the usual, Mindy and the kids were off to bed around 930p. I was up until just after 10p.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Skatin' Party

I was up for keeps at 730a. The sky looked halfway clear from the master bath window. That was encouraging to see. I quietly slipped out of the room and downstairs to the kitchen. I could hear Bella’s TV going. I wasn’t sure if she and Olivia slept with it on, or if they were awake and watching already again.

I started coffee then took a more thorough glance out back towards the sky. It was partly sunny and very breezy. I went to the PC while waiting on the coffee to brew. It was chilly, only 41 degrees. Wasn’t expected to reach even 60 that afternoon. Checked the Reds score. They won 11-2. Frankie was already scratching at the door. She and I headed out even before my first cup of coffee.

We walked to the west passing by the new neighbors who moved into David and Tessa's old house. They still own it, I believe. Of course that’s right where Frankie decided to take a dump. I scooped it up and toted it back home. By then the sun was out but the air still quite chilly. I had my new fleece zipped all the way up. Burr!

Back inside, it wasn’t long before I was greeted by Olivia who slipped down the stairs long enough to get some chocolate milk and cereal. She didn’t hang out long. She headed back upstairs to get Bella. Mindy was up a little later and already starting laundry and breakfast burritos. I readied for a run around 9am and headed out a couple minutes later.

It warmed up a few degrees but was still on the chilly side. I wore running gloves but no ear covers. I ran three miles just like most other Sunday’s. I was back home a little after 10a. Mindy was serving up the breakfast burritos and the kids were watching Bolt, one of Olivia’s favorite movies. Mindy offered to make me a burrito but I opted to make my own.
I joined everyone else already at the table, taking Jacob’s usual seat. Olivia asked if I would push her in the tree swing after breakfast. Yes. Jacob asked if he could shoot his rifle. Yes. Me and the kids headed out back a few minutes later. I took a tool bucket full of tools planning to tighten the rope railing of the tree house. However, I climbed up only to find the ropes all taught. I figured that Kenny must’ve taken care of them. I swung Olivia from the tree swing all the while Jacob fired his new rifle at a tree stump far removed from the girls.

Everybody occupied, I took care of a few yard chores, including ripping out last year's old pepper and tomato plants. Olivia and Bella helped. Just as I was finishing up, Mindy advised that she was gonna run to Toys R Us to pick-up Jacob’s new bike, a gift from Jimaken. He asked us to pick it up since we have the SUV. Mindy asked me to be prepared to take the kids to soccer in the event that she was late getting back. It really didn’t make sense to me. In fact, I offered to pick it up during lunch on Monday. Mindy insisted on going after it right then. I headed in for a shower.
By the time I was out of the shower and dressed, Bella let me know that her momma called and was already on her way back home. I had the kids ready themselves for departure ahead of Mindy’s return. Mindy was back by 1230p and we left for Jacob’s soccer game about ten minutes later. I bundled warmly, remembering how cold it typically is there. I sat out a heavier winter coat for Olivia, too but forgot it. Oops!

Ashley called earlier that afternoon to tell Olivia that she was taking her to a skating party that evening. That’s all Olivia talked about the rest of the afternoon. Everything came back to the skating party. As expected, it felt 10 degrees colder, and the wind more than twice as stiff. Holy smoke was it ever chilly! Mindy went back to the Honda for her parka. She bundled Olivia up in a stadium blanket. Jacob played goalie for the first time all year. Did really well, though his team got behind in the 2nd half and could never recover.

Mindy commented that Jacob was playing goalie when Olivia asked where she could find him. We about fell out of our chairs laughing when she responded by saying I thought he was playing soccer. Good point! 
After soccer we headed to Ashley’s to deliver Olivia. On the way, she went on and on about the skating party. At some point I told her that we were heading to the moon when she asked where we were going. She shared that she can’t go to the moon because she’s gotta go to a skating party. She added that we’d need a rocket ship to get to the moon. Again, too cute!

After dropping Olivia at home we headed back to our house. Once at home, Mindy and Bella promptly headed for the grocery store. Jacob and I planned on heading outside but not before making some lunch. Jacob had a breakfast burrito and I ate my leftover Chipotle that Mindy brought for me yesterday. After a yummy lunch we headed outside, Jacob to play, me to work in the yard.

Jacob took off on his new bike while I pulled weeds out of the front flower beds. While in the flower beds, I transplanted a number of volunteer blue May Salvia. Must’ve been about 10 of them. I was careful not to get my clothes dirty so I wouldn’t have to change before heading to dinner at Red Lobster. The plan was to be there at 530p. Jacob brought his new bike to me with a couple problems needing addressed: a frayed brake cable and his seat needing adjusted. I fixed both. I gave him an evil stare when he let the bike fall over seemingly without care two different times.

With the exception of the two hanging baskets in the Ash trees, I ridded all the deck pots and hanging baskets of their dead foliage. Before calling it an afternoon, I took inventory of the burning bush damage. Looks like 2 of 10 are completely dead, and then a couple more limping along. They were ringed by low crawling varmints, most likely rabbits or mice taking up shelter in amongst the thick English Ivy.

5 o’clock came upon us fast. Mindy & Bella were back from the grocery. It was time to leave for Red Lobster, Jacob’s birthday dinner venue. Nephew Joe was said to be meeting us there. We arrived a couple minutes late, but still ahead of Joe. He arrived no more than a couple minutes after we were seated.

As luck would have it, it was Lobsterfest, a time when they have all sorts of lobster specials on their menu. Mindy, Jacob and I each opted for one of those while Joe went with shrimp and pasta. Bella, on the other hand, chose mac & cheese from their kiddie menu. We ordered langostino nachos as an appetizer.

Our servers name was Jonathon, and he did a good job of keeping us happy. Dinner was good, and probably the best Red Lobster experience for me in a long while – no greasy fried stuff. Mindy pointed out a boy at the booth across the aisle staring at Bella in bewilderment. Looked mesmerized. Funny!
Bella, meanwhile, was oblivious to his lustful eyes. She was too busy playing with the lobster carcasses. 

Mindy picked up the dinner check, but Jacob chipped in too with his Red Lobster gift card. Thanks Princess. Thanks Jacoby!

Nephew Joe invited us to come see his new place after dinner. We accepted and followed him south to the new digs. Wow, impressive lot. Impressive house. Must be sitting on a full acre or perhaps even more. Met a couple of his roommate, Ryan and Nick I think. There was a female guest visiting, too, whose name currently escapes me. They were nice folks.

Joe has the master suite all to himself, complete with a large soaking tub seemingly in the middle of the bedroom. The kids thought that was coolest thing ever. We didn’t stay long, 10 minutes tops.

Instead of heading directly home, we decided to drive further south and down towards Grove City Rd. I was curious to see how close we were to an old girlfriend’s house, Jennifer Eickel, from way back in my early high school years. We stopped in a nice subdivision along the way that sports huge 4 or 5 acre lots and big beautiful homes. Can’t recall the name. One of Mindy’s teacher pals lives there. We headed on to Neff Rd, where Jennifer used to live. Honestly, though, nothing looked too familiar. I hadn’t been there for 37 years. Much has changed. I guessed which house it was. They all look so much smaller these days. Back then I remember it seeming huge.

After our little trip in time we headed back towards home. There was a gorgeous sunset. Sky looked like it was on fire. Arrived home just after 8p. Mindy agreed that the kids could play until 830p. I was surprised that she said yes. Jacob rode his new bike. Bella, I think, ran off to Makayla’s.

I eventually settled on the sofa with a big glass of ice water where we watched the Science Channel, Human Planet. I watched for over two hours and even after Mindy and the kids headed to bed. I joined Mindy in bed around 1015p.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Olivia and an Egg Hunt

Happy 11th Birthday Jacoby!!!

I got up around 8am after waking a couple other times near 6am not feelin' so well and fearing a hangover. Thank goodness I had enough foresight to choke down a few Advil before bed the night before. Aside from feeling a little groggy, I was fine. And after calisthenics and then walking Frankie, I felt even better.

It wasn’t that nice, about 52 and cloudy, though the clouds didn’t look too threatening. The forecast looked depressing. Cloudy and cool with a chance of rain anytime. I enjoyed coffee after I got back from walking Frankie. I took off on a run just after 930a. I ran just 3 miles, just like I do most other Saturdays.

The run went well. Home around 10am. Still cloudy and cool, but minus any rain. I decided to do a couple small chores. For starters and to get motivated, I headed to the garage where I transferred my golf clubs into my brand new cart bag. Secondly, I headed outside and used my hand held spreader to put down some Ortho ant and insect killer, focusing on the known mounds and then around the entire foundation. Next, I tested the textured spray paint I bought for touching up our deck table. Not a perfect match, but acceptable. Lastly, I topped off the hot tub.

We confirmed plans with Ashley to have Olivia overnight. Ashley said she’d bring her over after seeing a movie that afternoon. Mindy left for a Target run at some point, thinking it near 11am. Had to buy some baby gifts. After addressing my chores, I headed back inside where I spent an hour or two working on my blog. I hadn’t added any pictures for the past couple weeks due to a problem I was having with the Blogger editor. I finally figured it out. They released a new improved version and ever since, the older version that I’d been using for years stopped working correctly. It would still allow me to add photos but it would delete all of the embedded paragraph spacing, turning my blog entries into one giant mass of sentences.

While Mindy was away, I took a shower. Felt really good. Once she was back at home she made green bean casserole to take to the neighbors' Easter celebration slated for later that afternoon. I laid down for a nap around 3p.I might’ve drifted off for 10 minutes, but not much more. I’m guessing that it was near 330-4p when Mindy and I headed to the neighbors.

Kenny & Chrissy had a house full, and mostly folks we already knew. They served dinner earlier than usual, around 430p. Served Honey Baked ham as well as a host of sides, including Mindy’s green bean casserole. Chrissy headed out back to hide eggs for their Easter egg hunt, which she aid would start near 5p. Ashley called to let me know that she was on her way. I asked that she bring Olivia to Chrissy’s. I was out front walking Frankie when they pulled up. Olivia headed inside Chrissy’s while Ashley and I carried Olivia’s overnight gear back to our place. Ashley complained about her psoriasis. I guess its been acting up lately for some reason.

Ashley headed back home and I headed back to the neighbors. Chrissy was noticeably upset with one of Makayla’s friends parents. They apparently were supposed to bring her back home around 3p after going to the school carnival. It was now near 5p and they hadn’t heard a peep from her and the parents weren’t answering their phone, either.

Not wanting to keep all the wee ones waiting for the egg hunt, Chrissy started it without Makayla there. I helped Olivia. Chrissy said there were three golden eggs containing $20 each. Geesh. I hoped to find those. The wee ones were funny, walking right by the bright plastic eggs lying on the ground. Olivia must’ve collected 15-20 of them before it was all said and done, but sadly no money eggs. 

After the egg hunt, Kenny went to pick-up Makayla unannounced. That’s about the same time that I went to their livingroom sofa and took a brief nap. Hey, we’re close! I got up after lying down for about 30 minutes. At 630p I walked home to get a few beers. Up to that point I drank only water and soda. Said many times, I’ve never been one to like drinking alcohol during the day, unless of course we’re skiing. 

I brought back three beers: a CBC IPA, Southern Tier XXIPA, and a Hoppin’ Frog Mean Manaleshi. As planned, Jimaken brought Jacob and Bella home around 7p. Mindy went home to get the ice cream b-day cake she had made for Jacob. After all, this was his actual b-day. Jacob must’ve been embarrassed or something, because when Mindy lit the cake he dashed out the door. Mindy was none to pleased, having the candles lit and everybody gathered around to sing. She tore out after him. I heard many of the guests comment that they’ve never seen her that mad. I was a tad ashamed. When she came back inside she lit me up a little too.

She eventually calmed down and went back home after Jacob. They returned a few minutes later, and Mindy relit his cake and started the process over again. This time, however, Jacob sheepishly complied.

We hung out with the neighbors until almost 1030p. Everybody was tired including Olivia, who asked if we could go home. Cute. I made the mistake of pouring myself another beer thinking I’d be up to enjoy it. Not five minutes later I was dosing from the sofa. I put the beer in the fridge and headed to bed where Mindy was already sleeping.

Friday, April 15, 2011

Ten to Twenty

It was Friday and the beginning of another weekend. That fact alone made it so much easier to roll out of bed. It was something slightly beyond 530a. I was downstairs slipping into my exercise tennies minutes later while also glancing out the back door at the weather. The skies were partly clear. I completed calisthenics and spent a few minutes at the PC. It was 48 degrees at the time. The day's high was forecasted to climb into the mid to upper 60's. Unfortunately, the weekend ahead wasn't forecasted to be very warm or sunny.


I enjoyed a little coffee before heading off on a walk with Eiknarf. We walked out front, where and she took care of business somewhat assertively. We weren't back inside until 610a. I settled in for about ten minutes of meditation and then about five minutes of stretching. I then took the pug and coffee to Mindy, who was already well into the shower process.

I dressed in spring running attire (no gloves or ear covers). It was breezy and getting cloudier by the minute. I ran the full 4.1 miles without incident. During the run I thought mostly about work, retirement, and spring yard projects.

Back at home, I looked for Mindy's keys just inside the door but they weren't there. I asked if she wanted the Honda started. She did. She brought me the keys and I took care of the deed just ahead of settling in for breakfast. I enjoyed fried eggs and fruit. Bella ate chocolate frosted donut holes. Jacob had only chocolate milk. I reminded him that this was his final full day being 10. When his next (2nd) decade draws to a close he'll most likely be well into the college experience, have tried weed and alcohol, be driving his own car, and experienced having his heart broken a time or two by a couple hot little vixens. Mindy chimed in that at 530p tomorrow he'll be 11. She left for work about ten minutes early after reminding Bella to bus home as normal. I added that she wasn't to kiss any boys, either. She didn't care for the comment.

While Mindy headed out the door I ridded up my mess and then headed upstairs for a shower. At the time, I was unaware that I was well ahead of the clock. I found myself ready & downstairs even before 740a. I put together my lunch consisting of fruit, cheese, and a hunk of leftover filet mignon. Still had ten minutes before bus time. I played on my PC until then. As that time neared, I had to hurry Bella along. She was being her usual pokey self.

Kenny was at the bus stop with the girls again. Said he had the day off and planned to be fitted for a new driver at Golf Galaxy in the AM. Asked if I'd be interested in going in on renting a power edger one day soon. That would all but eliminate the need to edge the beds with a square shovel, a task that takes its toll on my body each spring. I agreed. The bus arrived at 804a.

As I walked back to the house I decided to drive the BM'er. The forecast promised early sun and temps now approaching 70, but with clouds and rain late afternoon and/or evening. It was a little dirty, having not been washed since September I'll bet, but figured what the hell. It couldn't have been more than 50 degrees as I drove off to work, but it was invigorating. The BM'er purred.

One of my guys walked in with me. Asked if the roadster was mine. Yep! He said he hated me. Told him I'd sell it to him. I was determined to have a good work day. The first thing I did was review Thursday's results. We did surprisingly well. That helped my morning considerably. Come 1p I left for lunch and drove to Golf Galaxy right up the road. This time I had my $10 off coupon and bought that cart golf bag I had my eye on last week. Only gone from the office for about 20 minutes, I still had enough time to run to my bank and deposit the check brother Tommy mailed. All totaled, I was out of pocket for about 45 minutes. I headed back to the office eager to finish the week on a high note.

The afternoon was a bit more challenging than the morning but all in all still quite manageable. I tried connecting with Ashley numerous times through the afternoon. I wanted to make arrangements to have Olivia Saturday night. We didn't talk until I was on my drive home. Made plans for Olivia to come over mid/late afternoon Saturday after they get back from seeing the movie, Hop. This was supposed to be a kidless weekend, but Jimaken asked if he could bring the kids back Saturday evening so he could get up early Sunday and run a 32 mile race. We agreed. Saturday is/was Jacob's actual birthday anyway. The neighbors are celebrating Easter this Saturday too, and planning an Easter egg hunt for all the kids.

I arrived home around 540p. By then the sunshine was all but gone. Looked like it might rain at any time. BM'er didn't get rained on at all. Not wanting to take a chance, I put the top up while it was parked outside at work, something I rarely do. Mindy & I chatted for a little while then took Frankie on a walk. She pooped and peed. Just as we walking up the driveway it started to rain. We hurried for the house. Big drops!

It must've been about 640p when we left for Barleys. I was very much looking forward to the weekend ahead. The lot was full, but someone was backing out of an up close spot as we pulled in. That's called living right. It was still spitting a little rain as we made our way inside. I spotted friend Steve W. sitting at the far end of the bar with a couple open seats next to him. I made my way around to sit with him while Mindy chatted with a few folks immediately inside the door.

I ordered a Centennial after sampling the Hoptopus on the firkin. Not much to my liking. First time seeing Katy since her marriage. She thanked Mindy & I for the card and cash. Two of Mindy's favorite school peeps were there, Kim and her husband Charlie, and Kerriane w/o husband. Charlie shared that he gave up beer for lint. One week to go. Mindy ordered a burger. I ordered nothing accept another beer. I think my second was a Centennial too. However, from that point forward I drank Brew Kettle's White Rajah. Doug H.'s co-worker and friend, Elija bellied up next to Steve and I at the bar.

Doug & Jamie (formerly known as Doomie) showed up I'm guessing around 830-9p. I had a good three beer buzz going by then. Doug, meanwhile, was on cloud nine announcing gleefully that he was now a divorced man. Cheers went up all around the bar, including one from me declaring their drinks on me for the entire evening. For some of us, divorce is like a second birthday.

Two of the Rick's were in, big and little. Big Rick showed off pics of his grandson and told of his recent southern states vacation.

For whatever the reason I was feelin' celebratory myself. I really let loose. Must've had 5 or 6 beers in total, and the last 3 or 4 Imperial IPAs. For the first time in a long while, we closed the place down. The tell-tale sign, chairs and stools placed atop the tables. And as a special treat to those who remained, I poured my heart out in song. :)

I paid the tab and Mindy drove us safely home. We checked to see if the neighbors were still up. Nope, the house completely dark. Just as well, I needed sleep, not more partying. I had the wherewithal to take four Advil before heading up to bed. We let Eiknarf join us in bed. She'd spent most of her day alone and wanted her people.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Hankering for Wings



I was up on time and downstairs engaged in sit-ups by 535a. Skyward, nothing but clear skies. Nice. Checked the weather. Still chilly – 40 degrees – but expecting a high of 70 degrees with sunshine. Yippie!

Did 55 push-ups just ahead of coffee and walking Frankie. We walked to the east where she took care of business in a hurry. We were back home by 604a. After giving Frankie a treat I settled in for ten minutes of meditation. Went really well. Next up, stretching.

Delivered coffee to Mindy who was just coming out of the closet. I’ve always had my suspicions.  Left Frankie there with her before heading back downstairs to dress for a run. Since it was 40 degrees, I still wore gloves and ear covers. I didn’t get out the door until almost 640a. It was daylight, and birds were singing like crazy. I suspect that they knew that it was going to be a banner weather day.

I ran the full 4.l mile track without incident. It was trash day. I put our can at the curb the night before. Because they hadn’t yet picked up by the time I was back home from my run, I was able to add the two bags of trash we had resting in the garage from Rachel day. I started the Honda before going in for breakfast.

Mindy made scrambled eggs topped with cheese. She let me know right away that there were some left in the pan for Frankie. Speaking of Frankie, she was going ape crying for eggs. Mindy suggested that I’ve created a monster. We’ve recently changed her food. Mindy bought Purina’s Beneful because they were out of the other. Not sure the difference between it and the other stuff, but she absolutely loves the Beneful. She woofs it down fast and in one setting.

Just before Mindy left for work she asked Bella not to kiss any boys at school. We’ve been careful not to speak of that entire ordeal in front of Jacob. He’d have a heyday with it. It was just after 730a when I headed up for a shower.

After a shower, Jacob and I headed out on the deck to shoot his airsoft rifle. It was Jacob’s first go round with it. He loved it. We spotted Kenny on his deck bringing Woody in. We joked that he was taking our target away. Inside, I packed a lunch then headed out to the bus stop with the kids. What a beautiful morning. Chrissy was out with Makayla.

Didn’t talk much. After the kids were on the bus we headed our separate ways. Frankie and I hung out front for a while but she did anything but sniff. Inside, I organized my gear and headed out through the garage. I grabbed my golf clubs hoping to visit the golf range at lunch. Off to work at 815a.

It was a lovely drive into the office. Would have been a nice ‘hooky’ day. Expecting sunshine and 70. I spent the entire morning analyzing data. Come 1p I set work aside and headed to the nearby Able’s golf range for the first time all season. Because it was so nice, I expected the place to be packed shoulder to shoulder. There was a good crowd, but by no means was it packed.

I bought a regular sized bucket of balls and headed to the south grass tees. I ran into Lori Landel and her bff Susan, both there to take a golf lesson. We chatted briefly before I headed to the tees.

I was fortunate enough to find a spot without someone right next to me. Being a lefty it’s critical that I am not back to back with a righty. My plan all along was to spend all my time working on my mid-irons (4 thru 7 iron). However, I warmed up with my sand wedge. I didn’t hit any of those irons consistently. Instead, I hit some good and some bad. But the more I slowed down my swing and stopped thinking the better I did. Duh! Good thing I didn’t have my expectations set to high. First time out I was happy just to be swinging my clubs.

After working through an entire bucket of balls I headed to the well-maintained, undulating green to work on putting. I felt really good over my putter and hit them all pretty well too. Gone about an hour, it was time to head back to the office. I arrived around 215p. The first thing I did was tear into my lunch. I was super hungry.

The afternoon in the office went fast. It was a nice feeling knowing that we didn't have to run one of the kids here or there. Instead, it was date night. The kids would be having dinner with Jimaken. I left the office around 520p. We hadn't nailed down where we'd be going, but I suspected we'd end up choosing Barleys. In the back of my mind I considered the Fish Market, but I wasn't really craving their appetizers. Instead, I had a hankering for wings.

Once home, we quickly decided on Barleys. I rinsed my lunch containers, prepped Friday's coffee, then brushed my teeth. We left for Barleys around 605p. The lot was full but we were fortunate enough to find one of the few remaining spots in the main lot. Janet was tending bar and quickly served me a Centennial IPA. It went down easy. Yum-yum. Talked briefly about her fast approaching wedding - April 30th - now just two weeks out. Time flies. Mindy had a St Joan's nitro.

After beer #1we ordered food. I went with K.C. wings while Mindy ordered a salad with warm meat at the suggestion of Rick, an older gentleman we had been dialoging with, and one we've seen in there more than once but hadn't previously met. Most of the evening's conversation centered around the antics of Gov. Kasich. Not sure what's up his behind.

The wings were really good. Enjoyed a second Centennial. Before heading out I placed an order for 10 Gates of Hell wings to take home to Jacob. Mindy took home about half her salad too. We left for home around 740p. I drove.

Surprised to see Jimaken's car already sitting in front of the house. The kids headed inside with us. It was near 8p. We all readied to watch American Idol results night. I was hoping that Paul would be going home. Haley was once again in the bottom three, along with Paul and Stefano. I said I'd stop watching if Haley was sent packing. My wish was granted, Paul was the one sent packing. Justice prevailed. During the Idol hour, Jacob woofed down the 10 wings we brought home. The rest of us enjoyed popcorn from the sofa.

Now 9p, Mindy sent the kids to bed. Mindy and I started watching Bones, but I fell asleep probably 20 minutes into the program. Can't recall the time when Mindy woke me for bed.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Airsoft Ants & Sunshine

I over slept by about 10 minutes, but in the grand scheme of things, not a big deal. It did, however, force me to hustle through the early part of my routine. I was caught up by dog walkin’ time, getting myself back on track by minimizing PC time. I walked Frankie even ahead of enjoying coffee. There was a completely clear sky but still only 40 degrees. We walked out front and across the street, an old Ykraps path that Frankie and I have never traveled together. She must’ve liked it. She took care of her business much faster than usual. Before doing meditation or stretching, I enjoyed some coffee. Went down easy. Started meditation at 610a and spent ten minutes doing so. Come hell or high water, I was determined to fully quiet my mind. Meditation went even better than expected. Stretching went well, too. Delivered coffee and Frankie to Mindy, who was already mid-shower. Dressed and left for a run by 638a – a couple minutes later than desired. It was already darn near daybreak, the beginning of a 6 month stretch where of running in full daylight. Wahoo! The sun, however, didn’t crack the horizon until I approached the three mile mark. It was a gorgeous sunrise. Back at home, I wondered if Mindy would have her keys waiting by the front door. She did. I started the Honda on her behalf. Inside, my eggs were ready and waiting. The were especially good. As she does most mornings, Mindy reviewed the evening’s plans, which included Jacob's soccer practice. She asked if I would be willing to take him. Probably, but not something I was looking forward to since I’d no sooner get home from work and have to head right back to the Hilliard soccer field. Mindy did it last week, however. She left for work and I headed off to the shower. I had an extra bounce in my step brought on largely by the sunny spring forecast. Supposed to be nice for the next 2 days, at least, and maybe three. I could hear Jacob and Bella playing rough while I dressed. Jacob was tackling Bella when I went to check on them. I packed my lunch with the few minutes I had before bus time. I packed another foil package of tuna to go along with my fruit and cheese. The kids and I headed out at 757a. Kenny was out with the girls for the first time in a while. Kenny was off work and going on a field trip with Lillian’s class. Jacob would benefit from Kenny’s presence too (same class). Going to see Aesop’s Fables at Vets memorial. Jacob didn’t sound excited at all. With the nice weather, Kenny said he hoped to cut grass too. Frankie played a while longer outside, but when she started eating goose poop I headed her back towards the house. Before heading off to work, I installed the charged battery in Jacob’s airsoft rifle and filled it with a handful of airsoft BBs. I took it out on the deck and gave it a whirl both in automatic and semi-automatic mode. Cool! Fires nice, but not nearly as powerful as my pump BB gun. More I thought about it, probably a good thing. I headed off to work without my golf clubs. Need to visit the range a time or two. The drive in was very nice. Looked and felt like spring. It didn't even occur to me to drive the BM'er. I arrived at the office just ahead of 830a. I spent the first 30 minutes prepping for our 9a staff meeting call. For better or worse, I had a lot to say and share. In fact, more than all the others put together. I don’t necessarily like it to be that way. I went from one call to another, and before I knew it was afternoon. I ended up eating at my desk. I was really that busy. The afternoon went as fast as the morning. I took a call from Mindy late afternoon. I think she was on her way home from school still. Reminded me about soccer practice and wanted to know if I was still planning to take Jacob. Yes. She also shared that she received but missed a call from Bella’s school. She returned it only to be transferred to a guidance counselor of sorts. Apparently, Bella kissed a boy in the hallway which caused quite an uproar amongst her 2nd grade peeps. I made sure that Mindy felt as I, that while being concerned, it wasn’t something to punish her over. Mindy concurred. We both were curious to hear Bella’s side of the story. Mindy planned to see if Bella would share without probing. Oh boy! And so it begins. Work was busy right up until I departed. I had to force myself out just after 530p. It was lovely – about 64 and sunny. I wasn’t looking forward to doing the soccer practice thing, but it is what it is. Jacob loves it. The grass greened up like crazy during the day. Very noticeable. Inside, the house was quiet. The kids were out playing. Right away, I noticed a noxious odor in the kitchen. Smelt like bug spray. Mindy confirmed as much. Said she sprayed for ants after finding piss ants crawling all over our kitchen floor. I could see wet trails of spray. I was not pleased at all and shared as much. Instead of coming home to calm, I came home to a noxious, unhealthy environment. Mindy assured me that she sprayed only under the lip of the island. However, while doing my after work chores I could see a wet trail pretty much all the way around the perimeter of the kitchen. Not entirely sure what spray she used, either. I was upset. The last stuff I bought was odorless. I was afraid she used outdoor stuff. Suddenly, my mood was sour. Mindy saw Chrissy out back and headed out to chat while also coralling Jacob for soccer practice. The way the house smelt, I wanted to leave immediately. It was 605p before Jacob came in to ready. I hurried him along then we left for practice. I only hoped that traffic wouldn’tbe an issue, and it wasn’t. We made good time arriving at 625p – five minutes early. The drive, however, damn near put me to sleep. While Jacob ran off to practice, I put the seat back and took a much needed nap. Slept for about 30 minutes. Felt terrific. I woke at 700p and spent the rest of the time listening to the Reds game. I brought along a book but didn’t bother cracking it. The Reds were up 1-0. Jacob’s team was one of the last off the field – figures! We didn’t get home until 8p. Just before pulling up at home, Jacob asked if we could shoot his new rifle. I doubted it given that the sun was setting, plus my first priority was dealing with my hunger. And honestly, I was still steamed at Mindy for the ant spray thing. I don’t trust anybody spraying poisons inside the house, especially in the kitchen. Was it on our utensils, counter, or worse yet, the food in the pantry? Mindy made Jacob a grilled cheese right away. Offered to make me one too. No thanks. I went to my PC until she was done in the kitchen. I was starving. It was hard to wait. Mindy and the kids tuned to American Idol. I listened from afar. Once Mindy went to the sofa, I went to the kitchen and warmed a leftover burger topping it with cheese and jalapeño cilantro hummus. Very tasty! Once my belly was full I felt a lot better. I eventually joined the family on the sofa where we watched the rest of Idol. I was looking forward to seeing Haley. For my money, she was one of the best again. Surprisingly, the judges didn’t’ see it that way. I don’t care. She did Blondie’s, Call Me. The dress and boots were to die for too.  Let’s see, this should be Paul’s last hoorah. See ya, dude! Mindy shooed the kids off to bed at Idol's conclusion. She wasn't too far behind, heading to bed a few minutes later. I tucked in the kids then headed back down stairs. I stayed up to watch Break In, or something like that. I started to dose off around 1005p and headed up to bed. I checked the Reds final on my way up. They lost 3-2. Dang it! Mindy was already out.

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

What Time is It?

After a so-so night of sleep, I woke a few minutes early, though wasn’t 100% certain of that initially. You see, at some point Monday my bedroom clock must’ve lost power causing it to flash and stick. I didn’t realize it until I was already in bed that night. Rather than get up and reset the time 2.5 hours ahead like it had been since the move to DST, I simply started it from where it was then made a quick glance towards Mindy’s clock to calculate how far off it was. Such a quick maneuver has burned me before. Another variable was not knowing how far ahead Mindy's clock was set. I guessed it to be about 15 minutes fast. I ended up waking at 520a. I apologize for taking the long winded way to explain. I made the most of the early rise. I had my sit-ups done even before the coffee maker kicked on. Oh yeah, it was cloudy and raining – pretty hard too. Ugh! After sit-ups I checked the forecast. Rain all day with a high of 50. Sunshine and 60s both Wednesday & Thursday though. Wahoo! Next up, push-ups. Both shoulders remained stiff, but not enough to warrant taking any Advil, at least not yet. I enjoyed some coffee and a little more internet time before tending to Frankie. She and I headed out a few minutes later. It was still raining but not nearly as hard. We walked towards the east and she took care of all her business fairly quick. Didn’t seem to mind the rain much at all. I enjoyed a little more coffee before doing meditation. That went much better than it has in a while. I am determined to straighten out my morning priorities. Stretching was completed by 615a and Mindy’s coffee delivered 5 minutes later. Mindy wasn’t even out of bed yet. Said she typically likes to sleep five minutes longer. Who knew? Frankie wanted up on the bed with Mindy. I obliged her request before heading back downstairs to ready for my run. I dressed in fresh running clothes, a thin wicking shirt, fleece, ear covers – no gloves. That proved about right. Out the door, the rain was reduced to just a sprinkle. For that reason alone I was thrilled. I ran the full 4.1 miles. By run’s end I was completely wet – not soaked but wet. Mindy made scrambled eggs covered in cheddar cheese. Had some left in the pan for Frankie, though I didn’t serve her hers until I was done with my own. She was whining profusely. She wanted some eggs – dammit.  Mindy gave the kids after school instructions, which included busing home as usual. And given that Bella had gymnastics, it was gonna be a leftover night. Mindy left for school at 730a. Right behind her, I was on my way to the shower. I was back in the kitchen by 750a packing my lunch. Mindy made it simple by making me one of those yummy salads topped with ham and cheese the day before. All I had to pack was cheese and fruit. That took no time at all. The kids and I headed for the bus stop at 757a. Met Chrissy and Makayla there. Bus was there and gone by 804a. Frankie and I headed back towards home, allowing her a few more minutes to sniff around the yard. Once it was clear that she was looking for goose crap, we headed inside. It was a Rachel day. To that end, I ran the dishwasher before heading out the door. I thought about taking my golf clubs but didn’t. Off to work at 815a. Arrived at work just ahead of 830a. Thankfully, the day got off to a much better start than the one prior. Participated on a couple calls, one started at 1p, the time I usually take lunch whether I leave or simply close my door. Such is life.  I wasn’t able to enjoy my packed lunch until almost 230p. By then I was ravenously hungry. It rained pretty much all day long, though the sky began to brighten to our NW around 4p. I left the office for home around 530p remembering that it was a gymnastics night for Bella. I called Mindy once I hit the road. She was still at home but preparing to leave. Said Jacob was going with. She did ask that I be prepared for Jacob to request we shoot his new airsoft guns when they got back. Said she warned him that I might decline due to the rainy weather. I figured that request would be coming, and understand where he’s coming from. But still, I had no desire to got out in the rain to shoot the airsoft gun. I arrived home to a squeaky clean and empty house. Nice! I went about my usual after work chores and then went through the day’s mail. By then the sun was fully out, the dark rain clouds now to our immediate east. Knowing how happy it would make Jacob, I opened his airsoft guns. The sealed plastic packaging was ridiculous to open. In the process, I cut my thumb on the hard plastics shards after cutting into it with scissors. I was still at it when Jacob and Mindy got home. I probably used a swear word or two. Mindy had chicken & noodles simmering on the stove, which would serve as our dinner. I wasn’t expecting anything, so I was delighted. She dished them up while I finished opening the airsoft packaging. Once we got into the packaging, I sat the guns aside until after dinner. Jacob hurried through his dinner. I suggested he begin reading the instructions that came with the guns familiarizing himself with their operation. He did as I suggested. I took care of the quick clean-up while Mindy left to fetch Bella from gymnastics. Jacob and I together went over the airsoft instructions. The rifle runs on battery power and required a 4 hour charge. We wouldn’t be experimenting with the rifle that night. Even though the sun was out, the yard was a big mud puddle. I suggested he shoot the pistol from the perch of the deck at the lazily lounging geese. He was very excited to do that. I had him load the pistol with 14 airsoft (plastic) BBs, following the direction to a T. He must’ve reloaded the pistol 5 or 6 times. He eventually got out the gel target and took aim at that from only 10’. Pretty good shot. I went for my BB gun to compare velocity. Mindy & Bella were home in short order. Mindy asked if she could shoot the airsoft pistol a few times. Interesting - fun. Inside, Mindy had the kids ready themselves for bed. Afterwards, Bella did her reading while Jacob watched TV. I went horizontal on the sofa thinking there no way I would fall asleep with Bella reading right behind me. She’s not exactly a quiet reader. Within minutes I was out cold. Sound asleep. I didn’t wake until 930p when I heard Mindy & Bella going back and forth about some TV program that Mindy caught her watching from her room. Mindy doesn’t allow the kids to watch Cartoon Channel. Whether one agrees is irrelevant. Both Jacob and Bella know the rules. Get caught, you lose screens. The heated exchange involved a lot of pleading on Bella’s behalf. She kept insisting she had merely surfed by without watching on her way elsewhere. Choosing to stay out of it, I headed off to bed. Mindy caught up with me half way there and asked that I tuck in both kids. I was still half asleep, but did as she requested. Bella immediately pleaded her case with me. I assured her that all would be OK and to get some sleep. Tucked Jacob in too. Much less drama in there. Just before Mindy and I closed our eyes, Mindy shared that she wanted to believe Bella this time. OK. While lying in bed, instead of getting sleepier, I got a second wind. Little wonder after that 2 hour power nap. Much to Mindy’s dismay, I got up and headed downstairs to watch TV (hopefully the late Reds game from San Diego). It was on. I watched into the 5th inning. They were up 2-1 when sleep came over me once more. It was near midnight. Good night very bright moon!

Monday, April 11, 2011

Unusually Warm Morning

I was up at 530a ready to face the new work week ahead. I was downstairs a few minutes later with stale running clothes in hand glancing out the deck door towards the sky. Cloudy. I slipped into my exercise tennies then headed to the living room where I quickly whipped out 55 sit-ups. I mistakenly wore my exercise tennies to cut the lawn on Sunday. This I didn’t realize until I was done. I was reminded again this morning as I left a trail of yard debris behind as I tromped through the house. I played around online for about ten minutes checking the weather and reading some headlines. The temperature was a whopping 71 degrees with an expected high of 77 degrees along with a serious chance of storms. Unfortunately, much cooler weather on the horizon. Completed 55 push-ups then enjoyed a cup of coffee. It was 6a in a hurry. Leashed up Frankie next and then headed out for our morning walk. We walked exclusively out front and to the west. Frankie spent a lot of time sniffing, but little time doing. After a long walk she only peed. I was a little frustrated with her but what could I do short of giving her a squeeze.  It was 615a by the time we were back inside and I was settled down for meditation. I am ashamed to admit that I have allowed my meditation habits to slide over the last month, not dedicating the time necessary for a thorough exercise. I moved onto stretching at 625a. That went well, though my shoulders, especially the right, were very stiff. I headed upstairs with coffee and Frankie for the first time in more than a week. Mindy was mid-shower. I dropped off the coffee and let her know that Frankie would likely need to go out again before I returned. I then headed back downstairs to ready quickly for a run. I headed out the door at 640a. I wore long running pants and a thin wicking shirt. Given the 71 degree temp, I was on the warm side. I ran the full 4.1 miles without any problems. It was daybreak one mile into the run. Not only that, but the sky was clearing up some too. Mindy and the kids were up and preparing to sit for breakfast. My eggs were ready. Bella was tired and snippy. Mindy didn’t allow that to continue long at all. Asked Bella to present a better attitude. She quickly complied. Mindy briefly outlined our evening plans. She planned on grocery shopping after school but expected to be home in time to intercept the kids. She was banking on leaving school early since it was a work day without students (order day). Thought we might have rotisserie chicken for dinner. Mindy left at 730a. I soon headed up to shower while the kids played Wii and took care of their teeth and rooms. I was back downstairs and ready by 750a. I spent the next five minutes preparing my lunch. For the first time ever, I packed tuna in a foil pack. Just before bus time, it started to rain. Jacob headed out first while Bella and I lagged behind. By the time we got to the door it started to pour buckets of rain. Bella and I both grabbed our umbrellas. Poor Jacob. He was out in the rain. It was raining so hard that we opted to wait in the garage. Jacob saw our move and came running for cover, too.  He was soaked. The bus pulled up at 804a. The kids hustled out to the waiting bus. Chrissy and I exchanged brief pleasantries then headed our separate ways. It was still raining but not nearly as hard. I took care of a few odds and ends then headed off to work. Gas gauge was low. I really needed to stop for gas soon. I opted to stop then. Gas was $3.76 per gallon. Trooper took roughly 18.5 gallons and the total was about $61. Yikes! It was sprinkling throughout the commute into work. I arrived near 830a. I was in a good mood in the door, but that quickly changed after an unexpected confrontation. Sometimes work is just that – work! I did my best to get beyond the the conflict and refocus my energy towards the positive. Worked so-so.  I worked diligently all morning long and took a lunch break some time near 1p. I headed to Home Depot bent on picking up a few yard work related items. I grabbed a cart immediately in the door and headed to the lawn and garden department where I carted a telescoping pruning saw, 22” electric hedge trimmers, and two cans of spray paint – purple for the flamingos and textured black for our patio table. I picked up a bag of Ortho lawn insect killer too. Got to hit those damn ants now. I was back at the office by 150p. Thankfully, the afternoon went along much smoother than the morning. It started raining fairly heavily again and kept up for most of the afternoon. In fact, it was still raining when I left the office at 530p. I knew my dad would be there for dinner after receiving a call from him while I was in Home Depot earlier. Apparently I butt dialed him while shopping prompting him to call me back. Oops! I decided to leave my new purchases in the Trooper. Greeted everyone inside. Saw right away that Jacob’s airsoft rifle arrived. He already had it unpacked and asked about shooting it that night. It was raining, so we all agreed that it was a bad idea. Mindy was busy dishing up dinner while we all talked. Bella was busy playing Wii but was quickly prompted to shut it down and ready for dinner. Soon we were all seated and enjoying rotisserie chicken. Everybody raved about the dinner. Bella asked to be excused and wanted to head to Makayla’s. We made her finish her 15 minutes of reading first. After Mindy checked Jacob’s homework and he corrected it, he headed off to play too, but only after taking Frankie out for a brief walk. I wondered how beneficial it was as he quickly returned with muddy paws and no joy. He headed off to play with Evan. Mindy, dad, and I enjoyed more of Jacob’s b-day brownies. Frankie scratched at the door again. Mindy hollered for Jacob to come home and walk her again. Surprisingly, he came without much pushback. I think it was the third call back that he started spouting off to Mindy and she promptly sent him to his room for the evening. That was roughly the same time that dad excused himself and headed for home. Mindy transferred dog duty to Bella, who willingly complied. Jacob cried from his room. Mindy eventually allowed Jacob to rejoin us downstairs for family time. We tuned into one of the knowledge channels, but for the life of me I can’t recall anything about the program. Sometime during the hour I fell asleep on the family room floor. I woke around 1045p to a dark house and headed up to bed.